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writes:I am female, mid 30s and am married but for the past 3 years have been attracted to women. Is it something that comes over you after you have a kid? My husband travels allot and when he's in town, wish he would go back. Within the past three years, 3 women in particular i have met are like stimuli. We talk, laugh, share our emotions, its like a connection. All of these women are different. The age group,culture,professions, 1 out of 3 have kids.all are married. Am i gay because i am intellectually stimulated by being near these women, not physically ,but emotionally. I feel so connected when I am with them or talking with them. I enjoy the times we spend together.None of the times have been romantically,sexually. Although I sometimes think how it would be if I became linked sexually with these women, it has not crossed my mind to act on it. Am I just a woman looking for some stimuli because my husband travels allot and these women are stimulants for me. I look forward to seeing them,talking to them and spending time with them. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
If you are hanging out with women and feeling this way Id say its fantasy, If you had a male friend you may feel the same, And it is probably because your husband is away, Im am bisexual but in a commited relationship and I have been with women but prefere my long term relationships to be with a man, The women have only ever come into it when ive been inbetween a relationship. So hunny Id say maybe you are having bisexual fantasys there is nothing wrong with that, But when you say you want your husband to go back then I think you are thinking more about loosing your time with these friends as they are your security while your husband is away, So when he comes back you need to go back to your comfort zone, You need to find out why your comfort zone with your husband has gone apart from him going away alot, As it should I would have thought excited you that he was coming back, That could turn into a problem area if not addressed but the fantasys are fine if they are kept that way sweetheart, You may have always had these feelings and they are just surfacing now hunny There is a book called married women who love women ill send you the link love then you can make your own mind up if its the way you feel hope it helps.
http://www.amazon.com/Married-Women-Who-Love/dp/1555835554
TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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