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writes:Okay so I am incredibly dumb! I finally started talking to the guy I've been crushing on- you know just small talk. He knew my ex, but I told him we broke up (because we did)and I see him at a bar a couple of weeks later. He started making stupid faces at me (he's kinda a jokester and most girls say he's an asshole, but he was always nice to me- not after this though). And his friend goes, hows your ex? And then my crush asked who dumped who. And of course I dumped him, and my crush gives me a high five. So the next day, I see him and I ignore him (this is why I am dumb). I always say hi to him, I was curious to see if he would say hi first. We even have class together (he's always staring at me and I catch him!) I kept seeing him but then I never had the courage to say hi to him, again. (I just freeze). Weeks pass, and we're at the bar, and I see him looking of course, and I finally go up to him and he keeps it short and leaves! I basically got what I deserved for never saying hi. What can I do to make it better?
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reader, Fasion victims  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 hellome and my sister are totally different to you. We kind of find it easy talking to guys we like. but if your getting scared everytime you see him and everytime you want to say hi you carnt then you oviously like this guy. dont be afraid to act who you are around him. If you want to make things better then apologize and explain to him why you kept finding it hard to talk to him. Plus if your friends say to you hes and asshole you could be scared of loosing them because you like him. we suggest talking to him and explaing but then tell your friends hes different around you.lots of lovefasion victimsxxxx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 You can say hi to him again and smile your sweetest for him. You did not say hi to him and he thought you were angry over something. He will melt again when you smile at him.
Don't worry about that short rebuff, if he likes you he will open up again.
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