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writes:i am 14 and my life is going down hill first1.i am a very old (i am 14)2. my best friend of 10 years is on the edge of moving to canada3.i have lost my very expensive ipod4.my sister is a druggie5.the boy i like is madly in love with another girl6. i am falling out with my mates7.i feel i am a waste of spacewhy do i feel so down any advice to look on the brighter side of life?why is my life going down hill ive done nothing wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your help i rated them all 5 stars
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 I'll try and answer all of 'em for you...
1. You're not very old, you've just started out pretty much.
2. There's nothing you can do f your friend moves, there's nothing your friend can do either if their folks decidce to move away, your best strategy would be to keep in contact.
3. That's not nearly enough to make your life go downhill, it sucks sure, but for the most part it's just spilled milk.
4. How old is your sister? And how into drugs is she (what drugs does she do, etc)? Talk to your sister about it, alot ofpeople try out drugs at ome point, is she actually an addict or does she just do them from time to time? Depending on the drugs and the level of moderation using drugs can be a fairly safe but stupid habbit.
5. If he's 14, he's not madly in love with anyone, I guarantee it. When I was 14 everyone who had a bf/gf claimed to be madly in love, I'm 17 now and none of those people have continued dating the people they claimed to of loved so much.
Give it time and things between him and her will eventually turn sour. That's a mean thing to hope on, but most people at some point still do, whether they'd admit it or not.
6. This happened to me when I was 14, I hang out with maybe one or two of the people I hung with back then, now I've got a completely different group of friends, who I get along with even better.
7. Lots of people get depressed when they're around 14, I did, it's just a shitty stage in life for alot of people, it's boring, people treat you like a kid, it isn't until you're around 16 that I find life starts getting funner. Since you're morerespected, you can drive, get a job, you feel almost like an adult at that point which is descent.
I rpomise things will start getting better, I hated lfie when I was 14, hated it.
That wasn't very long ago and now I think it's great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): I think you should go to the doctor and have a talk with him or her. You might need some extra support. There is no shame in doing this, in fact its a brave step you need to take. Look after yourself, you have a lot of stress to deal with.
Hope this helps xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): I felt anceint on my 16th birthday. It will pass.
Some of us feel thier lowest sometimes. I know I do. I regret everyting down to what I wore on such and such a day. I regret things I've done, people I've hurt, lies I've told. It boils down to letting is pass over. Peace will come.
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