Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??

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Question - (12 January 2008)

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A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago.

She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry.

Does this mean she's not over me? Or it brought back happy memories? Or is this the same? Should I contact her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008):

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I asked her why it made her cry and she said "Memories. Just memories." However, I took this to mean more. Why would she feel the need to repeat it? Am I right?

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A female reader, always.you +, writes (14 January 2008):

well i think you should give her some space to see whats shes missing

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A female reader, bemused +, writes (13 January 2008):

Sounds like her words say one thing and her actions something very different indeed. I agree with the other posters that it sounds like there is something there still.

Perhaps time and space is what she needs...yes. She is currently seeing someone else and he could be a rebound. I guess I am wondering about that relationship if you got together on a Saturday night so you could give her a cd. She may just want to try it out with him so she could be juggling both of you a bit as she knows you still care. I would suspect she knows you still care as you gave her this cd. As she was the one who let you go I would back away right now and try to move on. She may come back...she may not. She may be holding the cards here. I would establish some equilibrium and get on with your life..and see what happens. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008):

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Thanks for the answers so far. I'm worried though because she's told me we can never be together again, because she "knows where the story ends" - basically she fell out of love with me. Should I give her time/space (I haven't really since we broke up) or should I flirt with her?

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A female reader, Astrid +, writes (13 January 2008):

Yes I think she is not over you and if you're interested you should talk it over about your split and try to solve it

good luck

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A female reader, always.you +, writes (13 January 2008):

yes you should ask her why she cried but yeah i think it's because she's not over you

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