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writes:Just before New Year I came back from holiday and I had just, so I thought - finished my period. The evening I first saw my boyfriend after I came back, we tried to have sex but I managed to get blood all over his red sheets. His family were at home at the time and I told him that I'd clean it up, but he told me he would do it later when his family weren't at home. I've recently broken up with my boyfriend and he has gone back to university, however there is a possibility we will get back together after having a break from each other. Yesterday he sent me a text to say that his mum questioned why there was blood on his sheets back home (which turned out he didn't clean up!) and why he had a condom wrapper under his bed. It is so shameful and his dad is our family doctor which makes it even worst - now i must have created a really bad image of myself, I am so embarrassed and also annoyed that my ex didn't clean up the mess afterwards. If we get back together how will I able to face his parents again? How shall I handle the embarrassment? Would it be possible to explain what happened even if it is the most awkward thing imaginable? Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): i don't think it is that big of a deal, you're 18, you are adults. It might be a bit embarrassing to have to talk about it but it's plain simple: tell them you had sex, while on your period, hence the mess. if his father his a doctor he'll know there's nothing wrong with that. Plus, you used protection ;)don't worry too much about it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): don't worry about it so much! they've probably been there and done that
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): i don't think it is that big of a deal, you're 18, you are adults. It might be a bit embarrassing to have to talk about it but it's plain simple: tell them you had sex, while on your period, hence the mess. if his father his a doctor he'll know there's nothing wrong with that. Plus, you used protection ;)don't worry too much about it!
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 I think there is nothing to be ashamed of, They do not even need to know it was u who slept in there so.... And if they get to know it it is something normal which could have happened to anyone. It is not your house so if he told you not to clean it up it was normal for you not to do it love
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