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36-40,
*azza13
writes:I'm getting a bit fed up of meeting girls and nothing actually becoming of it, how do i know when a girl is actually interested and wants a bit more than a drunken fumble? How can i meet some one that i can have some good times with, i just seem to be going around in circles and my friends say its not me because i'm really nice, i just dont understand why no one likes me!!please helpthanks
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reader, Kodgypie +, writes (17 January 2008):
perhaps don't pick up drunk girls .... a good quote i heard recently was that "you won't choose a house or car drunk, so how to you exspect to choose a suitable partner drunk?? I thought it was cool anyways as it had never occured to me. hope it helps slightly. Maybe try picking up the ladies in a non-alcoholic environment.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (13 January 2008):
 Stop going to bars to meet women. There's other places. You could join a book club, take up a dance class, art, pottery, guitar. You name it, you will find women there doing the same thing and you'll be less likely to be used after they've had too much to drink. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): i think it more to do with the "place" your meeting girls as opposed to the "kind" of girls your meeting. If you met maybe even the same girl you met when she was drunk in a club, earlier that day in a cafe - things would probably have been totally different. It's not that these girls are of a particular "type" or "don't respect themselves" it's just that if the first time you encounter someone is when your drunk you automatically think it was a mistake - and are embarrassed by the first impression you've made. It's not that these girls don't like you, they probably do - it's just they'll feel a bit stupid for having a few too many and probably wish they'd met you under different circumstances. So next time you meet are girl in a club, don't do the drunken fumble thing - ask her for her number and text her the next day when she's sober and things'll be very different - and she'll know you actually do like her and didn't just think she looked easy because she was drunk =) xxx
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (13 January 2008):
 well a friend of mine is a lesbian. red head. fanstastic body on her. pretty shy. doens't drink to get drunk.and is looking for a women. been trying to hook her up for a while.want her email?
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reader, scythe +, writes (13 January 2008):
 well, if you want a serious relationship you should change the way you approach potential partners. don't be sleasy or come onto a girl on the first date. ask her out properly and maybe even take her somewhere nice. be polite and gentleman-like.thats how i would know a guy was serious and not just after sex.good luck!
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