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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay well me and my bf have been going out for just over 3weeks now, we were always really close before hand anyway.we went to the cinema together last week and yea sat in the back row etc. he kept kissing me etc. and touching my breasts, i was also wearing a skirt with tights, and he put his hand between m legs and started stroking me etc.anyways im going over his in 2 days, and he says we can lie on his bed and watch films etc. but i wondering how far he will take this. im willing to go further but i am wondering what people think, is it to early to have a slightly physical relationship (not sex though) but still. and what is acceptable. thanks.
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reader, I.miss.yooh  +, writes (14 January 2008):
If you need to ask questions like this.. then your obviously questioning whether your ready or not. Its not a race.. take your time until you feel ready.
But you's havent even been together for a month, so i would say its a little early, considering your age. Just wait until you know its right.. otherwise you may end up regretting something.
hope it all goes well.
much love xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): It all depends, it only depends, on what you feel comfortable with. If you are comfortable with it, then its fine. If you arent, then its not fine at all.
It does sound as though you have doubts, when you say you are "willing" to go further and also because you are wondering what people will think. If you are bothered about that, perhaps the time isnt right. Besides which, it is no-one elses business and your boyfriend should respect this.
think it over first, so you know whats right
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