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Very confused over my sexual orientation...help me sort this out!

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Question - (12 January 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 31 year old male. All of my sexual encounters have been with men. However after these encounters I feel the need to take super long showers or baths ( 5 hours or more each. All the time after every encounter. I have scrubbed my skin raw a few times. I brush my teeth so hard they have bled. After any sexual encounter I feel dirty, greasy, and slimy. What can I do to make myself not feel this way???? I am still very confused about my sexual orientation. Sometimes I feel attracted to women. How can I sort this out???

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntLittle OCD going on there eh?

well. you could be BI. have you always been with men? ever been with a women?

and if not.. why not try it, you only live once, if you're attracted to them.. go for it.

as for the 5 hour long showers..do you have some kinda high profile job.. or does your friends and family not know about your sexual prefferences?

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