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writes:I am 18 years old and my 18 year old friend has been with her bf who is also 18, for about 5-6months now. This is kind of unusual for her because she usually goes from guy to guy and they have always been guys who treat her soooooooo badly.This guy she is now dating, I never really approved of because he does drug. And the rest of our friends feel the same. We think she can do way better. We told her we didn't think it was a good idea to date someone who does drugs but she said that its ok, as long as he doesn't try to get her to do them, then its ok. So we gave him a chance. Yet I just knew deep down she would end up doing drugs as well...and it turns out in the last two weeks shes been doing them. Shes been taking ectasy, speed and pot. She told me I wasn't allowed to tell anyone.I am really worried about her. I don't know what to say or do. Her bf is such a bad influence. My problem with him isn't only that he just does drugs but he just doesn't treat her right, he has little respect for her, and talks about other girls boobs and how much better they are then hers, right in front of her face! Not to mention he flirts with every girl that comes into the room, and even with her friends. Yet my friend doesn't see anything wrong with all of this. She sticks up for him when any of her friends point out that what he is doing is not ok. She recently moved out of home and she barely sees her parents now, maybe once a month. Her mum is so nice and caring and loving. I thought maybe I could tell her that she is doing drugs, because she is her mother and she should know right?What do you guys think me and her other friends could do to help her stop taking drugs and perhaps make her realise that she is in a bad relationship? thanks for any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2008): there's nothing wrong with doing pot but the fact that it's ilegal in most places and might get you in trouble.speed and e are however something you should really worry about for your friend.the ultimate thing is get her sober and speak to her, point out all the bad stuff that is going on in her life and the bad manners of her boyfriend towards her.good luck
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