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I had sex with my friend and now I feel bad because I wanted him as just a friend.

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Question - (12 January 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this guy that i have known for 2 years.

At first we were good friends. I didn't think nothing else of him.But 2 weeks ago i started liking him allot. I don't know what made me start liking him because i know he is a player.

Anyways 2 days ago i ran away to his house because of family problems and we got drunk. We had sex in his car like 3 times. Now i'm really regretting it. I was so drunk. I wouldn't of had sex sober.

Anyways; I think i like him more or something and i hate it because i need to get over these feelings. I have lust hardcore. His sex was so good. and now i want to go with him again. Anyways, any advice on getting over him? I feel bad for doing it with him because i just wanted him as a friend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2008):

Wel let me tell you something im in your samw situation i had sex with my friend too. But i never thought of him as a partner till i realized how nice and kind he was not to metion tough but anyway so we had met like for about three years. it happened at school were one day he was talking to me and we were in the gym the boys lockeroom he was changing his shirt and thats when i felt something weird in my stomach. I didnt know wat it was so we went to his house. hIS parents were out of town we where watching tvs and this commercial for condoms showed up thats when i go that feeling again except stronger and then i looked at him and i kiss him and we had sex on the couch his sex was so good but i felt the same way you did i regreted doing it but i still wanted more but then after a week or three i found out i was preganant so i told him he practicaly freaked out but we agreed to have the baby and we got married after that he did have a job with his parents company so we didnt have money problems

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (13 January 2008):

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Sometimes, we don't expect it but it just happened and you just accept it as a matter of fact.There is no way back .Don't be too harsh or critical of yourself.You need to forgive your own self. Let it go .It is circumstances which caused you to act that way.Look at it positively and don't think in the negative.

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