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writes: Hi everyone, I really need some advice. My boyfriend treated me bad. I am willing to forgive him this time though!! As long as he learns from it. The only thing wrecking my head is im the 1 contacting him and asking to meet up. He isn't crawling or begging me to get back with him at all. He does text and say he's sorry and he loves me and misses me. I just want the satisfaction of him begging me. He does txt me and that. I just deserve a bit of crawling don't i....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice...i shouldnt of used the word beg. Its just he was chatting to his ex alone for the whole night in a bar..even when his friends went away he didnt go with them...then he walked outside with her. I believe he didnt cheat because her boyfriend was there and when they went outside her boyfriends friend came out and said to her come on we're going away.
So if that friend didnt come along i wonder would he have cheated....i guess ill never know. I just wanted him to apologise and crawl a bit to show me that he really was sorry and to show me that he wouldnt do it again.
By the way that night b4 they were chatting..they sent a few txts..he sent her a txt complimenting her. He sent it to me by mistake. so while i was at home crying my eyes out he ignored my phone calls coz he was too busy chatting with her to answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): I don't know what he did but no matter what it was you either forgive him or you don't. Making another human being crawl and beg is wrong. If that is the way you get satisfaction then you should seek some professional help. It seems like you want a slave (someone to bow to you) more than a partner (someone to love).
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reader, JustaGuy  +, writes (14 January 2008):
I think its just your ex trying to maintain a bit of pride. You cant really force him to beg. Play hard to get maybe?
Although If he treated you badly why do you want him back?!!!!! Find yourself someone who will treat you right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2008): It depends on what he has done.
Its a lot for some men even to say sorry. If what he has done is really bad, dont get back with him.
If you are the one making most of the effort, it might cause trouble later on, i.e. i forgave you and still did the running.
If you are just looking for the ego boost of him begging you, you might wait a long time.
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