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writes:why am i so angry at him everyday? we've been together for a year and some change now. and we have our arguments and sometimes when i look at him i get mad. he has this thing even if i ask he will take off without me and leave me at his house for couple of hours. im moving in soon, my parents are leaving for a different state. is it because we dont talk about our problems that im allowing myself to stress over everything? or the fact that i told him that he doesnt make me as happy as i was once before? help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): you need to communicate.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 What you have said does not sound like very good foundations for a relationship let alone moving in together, maybe you should take some time out and see how you both feel after some time apart sometimes this can make you see what you have.
Sometimes we just lose sight of each other for a while and a break makes it all alot clearer, weather it means staying together or going your own seperate ways.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Veasse +, writes (26 June 2007):
 If this person makes you angry just looking at him, and he doesnt make you happy then why are you moving in?
Move with your parents, spend a little time apart, it will either kill or cure the relationship then you will know for sure.
If you can cope long distance then you can make a go of it, if anything it will help you to communicate more as you will have to speak on the phone, email etc.
If you dont follow your instincts you will regret it in the long run, do whats best for you!!
Could it be that you are scared of being so far away from your parents? could it be underlying depression? I know i get angry easily and stress when i'm low!
hope you find the right answer for you!
Veasse x
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