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writes:Just to recap on my earlier questions:I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?everytime i think i will be okay and have left this man that hurt me alone i see something that gets me back where i started.Since we are neighbours(my ex and me) i can pretty much se everything that happens at his home and this weekend i saw the new pregnant lady go ther and leave everyday.Silly enough i know its over when i see that but i keep thinking it could have been me since we did love eachother and he just left me because he says he wants the baby to grow up woith tow parents, but it really hurts me when i see this and i keep asking why.i get jealous and just cry everyday. I blame myslf and think that it must have been something i did to drive him away. Please help me understand this situation i have found myself in? how can i stop hurting and move on and understand his decision instead of still thinking he should be with me? From this what i wanna ask is this:After trying to let go i cant stop loving him and wont accept that he left me. I want him back. What do i do? is this a bad thought i am having?
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reader, itsME  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 =\ .... I dont think that you should try to get him back!!! If the child is his, then you should just try to move on, and let him be a good father to his child!!! He might just be feeling pressured in thinking if his child grows up with his mom, his dad, and his dads girlfriend (you) , Then he might consider you and and his mom both as his own mom.......(the two of you) ... Or he might just want to settle down... have a family with his new child and his gf! without having to worry about anything.... You might just have to except the fact that he wants to take it slow.... especially with a new kid on the way!!! ... And just no that there will be someone out there perfect for you!!! and that meens, that you'll have to get over your ex!!!.... =) I really hope this helps... I know I wrote it a little confusing, but I hope that everything works out for you!! =)
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reader, xxxxsexcphillyxxx  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 my advice would be too try your hardest to get over this boy he is no good for you i can assure you he is not feeling depressed but he has his own life now and who cares if he wants to be with his ex girlfriend and their baby this should atleast prove to you that he hasn't left you for somebody that you don't know he probably cares about you as much as you care about him but he has moved on and i think you should do the same otherwise your life is going to be hell it will be hard but if he see's you happy he will know what he is missin out on let him see you with a smile on your face not a tear falling from your eye.xx
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