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writes:So I've liked this girl since August. We've met for lunch once and it was awkward. I let her know how I felt towards her before this. But then lately I have had to visit her work a lot and she has just smiled and talked very quietly to me. Then Saturday just gone, she needed to find a house so I met her to show her where it was. That same day we went to a barbeque as individuals. But we spent the whole night together laughing and joking as if we'd known each other for ages when actually that was the first time we had a actually spoken properly.We then went to go and see some fireworks in the park on that same night with a group of friends, We left the friends and wandered round for a while talking, laughing, joking and I think flirting I was and she seemed really into me. I didn't take it any further. We both went home and I text her to say night. Then we was up until 1:30 just texting each other stupid little messages that where just crazy! Then Sunday afternoon she text me more than 70 times and invited me over. I couldn't go but then I told a mate what had happened, he rang her and that's when it turned sour! She just wanted to know if I still liked her. I said no because I didn't want to be cast out of her social life. And we was on the phone talking for an hour, then I went to her house on Monday evening with a friend who drove me there and she seemed really into my friend and not me. We then arranged to go to the cinema me her and 2 of her friends but she pulled out tonite when it's supposed to be tomorrow. I don't know if she likes me or is using me but I need to find a way to get a definite yes or no or a yes with a timescale like when she will be ready! What can I do to find out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): Ok So i phoned her and asked her if she liked me straight out she said yes as friends. We carried on talking but I think she is now into my friend as she keeps mentioning him and asking questions. Its just so messed up. I said so what hapens now and she said that we get on too well to fall out so i said ok. We r going to carry on being friends but as "platonic" friends - nothing physical rite? I still like her but she has been thru enough in her life let alone me harrasing her every day! I think i will leave it for a while and see how things turn out. We get n great and are always happy to see each other so maybe i will give it a while untill i can properly understand her and she gets to understand me. If she ges for my friend obviously i will leave it! sound good?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Well, sweetness... I think you need to be hoenst with this girl about how you really feel. You say that you like her, and yet when she asked if you did, you denied it!! There's your problem, buddy!
She's probably pretty confused by your response and if she had any feelings for you, she's probably trying to get over them now.
So jump on the opportunity!! Tell her the truth, tell her that you really like her. You sound like a sweet guy and it sounds like she likes you too!
Go for it, darlin'.
xxIndia
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Just ask her. Call her up, and tell her that you really like her, and you'd like to get to know her better. Ask her if she's seeing anyone right now, or if she's got her eye on anyone in particular. Women appreciate a guy who's up front and doesn't play games. At least you'll know where you stand instead of wondering. It may hurt like hell if you find out she's really into someone else, then again she might change her mind. I went out with a few guys simply because they were so friggin' persistant I became curious. I thought, any guy who's this confident will probably be great in bed, and really good to me. I was rarely ever wrong. Just give it a shot. I hope it works out!
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