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writes:okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel like he is manipulating me, but I can't break up with him because I love him...and I don't wan't to have sex until I marry....what should I do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Straight Up  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 i want to tell you that i really respect your decision. there's not a lot of people out there who want to wait to have sex when there married. so well done as for your boyfriend once again tell him your decision to wait until your married and if he can't understand that then his not worth it.But saying that you have to know that when you enter a relationship sex will come up. i not saying it's right but that how human beings are sex crazy.if i was you i would of told him my decision from the beginning so that he knew where he stood but that doesn't matter now. also tell him there other things you can do apart from sex.
good luck and please don't change your decision
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): don't give in to him. he is trying to manipulate you or he wouldn't ask, if he knows it's against your wishes. tell him you are going to wait until you are married instead of that you want to. be bold with him. don't give in.
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reader, tasha556 +, writes (27 June 2007):
 tell him you don't want sex til your married and if he's not willing to wait then he's not worth your time. you should stick to what you believe and you shouldnt let him or any other boy manipulate you into doing summin you dont want to do.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Don't let him push or manipulate you into doing something you are not ready to do. If you are not ready yet then he should respect your decision and wait till you are ready. If he can't wait and you feel like he is pushing you then maybe he is not the one for you.
Good luck x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Explain to him that you don't want sex yet. He should respect you for your decision. Explain to him that you don't want to sex with him until you marry and see what he says. He may not be prepared to wait that long and if that's the case then he's not worth it!
It's not the end of the world if the pair of you don't do it. He won't die or anything. :)
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