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*eoruby
writes:My fiance is constantly complaining that i am not satisfying him sexually. he gets really angry that when i perform oral sex on him, i don't do it to his liking. he says that i do not satisfy him the way he satisfies me, and i am selfish. could you please help me. i want this relationship to work.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 WoW I would get him to tell you what you can do to satisfy him. It just seems he wants to create a problem with out helping you with a solution. The fun side of a relationship should be playing about and finding what the other person likes and dislikes.
He could be a bit more respectful rather than act spiteful. Ask him what he likes to be done to him and stuff and see how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): "Constantly complaining"? Teach him the amount of respect you want. Have a talk about what bothers you, and don't accept him calling you selfish for these reasons. You may just have different rhythms, he should have understood you did wanted to make it work but it required guidance from his behalf instead of administrating bitter pills. I always say respect is the cornerstone of relationships, and how he treats you can leave you marks and discouragement for a new relationship or create inferiority complexes, which is regretful. If he makes you feel you are not good, and this pours down into your self-confidence, which I have the feeling it is, don't tolerate it. He should have instead taken time to explain his preferences with patience and calmly. The respect should always be present in intimacy...
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reader, nologo  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Do you base your relationship on sex?There must be something else in this.If not, then it will hardly last for a long period of time.You sound so determined: "i want this relationship to work".Just sit together and discuss what each of you wants in sex.
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