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male
age
36-40,
*k06
writes:My ex and I had a rough going of separate ways. After a month she has contacted me and told me that she misses me. I am currently seeing another woman... although not my girlfriend, we have went on a few dates.My ex has quite the past in drugs, and although not a slut... she has been with 3 guys. She doesnt do any of that anymore and hasnt for years. We broke up because I thought she cheated, turns out she didnt... but she was really mean and everything after i confronted her. She really treated me like crap just for confronting her, and now she is being nice and saying that she misses me and still loves me.The girl that I have been seeing has a past similar to mine.... a few mistakes, but a pretty clean one. I really like her..... but i think i also have feelings for my ex.I just want to do what is right. I feel like a bad person for allowing this to happen... what do I do?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 If you still have feelings for your ex then is it really fair to be in a relationship with someone else right now.
Maybe you should take time out and decide what you want, when you spend some time on your own and have no contact with either of them it will probably make things alot easier for you to decide.
Take care.xx.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (26 June 2007):
 I would say to your ex that you have moved on. You sound like you really like the woman you are dating and that could have a future.
xxxxxxx
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reader, nologo  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 Hello mate! Past means history.We are not here to judge people.Question "what is right" is philosophical: nobody is perfect.You need to focus on the present - your feelings as of today.Decide with which of two you would like to share your future.
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