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writes: my partner constantly accuses me of lying which causes me to hurt quite painfuly as i hate lies and everybody whom knows me would say im so truthful i can offend without purposly knowing but atleast you know where you stand with me,and im respected more by this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (4 October 2006):
 I would say there was something in his past or past relationships that has caused him to feel like this although not your fault and not fair on you to feel every women is like this is accuse you of things you haven't done, possibly you did something that hit a nerve on something in his past and that person turned out to be cheating or lying and he has connected the two without considering you are a different person and not everything is the same.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille  +, writes (3 October 2006):
 You need to ask him if there's been something in his past that causes him to mistrust you so much. Cheating parents, a cheating partner etc. Then you need to tell him to accept you for who YOU are, not what other people may have been to him. It is unfair to lay the blame at your door and to constantly doubt you. He has issues to deal with but you do not have to put up with the accusations. Be firm with him and tell him you won't tolerate it anymore as you shouldn't be compared to anyone else or doubted. You are a unique individual who chose to be with him and he needs to see that was your free will, no-one made you do it, so why should you lie about anything? His suspicions are irrational, but don't put up with it.
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