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*merthyst0202
writes:I have been with partner for 14 months, before I met him,HE had been in a on/off relationship for 6 years with (S)3mth on/3off they tried livin tog for 1 year it didnt work,he left.that was four years ago and he has had three other short term relationships in between on /of with (S)she hounds him till he or they end it, she drives past his house at all hours he lives in a cul de sac and still sends texts dec 05 she got engaged to someone else,we get on brill sex,freinds,laughter,holidays but He dropped a bombshell he now tells me he is still love with(S) but loves me, so I asked the question? if he is in love with (S) why is in a relationship with me his reply was i dont know,I know hes scared of commitment, he doesnt want to end it with me, do I stay with him or do finish it.
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (7 October 2006):
amerthyst0202 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just to keep you up dated we are booking to go to jamica in november he feels terribly guilty that he has hurt me its my christmas treat. and we now seem closer thanks for all you advice ti realy does help when you dont know who to turn to.
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (4 October 2006):
amerthyst0202 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks nish+ when you are in the box you know what he ans is for some one else, but not always for your self and if i gave him an ultimatum I no that he would end it he is so scared of losing another partner his wife died eight yrs ago.
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (4 October 2006):
amerthyst0202 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAfter he dropped the bomb shell i thought that would be the end but now he his planning a holiday with me so who know how the male mind works
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reader, Nish +, writes (3 October 2006):
The best I can tell you is give him an ultimatum. Set a date that is right for he both of you. Give him a time period to think about his decision and give you and answer. It worked for me but me and my boyfriend's situation was a little different then your's. That's the best I can tell you. Think about it.
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