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writes: My sister has just started her A_Levels and she has also recently started going out with a boy who she was friends with to begin with. I'm worried she's going to mess up in her exams because she's in a relationship. I know what people will say, but not one person in my sixth form, which she has also gone to, has done well in his/her exams and also had a bf/gf. can anyone help me or give me advice what to do?
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reader, kellyO +, writes (4 October 2006):
Hi dearie,
I know you must care about ur sister alot and u want her to be sucessful in her exams especially her upcoming A-levels. Whilst having a boyfriend is going to take part of her time if she manages that time properly she is going to have enough time for study as well.
It is really a good approach not to focus on only one angle/task, becos in real life u are gonna have various duties that u must attend to for example when u get married later on your are going to have work to think about and possibly kids and your wife. You see it is important to be able to balance alot of event and still be sucessful. This should be a learning stage for her and you as well.all she needs right now is for you to encourage her to make time for school work as well.
You seem to be a very intelligent and sensible and i wish you the very best.
Take care dear.
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