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writes: I'm in love with someone who is not allowed to date, or even consider dating for almost 2 years. I think he might like me, but I'm not completely sure. we have a lot in common, which for me, is rare. The big problem is that he'll be leaving soon and chances are, I'll never see him again for the rest of my life. What should I do to keep him close, but not too close? I don't want him to get in trouble because of me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cool Cucumber  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Why is he not allowed to date? How old is he and is it a religious thing that he is not allowed to date?? Chances are as he is leaving it will be hard to stay in touch. Best thing to do is tell him how you feel and see if he would like to stay in touch. If not then there is plenty of time for you to find someone who you have things in common with, it will just be different that's all. Have confidence in yourself, concentrate on your friends and family close to home and enjoy life. Don't be waiting for him for two years and then find that he has found someone else, you will end up dissapointed, and who's to say that special someone could be just round the corner, don't close all doors just for the sake of 1 person.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Hi dearie,
I think u can keep him as a friend. Maintaining contact will be fun. You can exchange mails, encourage him when he needs a friend and follow-up on his life.
Take care dearie.
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