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I like him but he already has a gf! How do I let him know how I feel?

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Question - (3 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2006)
A female , *istorsh writes:

I currently work with a great guy- friendly, easygoing, great manners, etc. I used to just be friendly with him but now my feelings for him have started to change, and I don't know what to do. The hitch is that one of my co-workers told me he has a live-in girlfriend. I think he might have feelings for me too, and I want badly to test the waters a little furhter with him to see how he feels, but at the same time I know thats wrong being that he has a girlfriend. I've been thinking about him a lot lately, can't wait to see him, but I don't want to do the wrong thing. I guess what I'm asking is, is there a way for me to make my feelings known to this guy, or should I just leave it alone since he has a girlfriend? Help!!!

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A female reader, pica +, writes (5 October 2006):

Aunts below are correct. Also, you don't want to make the workplace a difficult place to be for both of you. Leave well alone.

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A female reader, amerthyst0202 United Kingdom +, writes (4 October 2006):

amerthyst0202 agony auntleave well alone. how would you feel if someone was sniffing around your if he was your guy, if he doesn't love her why does he live with her. find your self another man and spend time with him cos he probably wouldn't leave her your worth better than to be a bit on the side

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006):

Let this man go. So far you have only flirted with him and he hasnt told you about the live in g/f. Where do you think this type of fella would take you (probably out for a drink use you and then ignore you at work on monday) If he was a decent bloke he would become unattached before he gave you any signals. Hes out for fun and you will get all the back lash leave that job to someone else stay clear is my recomendtion and find a single bloke to have fun with hes not worth u x

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