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writes: Help! My ex-fiancee and I have been broken up for the last 3 years. We still keep in touch, (both sides) and there is 100% a special deep connection (she agrees). I realize it is too length to mention all the particulars, but in a nutshell, I broke her heart, and I've regretted in for the last 3 years everyday. I met someone, and had a fling (I'd never done this, please read on) and while she never knew, we were supposed to move in, and I was a bit confused. Long story short, she met a guy, and moved in. It was either move in with him, or home with her parents. For the past 9 months she says he's okay, but she isn't sure. Well he proposed to her, and she told me she accepted. I am stunned! I always thougth we'd get back together. She commented on how she thought I was intersted in this other girl, and when I asked her if she was sure, she said "I guess so, I'm geting older, and maybe there is no ideal love (compared to us, we were perfect..she admitted that.) Question: I want her back, what is to be done? I know she loves me deeply, we've kept in touch weekly for the last 3 Years! Help, please, I don't want her to do this..there is no date yet...Thank you and god bless you
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 If she doesnt care for this other guy why, 1) is she living with him 2)sleeping with him 3)has now said she will marry him. looks like you may just have to get over it and move on. it hurts i know
sorry but you cheated on her ask yourself has the other guy ,and if you together you were so perfect why did you cheat, and why did she leave you and why did you break up.
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