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writes:I've been going out with this guy for about a month now, and it started out fine. He's really nice, we get on well and have loads in common. But the problem is, he's a rubbish kisser. It's like he's trying to choke me with his tongue whilst simultaniously biting my lips off. I only hope he's better in the bedroom...The thing is, he's such a great guy, and I don't want to break up over something as petty as this. But what do I do? Do I tell him flat out, or give hints? Or should I just put up with it? Thank you for your time and help.
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reader, i.love.you +, writes (1 August 2010):
 I'm in exactly the same place right now, it's like he's racing to get to the finish that never ends! I even have to subtly wipe around my mouth from his sloppy kisses.
Unfortunatly, he's the nicest guy I've ever met and I will admit it - I'm completely in love with him! So I can't just say 'babe, you can't kiss, PLEASE let me teach you!' because of his ego .. let me know if you get a way to broach the subject!
Regards,
Jade.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): Im having the same problem.I try to hint to him Like when he uses his toung to much to fast I pull away and start taping my lips to his Not unromanticly but playfully Oh and I hate it when He licks my chin sooo most of the time i pull his hair back alittle bit and kinda direct him twards where my lips are
How long has he been kissing people...cuz sometimes people just need to practice
I also had this one boyfriend who liked kissing me like he was stiff Grrr it drove me crazy cuz i thought he just didnt want to kiss me
But then I got up enough courage and just looked in his eyes and said baby you need to be more loose...I feel like you dont want this like i want it
then He asked me how he should kiss me
so i showed him on his finger
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): i bin there 2.... if u put ur hands gently on his cheeks u have more control, n also if u maintain ur slow pace, he will/ should slow down to ur pace! if the worst comes 2 the worst! just say hey, can we slow down abit....
hope that helps!
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reader, jo130 +, writes (3 October 2006):
oh dear.. been there!!!
get him to play a game.. ask him to close his eyes and tell him to "let" you kiss him, and ask him only to join in and copy what you are doing.. like a mirror reflection.. then tell him to do the same to you only at a slow pace..... tell him you like it (if you do) and ask him to kiss you in "that special way" each time you want to be romantic.. he will get the hint
best wishes
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (3 October 2006):
 Tell him you have been reading up on new kissing techniques as you are not happy with the way YOU kiss and would like to kiss him better.
Say you want to practice a new one and ask him to try to copy you. Just let him go with the flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): Oh Ive been there chick not nice is it? The only thing I can sugest is tell him how you like to be kissed maybe say it in a light hearted way so not to hurt his feelings He sounds like a nice guy I dont think he'll take it too personally! so just bring up the subject at the right time over time he should get better at kissing anyway when he gets to know you better, good luck
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (3 October 2006):
 Talk to him. tell him nicely what a nice guy he his and ask him to try kissing in different ways you kiss him and ask him to do the same but say can you kiss me softer i find i enjoy softer kissing some times its better and if you both enjoy it practice on each other on to see who can kiss the softest have fun
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