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writes:I don't know what's happening with me. I'm so emotionally unstable lately. I talked to my bf on the phone yesterday and he wasn't paying much attention to me so I decided not to say much. We did the whole silent thing for at least 30 minutes with an occassional "babe, are you alright?"I think I'm secretly mad at him but feel it's unreasonable to expect him to spend 100% attention on me all the time. We talk on the phone every night. I have the feeling he just call me because he has to. Everything is going crazy. I started crying on the phone when he said to me if I'm not feeling well, give him a call anytime even if it's late. He'll always be there for me.I feel like I'm being more demanding now. My bf's going away for 6 months really soon. I think I just miss him and scare that I'll be alone when he's gone. Reply to this Question
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (4 October 2006):
 Hmm, this is a hard situation, sounds like you have some stuff you need to talk about, do you have a close friend or family member that will allow you to unload some stuff off you mind onto? i know when im feeling a bit dodgey about anything my friend bekki is always there to talk, and offer advise, i can talk to her about anything and it really does help, i suggest you do the same, getting stuff out and talking about it is a good way to sort things with yourself, then you can go on and speak about stuff to you boyfriend, by the sounds of it hes willing to talk about things and cares about you when you said 'I started crying on the phone when he said to me if I'm not feeling well, give him a call anytime even if it's late. He'll always be there for me.', and maybe hes not talkative because he feels your acting different towards him. Hope things work out. Oh and also, if there is any1 you can speak to, that will come in handy for when your boyfriends away, because you can talk to them about things, and trust me, as long as you have people to talk to, you'll never be alone.
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