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female
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anonymous
writes: How do you know that you're having an orgasm? When having sex it feels really great but i don't seem to reach a definite point in which i reach an actual climax. It gets really good and them i sort of peak and it feels like i've had an orgasm. I am fine with having one when i do it myself and everything is very definite, but with having sex i don't seem to be able to pinpoint the time in which i actually climax. Is it just that masturbation causes better orgasms because i know what i like and when to do it?
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reader, amerthyst0202 +, writes (4 October 2006):
some women can orgasm through having sex some carnt, stimulate yourself whilst having sex see if that helps, use your fingers or even better use a vibrator, play tog learn what each other likes remember cou.ples who play tog stay tog and relax its not a marathon
enjoy each other
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