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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel so lonely at this time of year!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - I wanna 4get about my ex, i no i gotta move on but i cant stop thinkin of him. It doesn't help when most of my mates sell me out 4 their boyfriends. I feel so lonely especially at this time of yr! any suggestions?... (45 words)

Do you have thoughts of the first person who took your virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Okay this is more of a psychology question... My two cousins and I feel the same about this situaion. We all have lost our virginities and are dating other guys, but we all still have thoughts about our firsts. Is that normal? Is it a psychology thing that we still think ... (80 words)

Does taking a 'break' from relationship help?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - hi everyone, just wondering.. do you think taking a break from a relationship helps ? ... (23 words)

Can a guy possibly be too shy to make a little move like messaging mr first? What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Im always the one who messages or contacts him, but his the one who suggested we hang out one day. Can a guy possibly be to shy to make a little move like a msg? What's going on? xx... (39 words)

Been single for a year but not by choice! Tell me--What does a guy find attractive in a girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been single for about a year now and not out of choice!! I dont know whats wrong with me but I cant get a boyfriend. When I was younger (I'm 21 now) I used to have a different date every month but now it seems that guys who do get my num dont call or jus... (147 words)

My BF hides things from me, including chewing tobacco and pics of his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfirend hides chewing tobacco from me, and he still has pictures of his ex-gf on his computer. Am I crazy to think he's hiding his past because he's not over her? I just hate that he's hiding stuff from me.... (43 words)

Friends with benefits?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age - What do you say when a guy says that he only wants to be friends? Yet wants to have sex? I feel like a whore!... (27 words)

What present do I get a guy I've only been with for 2 weeks?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i'v been with my guy for 2 weeks! What should i get him for xmas and how much should i spend??... (21 words)

I see how his abused past made him into someone with a hardened heart - how can I help him heal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- I'm finding out how our childhoods impact us in our adult life! I moved in with my b/f about 10 months ago, thinking he was such a darling man. Since that time, I've come to see that he's controlling, harsh, critical and a perfectionist. After meeting his family, I realiz... (311 words)

She says "if only you were...taller" - I think that's messed up! What should I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Im having a little bit of a problem here. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for some time now and she seems to complain or lead on that "if only you were a little bit taller..." because she is about an inch taller than me. She says she still likes me b... (98 words)

It's been 3 months now and nothing. Am I wasting my time with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I'm really confused..i met this lad *ryan in a club on my birthday weekend..i knew who he was but didnt know him to talk 2..we started talking on msn and it kind of kiked of from there. he met me and my m8z a week after my birthday and ended up staying at my house (nothing ... (194 words)

I feel betrayed and miserable b/c of her past. How can I shake off these feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) - I'm really upset about the fact that I can't seem to be able to put my gf's past behind me. I love her dearly, I trust her 100% not to cheat on me, but lotsa times I find myself thinking about her and the guys in her past (she is also older than me 6 yrs), checking her old ... (113 words)

I want to write a love poem for my baby's father - any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for almost five years and out of the years I have a two year old son I am in love so much with my baby's father and I feel like I would really like to show him in a poem how much I love him can you help!!!!... (55 words)

I'm 13, started my periods but I think my body is too small for tampons!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - I started my period, the next one is due next week and im really worried. i cant wear towels, im 13 but my pant size is very small and the towels are sticking out of them. they irrate me and go up my butt its digusting! I want to try tampons but i dont think my body is big ... (88 words)

I'm 14 - how do I stop this 'relationship' I'm in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - Okay, im fourteen years old, and me and this boy sam have been mucking around together for the last month. its a secret fling which i loveed, and we would do sexual things to each other. it seemed perfect, none of us got hurt, i liked this other boy, but i also had sam.... (231 words)

We split but I can;t get over him! Will it always be this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I split up with the father of my son who is nearly nine five years ago and still havent got over him. I get jealous if he gets a new girlfriend and get abusive and text him and ring him and make a scene. My life is just waiting for him to ring why cant i move on i imagine ... (91 words)

I have the chance to kiss the guy I love for the first time as part of a kissing competition he is having with his mate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- I'm expecting answers such as 'get as far away from him as possible' etc. to this question.. but I beg you to not say this. For the past 18 months i've been in love with this guy, who doesn't really know how he feels about me and changes his mind lots, we've never actually kis... (248 words)

My brother and I had tough times...was I right to say what I did to him?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- Let me start at the begining here... I'm the middle child with 2 brothers. My younger brother D. has always been sort of overlooked by my family, and after he graduated highschool he started some really self distructive behavior, like stealing, doing drugs, drinking, and ra... (1325 words)

The girl I like is best friends with my ex gf...and now the ex gf is mad about this. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Theres this girl who ive liked for a very long time but her best friend is my ex girlfriend and she is getting mad about it.i still kinda like my ex but i think i like the other girl more.i dont know which one i should date.... (47 words)

He's 30-I'm 17. Is the age difference a big factor here? And he does this weird thing with his eyes..what is it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- Well, i am 17 years old. I met a guy at college and we get along really well. I like him alot but he is 30. I sometimes think the way he acts around me that he might like me but im not sure. He smiles alot when he is around me and if he sees me in the cafe he will come and sit ... (137 words)

I date her but she and her ex still love each other! I'm unsure as to what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- The girl im seeing is in love with her ex still,and her ex loves her. They still see each other and go shopping together,but i don't like her seeing her ex,as she spends more time with him then with me She says that they are just "friends". She has said that they don't hav... (98 words)

Am I pregnant!? I am so worried...please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Am i pregnant? i am 20 years old and have been goin out with my boyfriend of nineteen for six months. We are both virgins and are waiting until we are ready to have sex. however we have messed around a few times, have had oral sex etc. However my period is one and a half weeks ... (143 words)

I fancy her and I want to give her something sweet and nice. Any good ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (?) - i really fancy this girl who is my friend. we are both 16. we dont see each other outside of school. but i want to give her a nice present. any ideas? are teddies not good for this occasion? i dont want to make it too obvious i like her but wanna give her something sweet. ... (66 words)

Am I wrong for feeling like I'm being put on hold! He says there's the chance of getting back together later? I don't agree.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend, of 2 yrs, and I broke up about 10 days ago because he realized he is not ready for marriage. His job is relocating him to another state in about 3 months. He's thinking of our break-up as possibly being temporary because he may realize he does want to get ... (155 words)

I felt hurt and betrayed..I ended it! Did I over react?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I really need some advice on a partner that I suspect of cheating. A few weeks ago(call it womans intuition)that I felt that something was not right in the relationship. To cut a long story short I confronted him about my feelings and he told me that he has no reason to cheat ... (321 words)

In the 3 weeks since we split, she's been with 3 guys! Was I a fool-was she waiting for someone better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I got with this girl 2 years ago. It was both our first relationship. Now I'm 25 and she is 17. She lied about her age and told me she was 16 and working when we first got together. I took it bad and she was lying to her parents as well, and when she finally told them they ... (312 words)

This guy at work stares and smiles at me! How do I approach him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I like this guy at work and i notice he stares at me and he smiles and I smile back, it's often enough to think he might like me. I really like him but I'm not sure how to go about approaching him as I might be getting the wrong end of the stick. What should I do?... (58 words)

He's being distant..what can I do to save this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - What can I do to save my relationship with my man, we don't always agree on things and now he is being distance.... (23 words)

His demands for sex is ruining our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Ok I have a problem. Me and my boyfrien have been dating for 10 months now. I'm 20 and he's 25. He was a man whore before we hooked up. He must have slept with over 100 women(which I knew about before we hooked up). I've always been in relationships. In the beginning of our ... (591 words)

Do tender breasts, bloody discharge and headaches mean...I am pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i am on the pill and after my week off i forgot to take it for a few days and i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a few times when i was drunk.my period is not due for another few days but iv been getting a bloody discharge and my breasts are tender and i was getting really ... (95 words)

I can't rid myself of this self-hate! Should I see a counselor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- Mt ex split with me 18 months ago for someone else. Im over it now but I cannot stop blaming myself and feeling embarressed and ashamed of what happened. When I first got with him I knew he wasnt exactly the nicest boy in the world. But I fell in love with quickly so when ... (355 words)

My dad's friend had sex with me and now my Dad and him got into a big fight! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - Ok I had sex with guy that is 35 and he is my dads best freind and we were supposed to keep it between us well I started going out with this guy and he found out about it and because i am only 18 he thinks he took advantage of me so he call him and told him to stay way from me ... (98 words)

How can I get this girl to notice that I like her without making it obvious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - hi, i have a problem i realy realy realy like this girl, she is 16 and im 19. How can i get this girl to notice that i like her without making it obvious(im not one of these guys that can just go up to a girl and ask them out probley coz im scared of gettin rejected)? how... (115 words)

I'm 17..is it legal for me to move in with him, without my parent's permission?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i am 17 and my boyfriend is 22 is it illegal for us to have sex and or date? also is it legal for me to move in with him without my parents permission?... (34 words)

When we were having sex she did some anal play on me and now I feel weird about it..any thoughts?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6466 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) - I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time at the weekend and when she was masturbating me she put her finger in my anus. I really liked it but now i feel weird. I feel like ive done something wrong. Is it ok, i mean am i stressing about nothing? Does this happen all the ... (64 words)

Does anyone think anal sex is a bit pervy? My bf enjoyed it, but I thought it felt weird.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend talked me into having anal sex for the first time knowing that I was heavy on my period. I do like to experiment, but does anyone think its a bit pervy. My boyfriend seemed to really enjoy it, although I didn't feel the same it just felt weird.... (51 words)

She was secretly meeting w/ another guy. I don't know what to do about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Is it cheating if your fiance is talking to another man when you are at work and meets him out at restaurant without you knowing and the only way you found out is by a friend telling you? This was going on for a month with him calling and then her calling him back. Not only... (242 words)

When my fiance and I tried our relationship again, she acted distant and cold, so we've split again. Can love really turn to hate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- I recently split with my fiancee as she was unfaithful. After making the decision to take her back, she changed her ways completely for the worse. She acts totally unbelievable and uncaring. She would tell me she was in love with me more than ever, but would act more distant ... (175 words)

I want to know how he feels about me, but what should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - Hello cupids, Please give me some advice here. I was seeing a guy for a couple of months. I am 26, he is 28. Things were going really well, he told he really liked me etc. Then things started to cool off a bit just because we were both very busy. I never told him how... (338 words)

I'm 23 and have never orgasmed - is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - im 23, only had 1 bf ever (still going strong after 6 years) never had an orgasm... feeling low... dont like masturbating, am i normal or abnormal... ... (27 words)

Do I choose to stay in my troubled marriage or do I move on and have financial troubles but be happy w/ someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- What now I ask myself ? I've been tackling the problem of how to sort things out with my wife for some time. Years in fact. Unfortunately all attempts have failed. I recently took her on a romantic trip without the kids but although it was fun it hasn't changed things, I ... (172 words)

He broke up w/ me and is seeing someone else, but we still live together! I'm going mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My BF of 3 years broke up with me. he was away for more than a month and the minute he came back he said to me that it is not working out. I didnt know wot to say, I am madly in love with him, all I did was cry. One minute later I heard him talking to another girl, when I asked ... (147 words)

She promised to come home after the club, but didn't! Am I right to be mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- Ok My Girl Went Out Saturday Night and stayed over her friend's house even when i asked my girl to come home. do girl's do this alot? my girl said her friend's do it all the time and their boyfriends don't care. i said they don't care about them. my girl made a promise to... (136 words)

My gf works and I stay home to take care of the house. She always seems to be in a bad mood, though! What's going on and what can be done?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- My Girl has an easy life (after work) but she say's she unhappy, depressed. am i stupid to think she shouldn't be like this? i live at home with my mom and family and my girlfriend my mom does all her washing , tea's. everytime she wants a drink of tea i make it. when she wan... (421 words)

She had a miscarriage and we can't seem to get pregnant again - any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- She's Want's a baby so bad but it's not happening anything i can do to speed it up? in june my girlfriend got pregnant in july she had a misscarriage. i stood by her all the way didn't leave her bed once. stayed when she needed blood in her body. (reason it died) my girl di... (280 words)

When I rang my gf, another guy said "put the phone down" and she ignored my other calls! I think she cheated on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- On Saturday night my girl got drunk when my girl get's drunk she act's werld so werld like she's not even in an relationship with me. she act's she's single. i hate it when she dance's with her mate's she does this kind of lesbian dance with them. and only ever dance's wit... (588 words)

My girlfriend thinks we don't have enough in common to stay together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

11 December 2006 (M)

- my Girlfriend doesn't think we have enough in common for a relationship do u think she could of meet someone that has more in common with her? or is she trying to make me see that we don't have a lot on common in our relationship. she excepts it 2 be perfect and have... (84 words)

Why are my orgasms so different after my baby ???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i am 26 years old and have one child who was born in 2005. before i gave birth i used to experience mind blowing, whole body shuddering orgasms which used to take my breath away when making love. but ever since i had the baby, (i had a cesarian by the way)my orgasms are no ... (93 words)

I'm 15 and need to know..how you get rid of a double chin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F)

- k i have a problem, a double chin =P anyone have any ideas how to get rid of it? i am 15, and im healthy weight but this extra chin bothers me big time! advice on how to lose it?... (40 words)

What do I get my 19 year old BF for christmas ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My bf is almost 19, I'm almost 18. We've been together for a 16, almost 17 months. I bought him a DVD he was looking for for christmas, i need ideas on what i can get or something of the sorts to buy him. I'm not exactly creative and plus being so impersonal, i really really ... (68 words)

He changes his mind a lot..so .what about his promise that he will marry me, should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - my bf is good in promising a little promise he do it, but a big promise like having a plan what we gonna do in the future in life that' never happen yet. im not the one who always start with hope or promise or wish he is the one he is the one who always start those topic. and ... (126 words)

Im in love with him, but no one else seems to like him, and it makes me feel so bad im with him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6372 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - So what do I do when I love a guy I just got with. But Ive known him for 4 years and he has liked me for 2 and I've liked him on and off during the 2yrs that he has liked me. Yet I'm not sure on how mine and his relationship is gonna last cause we hardly ever see one another ... (196 words)

Does he want me back and is he realizing that he let something good slip away? Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - My ex and i broke up about a month and a half ago. Him and i were talking to nite and there was alot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged alot like really close. Before i... (251 words)

I'm just a friend to him...does that mean I will never have a chance to date him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - I was talking to one of my guy friends(r) about his (s) who i like. Well (r) asked (s) if he liked me. He said that he likes me as a friend and that he just wants to be friends. Does that mean i will never have a chance to date him or tell him myself that i like him? I... (112 words)

We're both 13 and we've had protected sex. I'm scared of pregnancy and STD's though. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6523 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - im 13 should i have protected sex with my bf and we both luv each other i mean its been 3 months he is 13 and we r both ready for anything im just scared ill get pregnant or will get stds... (42 words)

Something happened earlier in our relationship that still bothers me and I can't ever forget it. How can I let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 11 months now. he loves me, i can tell. but something happened earlier in our relationship that still bothers me and i can't ever forget it, how can i let it go? see, about 3 to 4 months into our relationship he was at my house and ... (303 words)

When I have sex with my bf..I always think of the person who sexually abused me when I was 13! What's wrong..why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6551 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I have a very serious and completely awful problem. Whenever I have sex with my boyfriend, I always have to think of someone else for me to..you know. If that wasn't bad enough, the person I always end up thinking of is someone who, when I was younger (about 13), sexually ... (85 words)

I'm 15-he's 23. We've had sex and we're very nervous as we're unsure if it was legal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey....I am currently 15, I will be 16 in 6 days. I have been seeing this guy who is 23 for the past 3 weeks and we have slept together. We are nervous about people finding out because we are unsure if it is legal. I was wondering if it is ok for him and I to date without us ... (65 words)

I want this christmas present for him to be special but...what do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Here I am. I am 17, and my boyfriend is 18. He is complicated to shop for and I am stressing out big time. Here it is, two weeks until Christmas and I cannot figure out what to get him. I had an idea for getting him a Jersey (football), but then I thought 'Well, what if he ... (130 words)

He said he feels nothing for me but is acting funny because I slept with his best friend..Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - About 3 months ago i met this lad and we went out on a date, and we had been sleeping together for about 2 months after,about 3 weeks ago we had an argument and he said he felt nothing for me, and that the only reason he slept with me was because he wanted sex and i was there ... (94 words)

How do we tell his ex that he and I are now dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months. They just signed the final papers for his 4 year divorce. He wants to now approach his ex and tell her about us. We've talked about the best way he can approach her to not cause a huge upset and between us, we can not come up with ... (91 words)

I'm in love with her but I don't know how to tell her..What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - i am in love with a girl but i can't tell her, I just don't know how to say it, or how she would react. i've never been in love before, this is a feeling i haven't felt with anyone else before.. what should i do?... (46 words)

Ideas needed for xmas presents to give to two special females in my life..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

11 December 2006 (?) - i'm goin on holiday 3days before christmas. i wanna get 2 people presents. one is my very close friend. the other is her best mate and the girl i fancy. both are girls we all 16. any ideas? what do girls really like? i want it to be special for my special friend and the girl i ... (65 words)

What are signs that he may be talking to other girls on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) - What are signs of cheating or signs my b/f may not be physically cheating but talking to other girls? He doesn't hide his cell phone when i am around. He leaves it around his place where if i really wanted to i could just see if he was getting calls or see if it was on silent... (278 words)

He pushes me away and yet..he still looks at women every where we go and its killing me! WHat can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - i am really sufferingi spend every night in tears. last year i met a wonderful man and we had a baby girl though problem is we dont have sex hardly ever, he is honest to me and i do trust him but i am jelous and paranoid because he told me how he used to meet women via the chat... (294 words)

I'm attracted to my boyfriend's brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

11 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - advice needed when you are attracted to your boyfriend's brother and he tells you he feels the same help..... ... (19 words)

Should I follow my obligations to my wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

11 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I no longer love my wife and we have little in common. I see that it was an error to marry her, but I don't want to hurt her (let alone my kids, 5 and 1 year old). I love another woman. We were never together. I'm sure it's the strongest passion I ever felt. I can't forget h... (119 words)