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writes:On Saturday nightmy girl got drunk when my girl get's drunk she act's werld so werld like she's not even in an relationship with me. she act's she's single. i hate it when she dance's with her mate's she does this kind of lesbian dance with them. and only ever dance's with me if they leave her 2 dance with someone else. i kind of feel used. i didn't go out saturday i thought 2 myself she would of leaved me all night and i would end up danceing alone with a post or something.she txted me at 3.30am 2 say she going to a mate's for a drink 20 to 5 she txt me saying she was staying i kind of had an idea she was going 2 stay over i dunno y i did. i rang her i heard her say " oh my god he's just rang me " and some lad say " put the phone down " i'm not assed about the lad the thing that pissed me off was everytime i tried 2 bell her she would press the down call so u get her voice mail. i rang her 5 time's and after the 3 time the phone went off. i don't know if she cheated on me or what. she got in the day after 11am i had a big fight with her for leaveing me all alone even when she promised she was comeing home even if her friend's asked her back for another drink. i think that's what hurt the most. that she made a promise 2 me and she didn't keep it. i asked her the day after after all the fighting if she was horny ( i was ) she told me no ever time i went for a hug or kiss she moved away like i did something wrong. i know i souldn't of kicked with her but i was hurt for tired. no excuse i know but i'm stupid. last night she told me we was going to have sex. 7pm we had a bath where she give me a bit of oral pleasure. (not much) i tried 2 touch her but i got told " wait till later " so as we got out we went down stair's till 10pm and went to bed (she work's 7am) she give me a massage and than asked me if i wanted sex she was tried like mad (she was moaning how tired she was all day) and when i said no she didn't care it was like (thank god) do u think she as cheated on me or what?now she want's to work an extra 1hr ever day from now on 2 make up for some day's she had off last month. i told her it would be silly 4 her 2 do that because she doesn't need the money that bad next month.she told me her friend's had asked her out at new year but me and my girl are not on good term's with 2 member's of my family (my sister and bro in law) i wanna spend it with my family but i think we will spend it with her friend's where it will be boring as hell for me any advice would be greatthank
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): Agreed - you didn't like the first advice so you thought you'd post the same question again?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-it-a-man-talking-in-the-background.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): You have posted about this situation already. Sounds to me as if you two have different agendas and are just not that well-suited as a couple.
Probably the best thing to do would be to cut your losses and find another place to live (or for her to find somewhere else, if she moved in with you).
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