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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do you know if your guy friend likes you more then a friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - How do you know if your guy friend likes you more then a friend? ... (14 words)

Her dad doesn't trust guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Hello I am a 16 year old (M) that needs some advice about parents. I just asked out a girl that is 15 and she said yes, but she also told me about her father who hates guys and doesn't want her to date at all. all of this is because of one guy that she dated that was ... (322 words)

Does my hubby's mate fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - My hubby has been telling me that he reckons that his mate fancies me. Thats nice to hear from a compliment type of view. However the last few times he has rung up he says 'are either of you available to come out tonight' whereas he used to say is 'is J free tonight'. So I ... (263 words)

How do I deal with my ex when he's such a good friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - About a month ago now my boyfriend broke up with me. it was hard as he was my first and the reason he did it was un-known really, but he did it at a very bad time as i was worried about pregnacy as we were not safe. This hurt me badly, but i did not want to dwell on it so i ... (473 words)

He's sweet when we are alone but he's a dick when other people are around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - i really like this guy and he really likes me and we are going to go out after new years (long story) but anyways when its just the two of us hes really sweet, nice, funny, and flirty...but when were in a group of ppl (mainly his friends) he can be a total dick to me! like we ... (166 words)

I badly want to sleep with him but he doesnt love me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- i think i love my friend he wants to sleep with me but i no he doesnt love me back.. any advice? ...i know i wanna sleep with him. badly. but maybe some of you have had experiences like this one? could you help me?? he is 8 years older tho.......... (51 words)

He says he sort of has a girlfriend, but he gets nervous talking to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6585 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - dear agony aunt a boy who lives accross the road from me, looks as if he likes me alot! but yesterday i sent him an e-mail saying that i liked him and when he e-mailed back he said he used to fancy me, but he doesn't anymore and he sort of has a girlfriend. but still everytim... (91 words)

What shall I get a guy for Christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 26-29 - I really like this guy but I do not now what to get him for Christmas. So what should I get him?... (23 words)

Has my boyfriend got problems with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - Last night I was at my bf's house, then his friends came over later and we were sitting in his room watching tv. So he looks out the window to see who it is then he walks out of the room and gave me a weird stare i don't really know how to explain it, then he just closed the ... (247 words)

Is it wrong to go out with a guy younger than me?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - im a girl and i like a guy who is younger than me, most people say its wrong to go out with guys who are younger than you and im worried what people will say. should i just forget him or is this acceptable?... (44 words)

My wife says her feelings aren't the same anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age - my wife left and went to her mothers 3 months ago. no reason was given except something didnt feel right. we had just returned from a lovely 2 week holiday where we made love nearly every day.complete shock.after 3 weeks she returned but was so cold towards me infact i slept in ... (167 words)

Should I contact an actor I've become emotionally attached to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy; he's 10 years older than me. He's an actor; I don't think it's a crush or anything like that. I feel emotionally attached, even though I have never met him. Has anyone else felt like this? I have a chance to contact him, should I try to contact him?... (54 words)

I can not "get off" during sex why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - i can not "get off" during sex why is this? ive tryed every thing and just it seems like it forever!... (21 words)

she sees him more then she sees me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I went on a date with a girl,she is so great we went on a 2nd date. Her and her ex broke up a few months ago. Now she told me that her ex wants her back, and she wants to go back with her ex.But if they get back together his mother will neglect him. It was her first and o... (145 words)

I dont want him treating me like dirt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend recently broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I was really heart broken I find hard to cope sometimes, I miss him so much. he broke up with me because he felt things were not the same as they used to be and he feels as if hes growing up too fast( we are 16 ). he told ... (132 words)

Do you think I could be a model?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- I'm 14 years old and 5ft 7, I've got striking eyes and cupids-bow(or whatever it's called) lips, i've got prominent cheek bones and know how to pose for photographs. I'm often told I could be a model, but I've got a reasonably big nose, VERY VERY pale skin, big boobs, and larg... (113 words)

There's this guy that treats me badly, but do I love him or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- i'm really confused in my head. Sometimes I'm really happy, and other times I'm really sad. There's this guy that treats me badly, (uses me etc.) and I just can't seem to make up my mind about whether I love him or not. I keep deleting his number from my phone, then adding it ... (68 words)

When i was actually getting the autograph he winked at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- The other night I went to a concert, and it was very small with only about 100 people there, and i'm quite tall and was taller than everyone around me, i was about 3metres from the stage and the singer kept looking over to me and smiling, then when I went for an autograph he ... (102 words)

I feel hurt by such sexual pressuring

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- I was datinga boy who asked me for sex early in the relationship about our 3rd date and we had not met before that arguing he hada female friends to have sex with and that he wouldn't be my boyfriend otherwise, I refused and thought he would never call again so he became the ... (140 words)

My partner says if I keep the baby-I'm raising it on my own! I don't know what to do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - ive been with my partner three and a half years and fell pregnant recently and my partner does not want the baby an dsays if i keep it ill be bringing it up on my own i love this man and dont wont to lose him butknowing i have to get rid of the baby to keep him is killing and i ... (68 words)

Are friends more important?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - dear agony aunt, i have recently started going out with a boy i have been really good friends with for over two years. he became friends with some of my girl friends as a result and started going out with one of them for a while seven months ago. they split up a month later but ... (249 words)

te me 7 out of 10 and I like him......how do I subtly let a him know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I like this lad, right? Well one of my friends was playing this game with him and he said he fancied this girl(he gave her 9/10)...and that he thought my friend was an 8/10 and I was a 7/10...but it seems that he looks at me across the classroom sometimes and that hes looking ... (76 words)

Had a fling with a workmate and now I'm leaving my job..he doesn't seem to care! I'm confused..why is he like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - I am having a fling with someone at work and he has a girlfriend. I feel bad that he is with someone but i like him and cant resist him. its been going on for a couple of months now and i really fancy him. Trouble is i told myself that i wouldnt get too attached but i leave ... (128 words)

A work colleague's wife made an assumption about her husband and me! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age - I was on a business trip last week and ran into a colleague who has been staying at the same hotel...but I did not know that he was. I was having breakfast in the dining hall when he walked in with his wife who had just flown in to join him before they headed back and I could ... (150 words)

My bf (late 20's) told me he slept with over 100 women..is this an acceptable amout? Should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- How many women would you say is an acceptable amount to have slept with by the time you are in your late 20's? My new boyfriend has just told me he's slept with over 100 and it's driving me mad! Should I leave him?... (44 words)

I feel like them 2 are going places and not with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - Hi , I have 2 friends that are my best friends, it is just normally us 3 who hang with each other. One of my best friends fancys the other and the other feels the same. One has started asking the other out and they are being together and i feel insecure. I feel like them 2 a... (96 words)

If he is gay then our bf/gf relationship would have to end!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am very confused in that it keeps playing on my mind that my boyfriend might be gay, but then I think I’m imagining things. My boyfriend is a very complex character and so I am finding it hard to fathom him out. He was with his ex-fiancee for nearly 5 years. She trea... (542 words)

I dont want anyone to know that I fancy a geek!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi i have a friend thats a boy and i am starting to like him as more than a friend. the thing is he doesnt hang around with me and my friends cos he's kind of a geek :( he hangs around with the geeks. so none of my mates are friends with him. anyway, he flirts with me by pok... (123 words)

The girl I fancy made out that I fancied her other friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I have fancied a girl who is about 6 months younger than me (we're both 16) for about 3 and a half years now. When I first met her, we barely spoke at all. I more watched her from afar. She had a massive crush on another of my friends, and they followed him about a lot. So... (535 words)

It still bothers me, the cheating,drinking and other bits

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - This is probably a long post ,but i am really stuck on this, I have been married for 20 year's, over that time we have had many rough patches.2 children which are both now grown in the military. Both boys are my step children from his first marriage, although i raised both as... (530 words)

I don't want to keep thinking about her like i do because i don't want to be bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - ok im due to leave school soon but ive had this same problem since i was about 11. It didn't bpther me as much then but it does now im getting older. For some reason i've always had feelings for one of my teachers but i wouldn't call it a crush because i don't think about her ... (156 words)

Is it just because my boyfriend isn't here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and he recently moved away for his job. We see eachother every other weekend so we can still have our own separate lives. Recently I have been spending alot of time with one of my male friends and I'm worried that we have develope... (93 words)

I haven't written a single sms for 9 days, She doesn't write either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Well, it is like that: I met this girl from Italy in april. I knew from the very beginning that she was having another relationship. It never stopped her from playing with me. I starting falling in love when she decided to come to my native country for a holiday, 11 days. It ... (356 words)

Are braces a turn off for teenage boys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - are braces a turn off for teenage boys?... (8 words)

Does anyone have any information or know and good sites about AD/HD and relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My ex has AD/HD and it drives me crazy, because I don't know how much of his unaccepable behavior is down to this. I've always told myself that the things he does are due to his condition, in which case I can work through it. But I'm starting to doubt him, after a year of us ... (154 words)

Can u tell me how you would give a handjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i want some help. how should i give my boyfriend a handjob? also can u tell me how you would give a handjob?... (23 words)

im scared i'll ruin fings if i tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - ive gotten really close to a girl and wer like really really gud m8s but ive started to feel summink for her for a while now and i dnt no wot to do, im scared i'll ruin fings if i tell her? im seeing signs but i dnt no if she feels the sme way? wot do i do?... (59 words)

How do you handle people who insist on dominating the conversation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age - I called a friend to meet for lunch the other day and happened to ask a woman who knows this friend to come along because I thought that she would want to catch up on all the news. I regretted it. He and I just wanted to catch up on events in our lives since we last met and she ... (127 words)

I'm in love with one of my best friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - There's this girl I'm very close friends with.. about 5 month ago, we were dating for about a month, but then she left me and told me that she only saw me as a friend. Over the past about 4 months that we have been just friends, we've hooked up on several occasions, and I even ... (401 words)

Only when I am alone do i have all the right words to say to a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hello every one, I want you to really help me with my problem.Am a guy of 29,i done have a girl friend,i found it difficate to talk to a girl.i done know the rigth word to use to she will accept me.when am a alone i will have all the word in my mind to use,when close t... (93 words)

She says her first priority is her son not ME

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6556 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age - Hi, I have been living with my fiance for 3 years now. She has a son of 5 years. lately he has become impossible, not listening, back chatting etc. The strange thing is that he has always exhibited such good manners and behaviour. This past weekend he spent with the grand par... (218 words)

He invited me to the movies and I am too shy to go with him alone. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - a guy i like has invited me to the pictures. I want to go but none of my friends are coming and I am really shy what should I do? Should I go to build my confidence or should I leave it and wait until some of my friends can go with me?... (53 words)

I always go for the bad boys...is there nothing I can do to make more sensible decisions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - This is no doubt a very common problem, but I always fall for the 'bad boy', and as I result I always end up getting hurt. There are guys I know who are totally into me who are really nice guys, and that are very compatable with me, but I'm just not interested. I like exciting ... (161 words)

HAven't seen my bf in 2 weeks...how can I get him to see me more often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

- ive not seen my bf for almost 2 weeks it is really getting to me as im missing him loads and im going through a really tough period in life atm so i need him to be there for me. i usually see him once a week but its been almost 2 weeks how can i get him to see me as i need him ... (65 words)

She doesn't want a relationship anymore and the problem is...I can't forget about her! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship for about a month or 2. I have been in plenty of relationships in the past, dumped some girls, been dumped, and moved on. My latest relationship, however, is rather different. I'm 17, she's 19. In the past month or so we've gone on around 5 dates. On ... (173 words)

How can I get her attention and the love in same way I feel for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6585 days ago

9 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - i Love my friend, i really cares about her but now i think she didnt love me, how can i got her attention and the love in same way as me. ... (31 words)

I want him so nbad, I've settled for just a sexual relationship! I feel so pathetic..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I feel so pathetic. My ex-boyfriend from high school (my first love) just came back into my life after I found him online. I got so wrapped up in wanting to be with him again that I settled for a relationship that is only sexual. I tried to get together with him tonight and ... (156 words)

How do you know if a guy friend of yours likes you more then a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - How do you know when a guy friend is interested in you more then a friend? And how do you know when someone is flirting with you? I guess what im trying to ask is how do you know if a guy friend of yours likes you more then a friend? Sorry for all the questions i g... (81 words)

The volunteer co-ordinator is ignoring me over past issues. Do I still attend the meetings or let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age - I am a member of a volunteer group and we have a get together coming up and I phoned and emailed the coordinator about when it is and she has not responded...I have tried a few times during the last week and she has ignored me. I have taken a stand on a few things that this ... (153 words)

He promised to call me but didn't. Should I care that he didn't call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - Ok i have known this guy for awhile and he recently asked me to hangout with him but i didnt have an anwser for him at the time and he told me he would call me sometime thought out the week to see what my answer would be. Well tonite was the nite we were to hangout and he n... (219 words)

Is it possible to find out a withheld number?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Ok - does anyone know of a way of finding out the telephone number of someone who has called my mobile - As I didn't answer it, it was listed as a missed call (no number). It wouldn't normally bother me, but I was getting ready for bed @ 1.30am when I noticed my phone ... (246 words)

Update on my relationship with former Art teacher.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I sent in a question in November about me and my realtionship with my former Art teacher. I just want to thank every one who gave me advice and to let you how things have worked out. I spoke to Oscar* (not his real name) one night about it and he was willing to change school ... (266 words)

How do I maintain my LDR?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - iam moving out on a new job, iam forced to take it , i have a long distance relationship and i dunno how iam gonna talk wth him once i move out,he is out of the country and callin is very expensive we rely on pc to pc talk but there i wont be even able to use that, iam sure of ... (80 words)

I was asked to the movies, then was stood up. Do I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) - Ok i was asked to the movies this friday nite. Well the guy never called me. I dont know if i should call him to see what happend. Thing is i cant remember if he told me to call him for the answer if i wanted to go or if he was to call me. What should i do? This was a f... (117 words)

I have just found out that my bf is a drug addict. Just the thought of what he does makes me feel sick

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

9 December 2006 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. I thought that I loved him. He is such a nice guy and he is really good to me, he helps with everything and I rarely have to complain about anything really. I have recently found out that he has been on heroin the whole ... (318 words)

Could my medication interfere with my pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

9 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i think i might be pregnant and i am worried that the medicine im takin for my condition could harm my baby what should i do ... (26 words)

How can I ask her on a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6587 days ago

9 December 2006 (?) - i really fancy my friend. she is not close but good friends. she's invited me to go out on a evenin with her mates, i'm the only boy goin so she told me to bring one of my mates so i'm comfortable. she likes me as a friend because i dont have good looks so i've tried to be a ... (214 words)