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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Now our relationship has become boring.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i started our relationship badly (sex only which then evolved) we got together and he cheated on me, we split up, got back together and have been now for nearly three years. now our relationship has become boring. we went through all the good sex, the ups and ... (80 words)

I wont cheat but It's awfully tempting

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - There a new guy Han who works for my uncle who owns a casino and I am very very very attracted to him ... I have never been attracted to any man like this before. However, my uncle and dad have both told me to stay away from anyone who 'works' for them because they aren't ... (202 words)

I get jealous whenever i see women who are airbrushed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Why am i so jealous and insecure? Im 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Hes a good man and will do anything for me and vice verca. Ive suffered from jealousy and insecurity now for many years, however i am better than i have ever been, but i cant help ... (198 words)

My ex told them we had sex, but I haven't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - all my freinds think i've had sex, even my guy freinds, cause thats what my ex told them. Now the guy i really like has asked me out but he thinks i've doen it and keeps saying things towards us having sex. I know that i'd wait a long time to do it but how do i tell him that i ... (63 words)

When he presses his hard penis against me it drives me crazy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - when me and my boyfriend hug and kiss he sometimes gets hard and when he presses his penis against my vagina (with clothes on) it drives me crazy is this normal? and would he feel the same? thanks in advance ... (40 words)

How do i get over a mentally, sexually, financially abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - ive been in love with the same mentally, sexually, financially abusive man for 10 years. how do i get over him and why am i still obssessing over him... (29 words)

He's scared about leaving his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have recently started a new job and feel for a guy at work, however he has been living with a girl for 4 years, we love each other but hes scared about leaving his girlfriend, what shall i do to reassure him?... (43 words)

she offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever seeing my son again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - I am a father to a 15 year old boy, of which his mother and I have been apart for the past 12 years, but i have always made a point of maintaining a relationship with him. 2 years ago his mother offered me an ultimatum of "re-concilling a relationship with her or not ever ... (158 words)

I am worried i wont see her again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi, I have recently started to get feelings for a close mate from work, i've known her for sometime now as i am mates with her brother for a few years and i knew of her but didn't get to know her til she started working for the same company and her brother and me. I really like ... (225 words)

We are soulmates, but for the past few days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and have lived together for 2 years. we are soulmates, but for the past few days, he has been really distant, and has kept his mobile on silent for the past few days and barely even acknowledges me. i dont know what to do....can you ... (58 words)

If I leave my family it will cause hurt...will I regret not being with my soul mate?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6409 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Sometimes we find what we are not looking for. My husband and I were in an alternative lifestyle, we were swingers. Well, we have been married for 17 years and had been doing that for 15 of those years. It has always ALWAYS been just fun on the side. It always cemented my ... (902 words)

How do I know he's attracted to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - How would a woman know that a man is attracted to her ..i mean what signs should i be looking for.... (21 words)

She has cheated on me, when she's been drunk, in the past. The pain of knowing this, is unbearbale..how do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - I found out my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me about 8 months ago. She told me after a lot of questioning, though she has been lying about it until now. It happened while she was drunk and with a guy she had long had a crush on, and she said she only was having sex for a ... (132 words)

I feel so lonely and want kids... but how to approach my boyfriend!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F)

- I'm 25 and my partner is 37, My family have all deserted me, this being my mother, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles and last remaining grandparent. I feel so lonely at times, I have no friends and my boyfriend's parents split on my birthday this year after over 30 years ... (113 words)

How many BJ's on average, is average?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3031 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - How many blow jobs does the average man get per week ? ... (12 words)

I love him but always feel so uncomfortable around his family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - hi, ive been dating this amazing guy for awhile now and i know he's the one and he feels the same way. im extremely comfortable with him but the problem is with his family. they seem really nice but i feel awkward around them because they dont really talk to me like my parents ... (200 words)

I want to tell my best friend that I love her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - How do I tell my best friend(of the same sex) that I love her more than sisterly? My best friend, well, me and her are like sisters. In fact, we kind of are. I have strong romantic feelings for her, and I don't know how to tell her!!... (48 words)

Is my wife cheating on me with her cousin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - This past year my wife of 13yrs went alone on a vacation trip to visit her male cousin in South America. A month later I found a reply email sent from him, in Spanish, to her that he can not be her lover because of the distance but if they get together they kiss, they make love ... (246 words)

Seeing him flirting with someone else made me realize how much I like him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi there...okay here goes, ive posted a couple of times about a guy at work. He's 13 years older than me and married. Last christmas temptation got the better of us at a works do and we slept together. It was awkard afterwards and i think mainly because of me, i was so ... (369 words)

We were in love, we bought our first house... then she left! Can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - it's been a month now since my girlfriend left me and i really miss her and love her with all my heart. we brought our first house together last august things seemed to be going ok i mean we had our differences once in a while but who doesn't, then out of the blue she walked o... (153 words)

Is the MD of my company being friendly... or sleazy!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Hi guys, i'm a happily attached lady hoping for some advice on a small problem that i am facing at work. Basically i'm wondering whether you lot think that the following is just innocent friendliness or something more sleazy...The managing director at my workplace is a married ... (295 words)

He never tells about HIM or HIS life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6567 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age - i have been seeing my boyfriend for a year at the begin of jan,we only ever spend 1 eving /night tog,firstly it was about evry 3 weeks,now its about evry 10 days or so,but he spent xmas eve,xmas day/boxing day morning with me -and sent e-mail 2hours after left thanking me for ... (188 words)

This is a long one but it's worth it..... What is her game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6565 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi there... I am 25, male, please help. (This may take a while, sorry its so long). Ive been going with a girl for well over a year now, we used to be best friends, and always have been. There was always chemistry between us, but she was with some one, I kept getting re... (1394 words)

She's lazy, overweight and we have nothing to say to each other!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year. And things lately have become a bit tedious. Because of her money restrictions and transport we find it hard too go out. We end up just staying in and not doing nothing, watching TV. I feel my girlfriend is getting too ... (152 words)

How do you let a guy know you like him... without saying so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Hi cupids, I've never been one to wear my heart on my sleeve, and some people have even called me cold and secretive in my emotions. It's true I don't open up very well to other people and I find it difficult to convey my feelings in words to others. So basically it's l... (201 words)

I think my friend is making a mistake and I don't know how to tell her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - Dear cupids, This isn't a problem of mine but a friend's. I've been talking to her recently and lately I've noticed she's been feeling a little down. It turns out she really likes this girl in her year. I thought it was just a harmless crush but I've found out she's liked ... (197 words)

He has hurt me and will continue but I still don't think I can walk away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F)

- hiya this i lad i like has messed with my head and my heart but i still like him and im worried that when he next asks me out ill say yes and get hurt again how can i stop my self and forget about him? and why am i still attracted to some one who has treated me like this? how ... (75 words)

I had dreams of being with him and now I just don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I was in school when I met this man I fell in love with him from the first day then he used to be nice with me then he traveled I met him after 4years he asked me what makes me think of him for so long I told him I love him then he said why me then started to say that his bad ... (289 words)

Any advice for a wannabe lap-dancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F)

- I have wanted to be a lap dancer for a long time and, now I'm old enough, I want to try out for it. I'm nearly 20 and a student, so the money would be great! I don't have as much confidence as I used to, that's why I haven't been for an audition yet. But I think this will ... (135 words)

I don't want to be known as a geek anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - ok i'll keep this short. im 14 in high school, been quite scared of relationships since.. a long time i can't remember(always refused anyone who asked which happened at least a couple times). anyway, i want to change, but i'm really shy of girls i like/find attractive. i get ... (91 words)

Should I give him a third chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend has been together for 3 years and then i found out that he cheated on me twice. I left him it's been 3 months now and now he wants me back he said that he was sorry he made a mistake and this time he will give everything he has in our relationship, he ... (83 words)

I'm a middle aged lady... in love with another lady!

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27 December 2006 (?)

- I am a female in love with another female but I am not sure how she feels. We are both middle aged. We have the best time together and laugh a lot. She told me she only got married to get away from her step dad and has fallen out of love with her husband, in fact she was going ... (242 words)

He padded up but coul d I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - PlEASE HELP My boyfriend and i had sex last friday and we did use a condom and he did come. Because we used a condom doesnt that mean that im not pregnant especially as i have come on my period im not late im around the right time maybe a little early but that happe... (94 words)

When he dumped me he had changed..he was not the man I knew! What happened with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - A guy I had been seeing for a few months finished with me about 2 weeks ago and I really like him still even though I probably shouldn't. We had a really good connection and I also miss the physical contact. He sometimes had a problem in the bedroom with getting an erection ... (251 words)

Can you rebuild lost sexual desire?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age - After 25 mainly good years we have separated . The reason is that she does not desire me anymore and actual sex does not give her much feelings . My question is....Can you rebuild desire and enjoying sex. Bob... (42 words)

I like her a lot but she has a bf in prison. We date but am I just a stand in bf to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - this girl is a good friend of mine and we lost contact until about two weeks ago. we have been hanging out togather almost everyday since she seems to be into me we cuddle when nobody else is around we even slept together cuddling but nothing more the other night. she tells me ... (157 words)

How do I deal with telling her parents, we are dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - my name is frankie well is was christmas night me and my girl friend were in the house alone well not exactly her two brothers were in my brothers room and i was with her in my room and we started kissing and all went down she took her pants off and i took my pants too and ... (157 words)

I feel neglected when he's watching TV... ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - My bf loves to watch tv,but oftentimes i feel i'm neglected because he don't talk to me not like we're not watching.. what should i do? please help... (30 words)

My ex boyfriend just used me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - My ex bf just wanted me for sex and used a lame excuse to break up with me, and i've found out that my current bf's friend is best friends with my ex, so when my ex found out that i was going out with my current bf he gave like some weird look or smirk that my bf was talking ... (376 words)

He was flirty... I got flirty.. Then his wife found out and got mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6156 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Well here goes: This guy at work flirted with me touching and making comments. examples asked if I was wearing a thong or a bra and touched my ankle and even bumped into me with his front on my butt. He is very mean to me in front of others and says I am too sensitive. Now ... (160 words)

How should I find out if he wants to be friends... or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I dated this guy a few years back and things just didn't work out then. Now we have both had a little time to grow up and think about what we really want. We went out almost every night for about 2 weeks and now I may talk to him one time a day. I really like him and think I ... (90 words)

Why is he acting jealous if he doesnt want to be with me? Does he still care ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6568 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, well i never thought that i was going be here writing you this. Im really desperate. The problem here is that i met a guy like 3 months ago, he was so into me, but i decided not to take things seriously because he was far away, he was so into me and calling me and everythi... (590 words)

Worried that my ex will start dating one of my friends!

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27 December 2006 (M) - Worried about my ex and one of my best friends dating. My ex girlfriend has a blog where she mentioned that she can hardly go without a day without talking to him and she calls him her "bestfriend." She goes on to say that he is one of three guys that she would consider ... (133 words)

My boyfriend is being abused by his parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend is getting seriously abused by his parents, physically and mentally. He's even been beaten up while we were talk on the phone, and has even called off dates after literally being in no condition to do anything but rest. I want to call someone and put an end to it, ... (138 words)

It hurts me to think he lies about masturbating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and my fiance is 24. We have a healthy relationship, sexual and other. I understand it is normal to masterbate, everyone does it. But it hurts my feelings when he does it and lies about it, and covers it up. He never just does it, he always has magazines, ... (94 words)

She won't let me kiss her! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - this girl has dinner with me everyday she even made me dinner by her she wont let me kiss her and says she just wants to be friends when i try to kiss her she shys away and says stop... (40 words)

Dating tips needed! What should I ask to breaking the ice, when getting to know someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Ok, so basically I'm looking for dating advice.. specifically, how to get to know a person? I'm very very shy when I'm around new people on a personal level. I mean, I have no problem chatting it up with people in any other situation, where there is no danger of having... (194 words)

What do I do when I'm forbidden to see the guy I believe I really love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6567 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i have been seeing this guy for 10 months. he lives 1 hour away! i truley believe this is the one! he is 2 years older than me. my parents hate him though. im forbidden to have contact with him in any way shape or form. but i have recently opened a new email accoun and w... (392 words)

How do I tell my bf..that oral sex does not do it for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years..were engaged and getting married soon.yay..i love him and he loves me..we talke about every lil thing..and were very sexualy active..it's just i'm not very turnd on to being eatin out...i don't know y i need help on to tell him how 2 ... (90 words)

I can dance with them but have no idea what to say to them... Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6566 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - I just come from night club and I had a lot of fun: I danced with many different girls. I was confident and felt they were attracted to me. I didn't need to talk to them to dance with them. But I didn't know how to take the next step, because I didn't know what to say to them.... (175 words)

How do I build up trust, when the trust has been broken?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - how do i build up trust , when trust the trust has been broken?... (14 words)

My first two husbands left me to be with other women... now I've hooked up with a married man - how do I give him up!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) age - I have been let down badly by 2 ex husbands who have both left to be with other women. i now find 6 years later i am involved with a married man who i adore and love dearly. i dont want to hurt anyone like i was hurt but cant let go. how can i give him up?... (61 words)

Not sure if we want the same things in this relationship. Should I stick it out or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - hi, im not in desperate need of help exactly, just reassurance, that the path im on is right. ive been with my bf for 5months, we were friends at college for the past 2yrs, then when i was drunk one night in summer he asked me out.i never exactly felt i liked him, but now i fe... (153 words)