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writes:The girl im seeing is in love with her ex still,and her ex loves her.They still see each other and go shopping together,but i don't like her seeing her ex,as she spends more time with him then with meShe says that they are just "friends".She has said that they don't have a future because his family will disown him if they go out again.She says she really likes me,and has booked tickets for a concert next year for us,I'm just really unsure what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): if you really do love her youd try and stay with her!!! give her time!!! shell always love this guy....forever and youve got to accept that!! everyone still loves their first love!! i bet even you do!!! if you really want her, stick with her....if you really think shes worth it!! but if not run as fast as you can!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2006): Run like hell. Sorry to be blunt but my last ex and his ex were the best of friends, made worse by the fact they had a son together, (sorry) and they ended up sleeping together, i felt gutted but got the strength to get away. You should do so now. They can be friends but they shouldn't be spending more time together than you two. No - I find this all wrong. They go shopping together, why can't she go shopping with her mates. Ask her to put him in the background or out of her life completely and if she doesn't then get rid. You will have a lot of trouble here.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (12 December 2006):
 If the olny reason she's not with him is because of his family, move on. That means her hear is probably still with him. Thata's perhaps why they spend time together.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Leave her and her ex alone. Think about it, she's telling you that if he would have her back then she would go. I'm sure she likes you but she loves him and they do have history together. If and when he asks her back she will go and you will be left out in the cold. Don't be a fool. You're playing with fire here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): I would leave it as it doesnt sound as if shes ready to move on. also if you are insecure now about an ex you will find it hard to trust her and you will always feel second best.
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