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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it time to end my long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance relationship for almost a year. i don't know much about his personnal life. he doesn't do anything for me we only talk on the phone.he was supposed to take a job to make more money and so we could be closer but he turned it down. ... (87 words)

My cheating boyfriend gave me an eating disorder!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - ever since my bf cheated one me and we split up i've had problems eating, i'm down to 7 stone 6 and i'm getting worried about my weight..... but when i try to eat i either only eat a few mouthfuls or i just dont want to eat at all. sometimes i feel hungry but choose not to eat. ... (79 words)

My brother is physically intimidating my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F)

- i think my brother will compleatly destroy my relationship as he has threatened my bf a few times now last time he left my bf almost in tears i dont know what he is saying to my bf and neither my bf or brother will tell me wants happening ive asked my brother to stop and my ... (93 words)

Our relationship is great! It's his mate - he hates our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for a while. We are really happy together. The problem is his friend. He is extremely hateful toward our relationship. He tells people my boyfriend just wanted a girlfriend so he could get sex and I'm probably giving it to him. If he calls when ... (202 words)

Sex didn't draw us together..it drew us apart! Does it have to do with his fixation on his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am feeling shell-shocked at the things my ex (who has a neurological condition so there is no tact in his communication) said to me when we split up because they do not ring true at all (he is in his 20’s: I am early 30’s). I have known him forever and we became close ... (955 words)

If he really liked me that much wouldn't he have said yes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a while who i get on well with, so i asked him out. he said no but said he liked me as more than a friend too, but he just didnt think it was the right time for him to have a relationship- he was too busy. i mean we are going through examinations in the ... (144 words)

Does she fancy me? I love her - should I talk to her? confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

23 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - hi everyone i need some help there's this girl who is in my year. I know she used to fancy me in the summer, I also fancied her, and so decided to tell her not so long ago. She said she didnt fancy me, and now i can't stop thinking about her. We talk occasionally, bu... (126 words)

Can you guys tell me how this 'friends with the ex thing' works because it has me baffled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Can you guys tell me how this friends with ex things works because it has me baffled!!! How can you truly be friends with an ex when one part of the couple has rejected the other or both parts have? What are the reasons that an ex would want to be friends with you? How do ... (553 words)

It was my first time and the earth didn't move!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Last night i had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 10 months. It wasn't planned and was a bit out of the blue. Anyway, i am a little concerned that maybe something is wrong. It didn't hurt me at all which is good, it just felt a little weird if anything. What i am ... (199 words)

I'm 16 and I have clinical depression. What effects could anti-depressants have?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old and I have clinical depression. I'm not on anti-depressants yet but there's a strong chance I will be next month, right now I'm on beta-blockers to deal with anxiety and stress. I just want to know, what effects could anti-depressants have? My doctor is ... (139 words)

I want to marry him but he can't hold a job, he has trouble with the law and there are trust issues. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I'm in a long term relationship with my bf and I'm thinking about our future. We've talked about getting married and having kids someday. I really love this guy, more than you could possibly imagine, but he's not very 'practical'. He has behavioural problems which mean he can't ... (197 words)

Dad may disapprove of my fiancee! Should we just go get married or talk to Dad first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6580 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - my ex david works for my dad and i grew up with him and i truly love him as a friend and i'm engaged to another man Jay* now and my dad has no idea. He's one of those men that takes no mess and hasn't really got to know my fiance but believe that no-one is good enough for me. ... (154 words)

He puts his friendship with his ex gf..before me! Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I like this guy but he is not that atractive,he can be anoying most of the time,and his ex girlfriend is still his friend and he puts her befor me all the time,OH YEA and he is a bad kisser.I tryed talking to him about how I felt BUt he just told me that if i wanted him to not ... (121 words)

I can t move on as I really do care for her as a friend... but she doesn t care! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

23 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hello, I think i m in love with this women. She makes me all warm inside, she makes me happy whenever she s around... its undescribable. However she s mean. She expects that all guys run around her... actually they do i've made it clear to her that she means the world to ... (150 words)

He hangs a picture of his ex up but not one of me and we've been dating for 7 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age - After almost seven years of dating, boyfriend wants to hang two large pictures with one ex-wife (but not the other ex-wife)with family pictures. He has one small snapshot of he and I on a high shelf that is difficult to even see. I say this is inappropriate and disrespectful ... (64 words)

He says he can't trust me because I hide things from him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together in a long distance relationship for 2 years and 4 months. He is very insecure and jealous to say the least. He has a way of turning innocent things into huge problems example..when I saw an ex bf through a window..or when I had a coworker ... (253 words)

I'm scared of his clinginess and I'm not sure if I want him...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

23 December 2006 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I think I have fallen in love with my best friend, but I can't be sure because I keep changing my mind if I like him or not. About a year ago he asked me out after we shared our first kiss, but I got scared that it would ruin our friendship and about what our mutal friends ... (254 words)

We split up and I kissed another guy! So why do I feel guilty for doing that?

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23 December 2006 (F)

- This is going to sound strange but i recently split with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago!!! I went out last night and i ended up randomly kissing some guy in a club. I still really love my ex, and we are best friends!!! But i feel guilty for kissing that guy!!! How do ... (63 words)

Is a date leading to a relationship too much to expect at 19?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (M)

- I'm 19 and although I always see guys going on dates on T.V. but never having a relationship with them when they're my age I assume thats the norm. So is it it weird that at my age that when I ask a girl out on a date, I would like to take the relationship forward at some ... (59 words)

He's unhappy in marriage but I don't want him to use as an excuse to leave. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i have met a man through work. he has taken an instant liking to me, and whilst i thought he was a nice guy, i never thought anything more than that. on our second meeting, i realised he was very attracted to me, and we ended up in bed together. i found out he has a wife and 2 ... (137 words)

Have you ever thought you loved someone then decided you didnt, but it hurt to part from them ??

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23 December 2006 (F)

- Hi Can i just ask any guys out there , have you ever 'thought' you loved someone, then decided you didnt , and it made you so sad to part with them . Is that the truth , or just frightened of comittment?? Even if you went against all your morals to be with them. I'm sorry it... (77 words)

I love my GF, but Im really bothered about her past sexaul partners, how can I get past this ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I have been with my girl or almost a year. Im in love with her so much, but it really bothers me about the guys she has slept with beore me and she is my 1st girl riend. What should i do to get over this?... (48 words)

I cheated, he just found out, how can reassure him it wont happen again!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - my problem is quite complex. i have been with my boyfriend since i was 14, we basically grew up together ans are not just a couple we are best friends too. but recently he found out that i cheated a few times a while back when we were goin through a rough patch. he is ... (90 words)

He cheats on me! How do I get past this because I'm at rock bottom?

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23 December 2006 (F) - I'm at rock bottom at the moment, me and my bf were together nearly a year when he started going out every weekend with him mates. this may not seem out of the ordinary but i at the time was working both friday and saturday night because my boss was away and it meant i couldnt ... (540 words)

Am I right to feel upset that he was masturbating in the bed next to me while I slept!!!?

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23 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I woke up one night to my boyfriend masturbating in bed next to me. I feel this isnt normal for him to do this next to me while i was asleep. Am i right to feel upset or should i just let it go.... (46 words)

Just found out he has curiosities towards other men, how can I bring this up without letting on I read his emails!!?

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23 December 2006 (F)

age 41-50 - I have serious trust issues after several past boyfriends have cheated so i could not help myself when i checked my current partners emails. we've been together a year and a half i live with one another. What i found has really upset and confused me. I have found emails to ... (143 words)

He keeps going on about his friend who is a model and its making me insecure!!

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23 December 2006 (F) - okay I've been with this guy for a few weeks, but I he's not making me really happy. He keeps saying how gorgeous his friend who is a model is. She just got a lay out in maxim. I feel really bad when he says "She's gorgeous!!". He's also made comments about my eyebrows. He ... (225 words)

Whats good or bad about dating your best friend ?

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23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Just out of curiousity, why is it that some people won't consider dating their best friend? I have a guy bestfriend whom I'm starting to have escalating feelings for. (i've known him for about 5 years, he's 17, i'm 16, and he also has feelings for me as well. found out from... (86 words)

I like them both! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. he wrestles and i have a little crush on someone on his team. the boy i have a cruch on likes me too and i flirt around a little bit but nothing serious. i dont know what i am feeling right now because i like them both. what ... (61 words)

I seem to be getting mixed signals, does he like me as more than a friend ??

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23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Okay. I have this guy friend who is 18 (and I'm 17) and he is constantly teasing me (about anything), remembers the most random things I say, and purposely says things to get a rise out of me just so he could see my reaction (which he has admitted), but I know he's not doing it ... (93 words)

Preganancy and abortion help, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

23 December 2006 (F)

- I am 18 and normally my boyfriend and I take care to use precautions when having sex. I am on the pill, but recently due to exam stress I have happened to miss approx. 3-4 pills in a row and we have had 'unprotected' sex twice(without him coming inside me) I then took the ... (233 words)

I slept with someone else, but havent yet with my boyfriend and I cant understand why!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I have slept with someone other than my boyfriend. That has been quite a while ago and I have not done it again. I just can’t understand why I would sleep with some which I know just 4 months or so, and I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and I have not. And I am not ... (85 words)

Could my dad be a paeodophile?

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23 December 2006 (M)

- I kow this sounds ridiculous but is my dad a paedophile? He goes away 1 or 2 nights a week for business, always interested in what I do and in his past he had to look after his younger siblings as his parents were nice people but not good parents. And also it turns out his ... (131 words)

We have nothing to talk about anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. Every thing is going fine, but I find that there is nothing to talk about, I don’t know why what could I do about it? ... (35 words)

Whats going on with her ? Im more confused than ever!

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23 December 2006 (M)

- What's going on? for the past week i've been putting message's up on these board's about how she txting me saying how sorry she is 2 of dumped me i told u everything about the other saturday night on how i think it may of set thing's off. 1 week after us breaking up. i'm... (666 words)

There's a sleepover soon, with alcohol. Should we do the nasty?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 15 and i really love this guy. Should i sleep with him? I know he feels the same way. There is a sleepover soon with alcohol and i dont know if things will just happen without me really thinking about it so i want to make my mind up before i go.... (53 words)