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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

my bf came back from America with a new...gf?! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend came back from america after 6 months but he came back with a girlfriend and he asked me to meet him at the airport so i went with flowers and so much love and i saw him with another girl, he acted like i wasnt his girlfriend and just hugged me and said "hey, this ... (125 words)

I know it's christmas but I can't help but feel down, about the state of the world! Any uplifting words?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age - It is Christmas time and many people around me seem so happy and full of life. I teach a behavior class in a pretty rough school and I find it hard not to take home some of the deep problems of my students. I have been single about a year and a half now and still no permanent ... (189 words)

I didn't answer the phone so he decided to not to come home. What is up with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age - I thought my partner and I were getting on well, he said i was good to be with, relaxing, and good for him. Now he keeps saying he needs some space. He has been on a few nights away. I haven't a clue where he has stayed. He never answers his mobile. Last night he was aw... (186 words)

He told me he's bi and likes this guy! I am shocked and hurt..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6548 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Okay, heres my thing...my best friend is a guy and we have been very very close best friends for about 2 years. We have tried to date before like a long time ago but we didnt because i chose not to, but about 3 months ago we decided to start dating and everything has been ... (255 words)

We kissed alot an then ...I found out he's married. Is it best just to leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - up until the other night this guy wasnt even on my radar, we work in different departments. but after the other night we kissed alot but i then found out he is married. he says its complicated but he really likes me and i really like him. is it really best to just leave it?... (58 words)

Do females look at some guys as being completely unapproachable? If so how can I fix that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) - Females often tell me that they thought I was mean/stuck up until they talk to me. I'll admit that many females find me really attractive but I'm really shy and I don't think they realize that. So do females look at some guys as being completely unapproachable? If so how can I ... (54 words)

Iis it possible that a girl can be too shy... even towards a guy that she is attracted to?

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15 December 2006 (M) - If a girl is shy will she act as though she's on her cell phone if she sees a guy she likes? For instance everytime I see this certain young lady usually if im standing somewhere and she passes me up she will pull out her cell phone almost immediately after passing me up, not ... (87 words)

I haven't had a bf in ages and my friends are hurtful towards me - I'm so upset. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- Dear all those willing to listen to me... atm i feel very depressed i havent had a bf in ages and all the guys in my area and surrounding towns hate me and everywhere i go im known as the midge or the lezbo im sick of this reputation i mean im only 16!!!!!! i really want a b... (125 words)

He postponed our wedding - am I food for sticking with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Am I a fool still wanting to be with my fiance after he wanted to postpone our wedding? Just a few months before our wedding date, he wanted to postpone our wedding because he felt we were not as close as before. I sort of agree but think it is just a lul and we will get ... (115 words)

I feel like I need to nag him for anything sexual - now I'm starting to think of my other guy friend more. I'm really confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - hi, i have been goin gout with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and he is really lovely. the only thing is that he doesnt seem to be as interested in me sexually as i would like, we are rarely intimate and hed never initiates anything. i feel like i have to nag him into wanting ... (195 words)

How should a man treat a lady?

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15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - hello my names d n im 20.I grew up with my mother,a single parent of five and hav only known of 3 men in my mothers life of whom are not there anymor.And although shes happily married now, i still dont feel i know all there is to know about how a man is truly meant to treat a ... (127 words)

I'm afraid if I try to contact her again after all this time, it would be awkward - any suggestions?

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15 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I am interested in this girl, only the thing is I haven't spoken to her in about half a year. Recently, i was thinking about how we used to be friends a few years ago, and all the fun times we had, and it just brought back my interest in her a lot. I don't know how I could ... (147 words)

Should I tell my parents about how I got drunk and did sexual things with older guys?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey, A copule of weaks ago, i got drunk and ended up giving two lads blowjobs,toss of two lads and fingerd by one. They were all 16,17 and 18 and i am only 13. But the problem is i was half asleep and very drunk when all of this happend. Should I tell my parents? Can... (79 words)

I confronted my wife about the affairs I found out about and she claims they're over - the last email was 4 days ago!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) age - My wife and I have been married 23 years. We have two daughters, one in college and one in third grade. I love her deeply, passionately, and openly. She is always saying how lucky she is to have me. I pay attention to her, I notice new clothes, I compliment her every day ... (416 words)

Our boss says coworkers are not to date each other - he doesn't know his bro and I are falling for each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Well i just started a new job about 3 weeks ago and Im in a little bit of a situation. I have a thing for the bosses brother and he feels the same about me, we have been sneaking around, and I am starting to fall for him. The problem is my boss told another employee that if I ... (138 words)

My teacher and I have feelings for one another - I'm graduating soon so would it be wrong to take things further?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) - Im in love with my teacher!!! He's only 5 yrs older than me and he's so sweet and kind!! He treats me differently to everyone else he makes me feel so special!! This is the happiest ive ever been..and i know its wrong to feel this was towards a teacher but he doesnt even feel ... (177 words)

All she does is talk about material posessions and spending money! And all she likes to do is sit around and watch TV!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6548 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) - Im feeling a bit fed up with the routine I have with my girlfriend. We have been going out not for a year and as none of us can drive yet find it difficult to do new things together. I find my girlfriend very repetative and irritable at times. All year round she goes on abou... (208 words)

Can someone be sure of their sexual orientation at 14?

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15 December 2006 (F) - can you be sure of your sexual orientation at 14? i believe im bisexual and have been for i don't know how long i came 2 terms with it about a year ago but can i be sure of it at my age? i am sure of my feelings and im nnot asking for help with my oreintation im just asking if ... (80 words)

I want to love him again - maybe I just need personal space?

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15 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i dont what happened, suddenly im just not feeling inlove with my boyfriend anymore and for no apparent reason either. Somtimes the love feeling returns but only for just short periods of time. how could i have gone from being totally inlove one day to being not inlove the ... (156 words)

I'm 13-he's 16 and I need toask what type of trouble he would get into, if we were to have sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi this may be a stupid question but what is the law on under 16? i have a 16yr old bf and i m 13 and obviosly he can get in to trouble. But we havent had sex yet and ive made it clear that i am not going to till i can with you. But what is it he can get in trouble about? I... (98 words)

He says that he wants to be in a relationship with me, but I'm not convinced he means it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- I need some advice! A couple of days ago, I told my ex boyfriend that I was reaching my breaking point because we were acting like a couple but didn't have that label of boyfriend/girlfriend. After I told him this, he told me that he really cares about me a lot and would ... (165 words)

I saw my ex today, but he made no attempt to acknowledge me - why?

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15 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - hi all just want some advice, which i probably know the answer to really! my boyfriend and i split up 2 months ago , is a long story, his decision to split , i was heartbroken. as we dont live far from eachother we said we would at least be civil etc , should we see eachother... (118 words)

I dumped her but expected her to contact me but she hasn't! Am I regretting all I did?

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15 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi I finished with a girl I had been seeing as things were great then they were not. I have not been with anyone serious for years. This girl really made an impact on me, she was pretty different, fun no hangups. Although she start getting pretty keen which kind of fr... (152 words)

After two months he said things weren't working out. Do we still have a chance, or should I take time out for myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) - Hi there, I am feeling very sad. The guy I was seeing broke it off with me a few nights ago. I am 25 he is 27. We got on so well and things were going great. He told me he really liked me, how amazing I was and how he hadn't been with someone he felt this much for in a lo... (538 words)

I think she likes me b/c she kept touching my leg, but we never talk - what should I do?

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15 December 2006 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 14 and this girl I fancy is 13. She kept on touching my leg but I think it was just a joke, the trouble is that I help in the library at our school and it is classed as being a boffin if you help there. What should I do because I never actually talk to her?... (59 words)

Bf got another girl pregnant and he's going to marry her! How do I cope with this?

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15 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend got somebody pregnant and he is planning to marry that person. Can someone please help me with the coping mechanisms to the issue. I am so broken and I don't even know where to start...This happened recently and he confessed to me that he wants to be with the other ... (113 words)

SITE NEWS: We're on myspace - add us www.myspace.com/dearcupid

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (M)

- DearCupid is now on myspace - not quite sure what I'm going to do with the page but please add: www.myspace.com/dearcupid To your friends list :-) A. (site guy)... (41 words)

My girlfriend wants to become a stripper. I am not sure if I am ok with it.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3108 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants to be a stripper. She has started working in a peep show. i.e women behind glass dancing together. I think she wants to do this as part of her sexual growth and exploration. She mentioned that she is thinking of working in a actual strip club where they ... (174 words)

She broke up with me, now all she does is ask me for money.

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15 December 2006 (M) - Guys..... I'm feeling very lonely and VERY VERY lost right now... Well ever since my ex-gf broke up with me about 3 months ago ive been suffering from depression and loneliness. Ever since we broke up she has been asking me for money because she has financial problems. Because ... (491 words)

Why do all my relationships end like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all Please help me I am going through a lot. I seem to be very unfortunate with relationships. Almost all my relationships has ended me in tears and they will end immaturely. I have never had a relationship that lasted for more than 3 month... Within the first month of d... (314 words)

Why won't my bf go down on me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - me and my bf have been going out for four years now and in the begining the sex was great but now he wont go down on me he hasnt in two years i have talked to him about it but he just gets mad so i wanted to know why he dont do it anymore?... (56 words)

I like him, but does he feel the same?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) - Ok here is the problem........there is this guy that i like and his bestfriend(bf) knows.......well his bf asked me if i wanted him to ask him if he liked me and i said i dont know if that is a good idea and he said dont worry about it im not goin to make it seem like you ... (207 words)

How can I get him to act his age? He is 23

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15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - how do i make my boyfriend act he's age? he's 23... (11 words)

I lose my temper way too easily with my bf! How can I stop doing this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now, and recently I've been starting to lose my temper on him. I'm usually not like this, I'm always calm, relaxed, and I never lose my temper on anyone. He is the first person I've acted this way towards. Last week for ... (156 words)

How do I make everyone in my family happy as well as he and I? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6551 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much. He means so much to me, he is more that a boyfriend he is also my best friend. i am 18 we want to move together but i just moved to a different state with my dad. how do i make everyone in my family happy and him and i happy too? What should i do?... (62 words)

I have a feeling he really likes me so why did he go back to his ex gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6551 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have a problem, I've been talking to this guy for about 6 months now. At the time we first started to talk he did not have a gf, and we had a lot of good times together. I always went out of my way for him and did everything I could for him, but just a few weeks ago he told ... (133 words)

All of a sudden i dont feel like I love him anymore! Whats wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - im so scared, all of a sudden i dont feel like i love him anymore. I dont even know where these feelings came from . I have been in this relationship for 8 months and i dont know where the love went, sometimes i feel like i love him and sometimes i dont, i dont undertand my ... (158 words)

Could someone explain to me whythe only thing i dont get is why he doesnt love me even though I havnt done anything bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - dear cupid i need help.. i used to go out with this guy who i loved so much .. everything was going ok with us and than suddenly he stoped talking to me as he used to i got worried and asked him he said he needs time i thought he wants to break up becuase he asked for break. ... (178 words)

He moved here to be with me but I wnat to end it with him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6452 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Ive been going out with b/f for over a year. We met on holiday and after almost a year of a long distance relationship, he moved to where I live to be with me. But recently I feel like I want to split with him, but I cant because hes moved here to be with me and doesnt ... (132 words)

Mt bf has a horrid temper but I love him! We had a fight and he stormed out-what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- My bf and I just had a fight. We're both studying in the US, and living together(our parents don't know), he's 20, I'm 23, we're both of Indian origin, and he made a statement that generalized Indian girls as being needy, clingy, insecure. He didn't make it seem like it was ... (507 words)

I need advice on how to be a proper gf to him as I don't want to lose him! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6551 days ago

15 December 2006 (?) age 30-35 - Hey everyone my best friend ask me to be his girlfrined a few days ago it was the happiest thing that could happen to me and of course i said yes but i am terrified i'll screw it up i really like him and i want it to last! I have not had a lot of bf and both of ... (160 words)

He cheated on me and dumped me for another girl! But I want him back! How do I make him remember how good it was?

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15 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - me and my Ex-boyfriend were together on and off for a year. While things weren't that good with us he cheated on me. we had broken up and once we got back together (i didn't know about him cheating on me yet) we said i love you to each other, things we're amazing and i couldn't ... (210 words)

She keeps saying somethingisn't right with our relationship-I am tired of her nagging! Should we split up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

15 December 2006 (M) age - i work long hours, and often have to work away. my partner of 4 years, will ring me on my mobile or text me late at night, when i am away - but i need my own space and never answer her call. she will then keep ringing me and texting until the morning, she keeps accusing m... (130 words)

Gf is cutting her hair/ piercing her tongue and I hate it! Is she doing doing it so I won't like her anymore?

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15 December 2006 (M)

- My Girlfriend is haveing her hair cut and tonque pierced she know's i hate them. do u think she's cuting that long sexy hair and have her tonque done to try Change so i will not like her no more? she dumped me 3 day's ago i've seen her every day. the day she dumped me w... (741 words)

I don't want to lose her friendship so how do I keep her close to me even though we don't talk much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6548 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- I've been best friends with this girl, Jenn, since preschool..we're both 26 years old now (I'm a week older than her.) Anyway, we don't talk that much because she works the night shift and sleeps during the day. and it seems that she's more interested in hanging out with bud... (150 words)

My bf sent his ex a christmas card...why did he do this as it upset me a great deal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6542 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. He was previously married for 8 years and his wife left him, 15 months ago. He tells me that he is in love with me. Although during a conversation earlier he mentioned that he had sent his wife a Christmas card. I was very confused ... (92 words)

All these feelings from a past relationship, keep interfering with my new relationship! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

15 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - my ex is with one of my mates now, and all though i dont won't him back cause he's a bad person, i still get horrible feelings towards her and stil think about him and its intefering with my new relation ship will this ever end?... (47 words)

He will be kicked out of her parent's house if he goes off his GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

15 December 2006 (F)

- im madly in love with a guy that has a gf and he been confessing his love to me alot. he says he has gone off his gf and sees her as his best mate not gf we had a few nights out together and we finding it really hard to just hang out as we almost kiss most nights only problem ... (116 words)