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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like him so should I ask him-if he likes me or just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- So.. A few weeks ago I told my best guy friend that I liked him, because it was killing me inside just holding it all in. He didn't show a positive response when I told him, so I told him I don't want things to change between us (when I really did.) Afterwards, I asked how he w... (236 words)

We work together and have sex together too-not sure how to act around him at work? Any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hello there.. im in love with someone at work, we've exchanged flirty emails and we slept together at a works do then we both must have been embarrassed because we never spoke about it or mentioned it again until now on another works do i saw him with someone else and wanted ... (109 words)

I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him up for someone else because I l... (122 words)

I met up with one of my exes again and can't remember anything about him. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6532 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i have a weird thing goin on. i was in a serious r'ship with a guy goin back 6 yrs ago which lasted 2yrs. we didnt communicate well back then, and we were young. and things fizzled out due to stuff we both had done, he broke my heart, but i probably broke his too. recently ... (195 words)

Is there a tablet out there that alleviates a heavy, painful period? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- hi all cupids, i live in the uk.Im 15 and my periods are sooo heavy and painfull and ive heard that i can get a tablet that can help me, but i dont no any details about it or how it works, and ive heard tht it can have dangerous side affects. can anyone answer my questi... (64 words)

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?... (29 words)

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?... (33 words)

Should I call my ex bf and give a New Year's greeting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He moved away and has a new girlfriend. I am dating now but I have still not met someone special. I will be going to the city that my ex lives in for a few days next week. I had no intention of contacting him but my sister said ... (89 words)

Torn between two guys I like a lot..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- i dont no what to do . . .i'm going out with this lad i like him and he likes me, our relationship is steady. . .but i think i also fanci this other lad who i've liked for ages and he is giving some signals of liking me 2 now i'm confused about my feelings and dont no wot to do ... (64 words)

I like my son's 17 year old gf! How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6532 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - My names *Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, *Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. Recently Ive been having feeling ... (197 words)

I'm in a new relationship but my heart aches for my ex bf! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - About 4 years ago I was dating this guy that I was head over heels for. Unfortunatly we ended up breaking up. We are now both in new relationships but I miss him. I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. I love my boyfriend now but my ex was so special to me. ... (129 words)

I'm 31 and find myself going out alone..as my friends have all moved away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and have reached a crisis point in my life that I was foolish enough not see coming; the last of my friends has moved 100s of miles away and I am finding myself deeply, deeply lonely. I have been making the effort to go out by myself but I feel very ... (234 words)

He's an online love but he won't meet me. How do I convince him to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i see you have had alot of questions similiar to this and i know it seems a pain to be repeating the answers but, ive fallen for someone online we have been talking for ages and i trust him i have a sense about him.and he has told me that he loves me so much it hurts.. we ... (242 words)

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a guy, then called him ... (248 words)

He keeps giving me the brush off and I'm upset! Am I over-reacting to all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- I met a man on the internet after a month of talking to him etc,anyway when we did meet i was totally smitten with him from the start and it looked like he was keen as well.Well we have arranged to meet again in the new year,now my problem is this...When he went away for a week ... (144 words)

Marriage is what he wants but I'm wary as I was stood up at the alter, in my past. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - i'm in love with my bf and we've been seeing each other for 6 months even though we have been friends for about 5 years. The problem is that he wants us to get married and i'm not sure if i really consider marriage for me as i was stood up at the altar once, about 2yrs ago w... (127 words)

I saw him with his new gf today and I can't stop crying! How do I get him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Dear Cupids I'm in distress!! I thought I was over my ex-bf but today I saw him with another girl and I haven't been able to stop crying ever since. He seems so happy and was holding her like he never held me. I want him so badly, how do I make him fall back in love with me?... (60 words)

He wants to be just friends and sometimes-he doesn't even act like that! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush told me that there's no hope of us ever being together (not in so many words...I just read between the lines of his answer to the question, "Why can't we be together?" and figured out that that's basically what he meant). He said he wants to... (138 words)

My partner had an affair and a drinking problem! He's back but nothing has changed. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Partner had an affair with a friend also has a small drink problem too him back after 4 weeks but nothing has changed very unhappy what should i do i think its over ... (33 words)

I am gutted by my parent's divorce...Are any other adult 'survivors' of parental divorce..if so, how did it affect you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- I am asking this question as I am now at the end of my tether (and it has been a long one). My Mum and my Step-dad (who I adore) are splitting up after 22 years together! I am gutted. Mum left him for another man because basically all the love had gone out of the ... (210 words)

Did he leave me because he thought life would be better without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Is there anything I can do? My boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me 8 months ago and as you can probably guess I've had a tough, very depressed time trying to get on with my life. I thought he was the man I would spend the rest of my life with but instead I was forced to move ... (164 words)

Once a guy calls me for a date-I get scared and push them away? Why do I do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have a problem getting close to guys. every time im interested in a guy, and want them to like me, everything is fine until they confirm that they ACTUALLY do like me. once that happens....and they call, and want to know me better, i get scared and push them away. i cant tell ... (105 words)

I'm 16.I love my bf but .I have fears about my relationship. Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Me(16) and my boyfriend (20) of 1.5 years has had sex for 3 times already, we are in a very loving relationship,but I fear that if we start having sex alot the relationship will be more based on that than on love.And I fear losing him. Am I just being stupid? Or is there ... (65 words)

I now want him to be my boyfriend..What should I do to change the situation and win him back into my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I’m 24 and I started a new job this year, which I love to bits, and in the process, got to know one of my collegues, (he’s 20), who was giving me lots of attention and flirty compliments. At the time, we were both single and he asked me out for a drink, which I agreed to ... (214 words)

My ex bf is dating my best friend and I still have strong feelings for him! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - my ex bf is dating my best friend but i still have feelings for him. my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he liked my friend of almost 5yrs. at the time we were having problems but were still sexually involved. my friend knew i still loved him cos i told her everything. i felt so betra... (92 words)

The mystery woman on his message machine was his ex gf! She wants him back--so what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- I have been with my current bf since the first of July 06. We live together and things were going so good, that is until these phone calls started coming in. There is a caller ID and also an answering machine for messages. Well, this female voice was on the machine ... (376 words)

We broke up but now he's messing with me--what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - okay my name is iesha i had a boyfriend for like a month we had sex then a couple of weeks we broke up so he be messing with me, toughing me on my butt? what should i do im in love wit this boy!... (45 words)

I want a relationship and I don't want to be a virgin! What's wrong with me..why can"t I find someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hey! I'm a 22 year old female virgin :/...i'm don't believe i'm ugly, I have gotten guys before but always tend to not call them back or back away from them because of insecurities. I'm a little over weight, I weight 145 and am 5'5...but I don't really look fat. I'd like to ... (169 words)

His actions and words don't match up! Was he really my soul mate...or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with the man of my dreams for a year. I love him dearly, and he is my soul mate...and he said im his. However, over this year we've had a few ups and downs...he said we cant marry when he said we could, also said we should look for a house and when we did...didn't ... (439 words)

When you are drunk.. can you really not control what you are doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - dear cupid, when you are drunk can you really not control what you are doing or do you show you true feelings? an example is that my friend says he wouldn't kiss a girl but when he was drunk he did kiss her and also they were really close to each other like holding hands and he ... (70 words)

Had sex and found out after...the condom split! What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 December 2006 (?) age 30-35 - Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were both stuck... someon... (53 words)

He wants me with him all the time. How do I let him know...time apart is okay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice on how to deal with my partner, he basically expects me to stay in every night, and every day with him, and every time i enjoy any time apart from him, say drinks with work colleagues, a huge row ensues. I have tried reasoning with him, however i can't ... (71 words)

What are the exact number of 'safe days' after a women's period?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I need to know the number of days one should count as her safe days,that's after receiving your monthly periods.... (20 words)

We met online but never met. He afraid to me-how do I convince him otherwise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, im 21 yrs old and i ment a guy online same age as me, we got on instantly really well. we have been talking for over 6 months we havent met yet due to distant and complications. we have strong feelings towards each other, we have txted , msn , phoned and web cams. ... (208 words)

He ended their relationship! . Is he just running scared or is he really over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my friend and her boyfriend broke up. she still loves him. she called him and when he said he was over her he didnt sound convincing. i know he loved her by the way he talked about her when they went out. he said they were just going too fast so he ended it. is he just running ... (65 words)

I know he likes me--why isnt he making the first move as guys always do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - Hiya - well ive been in love with the same man for 3 yrs now. even tho i am only 17 i feel as if i am more mature than other girls of my age e.g. i will only have sex with the man i am in love with and i am also very careful to analyse my feelings and think about what i am ... (217 words)

He says I am a pain in the a**! How do I make this relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - dear cupid, ive been through a lot of rough relationship,and i'm with a great guy right now, but everytime he wants to get close to me figuratively i just back away i have this fear and scared to loose him but he said that i am difficult too and becoming a pain in the a**. how... (66 words)

All I’ve only wanted to do is get to know her and have a romance. Have I been naive and foolish? Any advice is apprciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age - I am a bachelor in my late forties, who has tended to avoid relationships – basically you can get hurt! Over the past 7 years, my attitude has altered somewhat – I’m getting older; contemplararies are either been long-married/in relationships and fearing old age and ... (1455 words)

My wife is having an emotional affair. How do I save my marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6155 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age - my wife is having an emotional affair (non physical)with a man who also happens to be an obese 30 stones in weight! He also owns the shop from which she operates her flower business. This affair has developed over the last 3 years! as I understand. I had had my suspicions and ... (275 words)

She told me she has a history of cheating...should I leave this girl alone and wait for her to call me or pursue her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (M)

- My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for 5 months now. We met at school and now that were on our semester break, she went back to her home in Boston and I live here in San Francisco, 3,000 miles away. I can't help but think about her all the time. I guess th... (202 words)

I am 13 and got drunk at a party..did this older boy take advantage of me? Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - By the way, I'm a girl, and I'm 13. Yesterday I went to a friend's brother's birthday party, and had a little too much to drink. I can remember that a guy who was 15/16 kissed me, before pulling away and saying that he thought the host would kill him if he saw us. He put h... (116 words)

He's a really great guy--so how do I know if he likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - hi im 21 and the guy that im crushing on is 31. He is a manager at my work in a diff department tho. He doesnt have a gf/wife him and i get along great! I usually give him a hand movement whenever i leave but the other day he gave me a hug instead. It take me by comp... (146 words)

Help! I'm in love with two men...which one do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - im in love with two guys, one i dated for 2 years through highschool and then broke up with during uni because it was to far. i met a guy in uni right after and things moved way to quickly, we started dating pretty much right after i broke up with the first boyfriend, i love ... (90 words)

My daughter is dating a man I disapprove of and it driving a wedge between us! Help?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age - Hi, please help. My daughter is 18 almost 19 years old and dating a really old guy, he's 27 and I disapprove very much. My daughter lives on her own and pays her own bills so she assumes this means that i have no control over her. she's been seeing this MAN for about 4 mont... (130 words)

I don't want to appear pushy..so should I e-mail him again or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I met a guy in October, we've been Emailing each other pretty much every day, met up 3 times. He lives in another city, so the last time we met up, he said he would be leaving after the New Year so we should meet up again. We exchanged X'mas gifts...he gave me 3 things, each of ... (246 words)

I want to forgive her but the scene keeps playing in my mind! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Right well, here it goes! I've been with my girlfriend since March '05. We get on so great, we are made for each other, I just know we are. I love her with all my heart and soul and I know she feels the same. We very rarely fought, and if we ever did it would always be about ... (408 words)

It's been 3 years and it seems like the more interested I get, the more distant he becomes.Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Hello. I need help. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now, and I am so confused. This guy is 20 years older than myself- I'm 36 and he is 56. At first, when he started asking me out, I found every excuse no to go out with him. This went on for about 2 years. (I ... (282 words)

The wedding is looming and I think we have issues to resolve first...or do we?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I am engaged to a wondefully caring man. There is no doubt he loves me and would go to the end of the earth to make me happy. I know I should be so lucky. However now that the wedding is looming - big decisions to make - I have cold feet. All the little things are big things, ... (161 words)

I'm a 19 yr old virgin - am I missing out!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6507 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - I've been really depressed for the past few years due to my lack fo love life. I'm now 19 years old, and only had my first kiss a few weeks ago, and that was only a one off snog when out on the lash. I'm still a virgin, and when my friends, who are a few years younger th... (104 words)

Love at first site with my bf but I also love and dream about my friend every night!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I have been dating a guy for about a month now and it was love at first sight. But, I have a very close friend and I love him, too. Now that I'm dating I have been having dreams literaly every night about him. In my dreams I am dating him and my boyfriend isn't in any of my ... (79 words)

I desperately like him but it's obvious he doesn't want to be with me. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- my life is so hard a lad i really love who ive never felt this way about anybody before says he likes me when he might be getting something off me and doesn't act like it afterwards and doesn't want to do those things . I try to hard i hate my life and he is the one i want and ... (155 words)

Get back with the ex or try my college mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid...im new here and need some help Should i get back with my ex or try with my college mate. Me and my ex (let call him N) broke up about 2months ago, he now wants to meet up and talk about giving it another go. But im unsure, i still like N and our relationship was... (143 words)

I'm a virgin and my first time trying didn't go so well - is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6333 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am a virgin and yesterday I tried to have sex with my boyfriend but I just got really scared and started to panick and cried so we stopped. Is there something with me ?... (35 words)

Did I overreact to my g/f being "upskirted" or "pantsied"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Am I overeacting? I am a male, in an amazing relationship with my girlfriend, and I have a question. So, a while ago I was hearing how her best friend was pantsing my girlfriend(pulling down the pants all the way so underwear is exposed) but I let it go and didn't say anything. ... (283 words)

I thought he was my soul mate but he doesn't see me enough!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I "thought" I met my soulmate 4 months ago. I am 41 and he's 34 and we both are college graduates and in the education field. He asked me to marry him after he lands a promotion as a principal. The problem is although he calls me several times a day and tells me he loves me ... (248 words)

He 's balck..I'm white and my family are against interracial relationships! What should I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5800 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I would like some feedback on what to do about this situation. I have met a great guy recently who I really like and who likes me. He is black and I am white. He has only dateed white women and his family has no problem with it. I've never dated a black man and my family ... (176 words)

How can I give my wife space without being left out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - How can I give my wife the space she needs to spend time with her friends, and not feel left out?... (21 words)

I love this guy but things have changed - how do I get them to go back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for a year, my senior year of high school as well as this past summer and our first semester at our individual colleges -- mine in North Carolina and his in Washington DC. I have been head over heels for this guy -- he handsome and strong, smart ... (306 words)

How can "us" girls know if a guy is sincere and genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6534 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - How can us girls tell if a guy is sincere and genuine in what he says? I read many problems where the guy is fantastic to start with and then becomes cold and distant and changes beyond all recognition to someone the girl hardly recognises. I am one such casualty. What makes ... (284 words)

Married 3 years and have never penetrated my wife. Please help..we need some advice badly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - dear cupid, I have a very serious problem. I have been married for 3 years but till now never penetrated my wife. I ejaculate before penetration, i don't whats wrong. Recently i have got myself checked and according to doctor everything is fine with me at the same time my wif... (120 words)