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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Wife is 8 months pregnant with two small kids at home..and I've been having an affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - I have been married for 7 years, my wife is 8 months pregnant, and I have been having an affair for 6 months. Not to mention the 4 year old and 2 year old I have at home. I have spent years unhappy, trying in vain to make little changes - different job, new home, new car, ... (343 words)

Can you tell if a man has had sex with someone else before he has sex with you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2927 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have a question.. Can you tell if a man has had sex or has masterbated before he has sex with you? I heard when he is hard if there is extra skin on the top ( no I don't mean uncircumsized skin) ..it means he has done the deed with someone else...please help!... (56 words)

Having 2nd thoughts about our 7year age gap! I see problems in the future..what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Hi all, I'm 18 (nearly 19 now) and my boyfriend is 25, almost 26. We'd been friends for two years prior to dating and age was never a problem in the friendship. So, since we both felt the same way, we took it a step further. We've been dating about 10 months now, and ... (394 words)

Our relationship is going nowhere and yet..he refuses to let go and move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6563 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have been in a defacto relationship for about six years. Over this time my guy has accused me of all sorts of things. I now realise that this relationship is not going anywhere. My problem is that my guy does not accept this. I have told him a lot of different ways and I've ... (77 words)

Dating a separated man..and I am tired of waiting for him to divorce. Should I stick around or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I've been dating a married man for three years. He has been separated and living apart from his wife for that entire time. He lives 900 miles away and visits me almost every other week for a couple of days. We get together with his parents and several of his other friends ... (175 words)

I have a bf but I have drunkenly kissed other guys! Is this forgiveable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have cheated a few times in my three year relationship with my boyfriend. I am 19 years old and have kissed a few other guys while being drunk and stupid. If I know in my heart that this was just stupidity and I love my boyfriend very much is this forgiveable?... (52 words)

I dream of a mysterious male figure kissing and touching me. Is it just hormones or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - i am only 15 years old i always and dream stuff about me getting kissed, touched etc stuff like that by a mysterious figure figure of a male. people tell me its just hormones, but i enjoy it. i need to know what is going on? and why do i dream of that particular guy? and it ... (69 words)

What are the signs if someone loves you?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Hello I am 12 and I really want to know how you know if somebody loves you. What are the signs? ... (21 words)

He doesn't want to use a condom and suggested I go on the pill - but that doesn't protect from std's! What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - hey, i been goin out with my boyfriend for a while now and we have decided to go all the way. there is one problem though, he wont use a condom:( hes asked me to go onto the pill, but he's been really understanding about it and said if i didnt want to then i didnt have to,... (98 words)

I feel like he should want to see me more. I don't want to push him but it's making me frustrated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

1 December 2006 (F)

- Please help me understand this one. Men your opions would be good. Been seeing my man now for eight months he says he loves me. But we still only see each other one night in the week, and most nights of the weekend. Although sometimes on a Friday he wants to go out with his ... (168 words)

I don't feel I'm being treated right in this relationship! I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Hi all, Im 21 and have recently met my first and current boyfriend..actually when i say recent i mean 4 weeks ago..we have been in college with eachother for about a year..but our lectures are quite large so i never noticed him..i met him on a night out and we dated for a w... (416 words)

I hate the rumors at school that I'm dating this guy, which I'm not! How do I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F)

- Thers stupid rumours in my school about me n im sick of them! yesterday at school everything was fine and this morning i heard this boy fancies me and now everyone thinks were going out its really annoying all day people kept on asking "are you going out with him??" and i had ... (128 words)

is masturbattion without retracting the foreskin normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - is it normal for a man to masturbate without retracting his foreskin?... (12 words)

He forgave me after the first cheat...now I did it again! Should I tell him before we get married in 2 weeks?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for three years and about a year and half ago i cheated on him...i told him and he forgave me. he recently left to the army and i cheated again! not because i dont want him, because i love him. i just made the worst mistake i cant take back! i love ... (89 words)

We both said NO to any drugs..now I find out he's doing "ecstasy"! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - My long term boyfriend and I (6 years since the age of 15) have grown up together, but it has been easy as we have always shared the same morals and values. One of these values was a strictly anti drugs stance. When our friends first started on weed, it just reinforced my 'no ... (204 words)

I'm cruel to animals and am genuinely seeking help. Please help me.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I hate myself for this, and you're going to hate me too, but I need help so I'm posting it anyway. I own a cat and a dog, and sometimes I'm just evil towards them. I don't know why I do it, and every time a get a new pet I promise myself that I'll never treat it cruelly, but I ... (204 words)

I'm a Jew for Jesus, but he will only marry me if I renounce Christ! What do I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - He wants me to convert to Judaism and renounce Christ in order to marry me!!!! I am already Jewish but I believe in the son of G-d. I'm what you call a Jews for Jesus. He says he loves me and that I have to renounce my beliefs in order to get married. I love him dearly, I ... (116 words)

He's addicted to porn and it's affecting our sex life. I've suggested counceling and he's not interested! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I recently found my boyfriend with alot of porn dvd's. He travels for long periods of time and we have before talked about his hotel movie watching. However I think he's now addicted. When we make love he's not able to climax--needs to rest. Always makes sure I have tho... (129 words)

My bf asked another guy about going on a date - the guy said yes! My bf says they're just friends and he loves me. Should I just call it quits?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - My BF and I have been in a relationship since September of 2004 and had originally met online (gay.com) and was in a long distance relationship. After about 4 months of being in the long distance relationship mutually we decided to move away from our families to be together. ... (513 words)

I'm seeing my married boss. I'm thinking about leaving my company - is this a good decision?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have been working at a company for 3 years but for the last year I have been "seeing my boss", he is married. At first it started as a bit of fun for me but now I have true feelings for him. I met someone a couple of months ago but it didnt work out because I couldnt ... (171 words)

He stands really close to me and pokes me in the waist - do you think he fancies me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and im friends with this boy and when i queue up to get my lunch in the canteen everyday we queue up together. it is quite crowded in the queue. i always stand infront of him while he is talking to me from behind me. he always moves right up close to me so his front is ... (93 words)

He split w/ me because he gave it his all and I didn't - I do this a lot even w/ friends! What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - hello, i liked this guy for almost a decade - apparently he liked me once. our friendship was strongest when i listened to his love problems through the years. well it turned pretty ignorant in the past year or so. i finally told him and now we're barely talking. then al... (178 words)

For the lat six months, he's barely even touched me - I feel so unattractive now. What's wrong with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - hi just wonderd if you can help me as im so down an i feel very unatractive the reason is that ive been with my partner for five years an the last six months he has bearly even touched me we dont cuddle he wont kiss me ive asked what is wrong he says nothing is wrong some times ... (86 words)

We broke up because he wouldn't stop flirting w/ others in front of me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Im with a guy right now. I really like him. I met him in the end of June. we started dating in August exclusively. now we r broken up coz he is very over friendly with women. I call that flirting. He says hes not flirting, he says he's jus conversing, jus for the fact that hes ... (298 words)

How long should I wait to tell him that I love him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have been widowed for six years. I have been seeing this guy for a month. I think I love him, how long should I wait to tell him? ... (29 words)

I want to love my family, my job and have no doubts about my bf anymore! Can anybody help me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - i am a single mother of 2 children from diffirent fathers. they are not with me because i am working out abroad to support them. they are now leaving in my own country with me parents. my parents never stop saying everything is my fault and i feel so really down everytime they ... (247 words)

My 4 y/o daughter wants "private time" behind closed doors. Am I handling this the right way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - My 4 year old daughter has within the last few months taken an interest in having private time. During her "private time" she stays in her bedroom and she demands that I do not come in under any circumstances. She even makes me pinky swear. She also likes to know where her ... (323 words)

My fiance says our split is not permanent, but it's been three months. I cry everyday - I want to give him an ultimatum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I am really hoping someone can tell me how to deal with the emotions I am feeling, My fiance left me about 3 months ago, we had not been getting along for a while we argued over the most trivial things and the arguments got really nasty we hurt each other a lot. When he made ... (439 words)

I'm a single mom on income support. I feel so lost and alone - how do I get through the Christmas season this year?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - It's December, I'm a single mum on income support and just dread Christmas, my nerves are jangling at the thought of it! How do i get through it. I don't have any relative and few friends in the area and so i'm feeling so lost and alone. Money is tight and my son's father has ... (77 words)

How can I get over my ex? I can only go two weeks w/out talking to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - What's the best way to just disconnect with my ex. She just broke up with the guy she was seeing and I'm dying to be with her but she just doesn't seem to be interested and almost seems to go out of her way sometimes to avoid me at get together. I mean, we talk sometimes, but ... (124 words)

I'm falling in love with my bf's friend! How do I tell them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - HELP!! I am falling in love with my boyfriends friend, who is my friend too. I started to go off my partner a year ago, and this definatley confirms it! How do i tell them??... (36 words)

The baby is due Dec 4th and he suddenly told me he doesn't want anything to do with me! I'm already a single mom of two!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Im a single mom of two teenage girls and have been dating a man for over a year were expecting a child im scheduled to be induced on monday dec 4th and today he told me he dont want anything to do with me to take him to child support. i found out he has 5 other children a few ... (78 words)

My fiance's ex and his friend's cousin say that he was going to cheat on me with his ex! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - okay well ... my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. we just also had a baby together 4 months ago. and well he has this ex gf who got married and moved away and he got her prego a long time ago and she got an abortion, and well she just moved back here. well ... (473 words)

How do you know if you're in love? How do you know if someone is in love with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6427 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - How do you know if you are in love? And how do you know if someone else loves you back? ... (27 words)

Can't seem to have a relationship... Why!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (F)

- Hi, I'm 23 and single. Have been single for a while and just wondering why I can't seem to have a relationship. Everytime I find someone I like I always do something to ruin it or turn myself off them for some reason. I keep saying that I'm happy being single and am not ready ... (113 words)

Her friend says that the girl I like doesn't like me back - should I just ask her myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6561 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - I really like this girl who is also a friend of mine. I asked her friend if she liked me(I know kinda childish). She asked and said that she didnt like me the same way. I dont know what to do should i ask her myself or just move on. She knows i like her now too. ... (57 words)

I've lost interest in him and it's killing me! Why do I suddenly feel this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6556 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I'm 20 and I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and Everything's been wonderful up until this point. I've been very confused lately on if I still love him or not and it's killing me inside. I used to be so happy with him, and now I feel like I just woke up one ... (154 words)

In arguments she bites me, scratches me, and pulls my johnson - I've slapped her twice b/c of it. We've split, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6562 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - just wondering i have had the same girl for 1yr 6mons we recently broke up. but in this time we would get in and argument and fight and she would move out and live with her dad and step mom. a few days later she would come back.i supported her for most of our relationship.she ... (389 words)

My fiance and I have split, but we still love each other - how can I win her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6564 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - my fiancee recently split up with me and even though i know she still loves me, and i still love her with all my heart i cant seem to win her back!! we have always had a good relationship and now that she has finished university she is in limbo and does not know who she is. ... (78 words)

His baby is just born and he has already changed his mind

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Am i being petty and selfish? my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months we have lived together for about 5 months. He recently had a child with his ex g/f. Before the baby we discussed how we should handle things as far as his ex and the baby is ... (127 words)

My cousin and I are having sex! Is this okay?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

1 December 2006 (M) - is kissing my cousin ok? I mean she beautiful we both have feelings and we had sex is that ok?... (20 words)

I've been hurt in the past so I find it hard to start a conversation with a guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6421 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - I have trouble talking to guys at first. I dont know how to get them to notice me, and when I do, I can't start the conversation. I used to be totally outgoing, but now not so much because I've been hurt so many times....what are some good ways to start a conversation?... (53 words)

My fiancee and I are having a baby but my heart is with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

1 December 2006 (F) - Shew relationships, why do they have to be so complicated. I have got myself in a bad situation. To make a long story short...Im in love with a guy thats with someone else, and I am also with someone else. I am also pregnant with this guys baby that im with now. But I think ... (187 words)