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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She ended it-now she's with an older guy who is married! How do I deal with all this heartache?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year and 3 months and she recently broke up with me she said it might not be permanent she said she needs time to think and she does not have the same feelings anymore i have been upset all week and she now likes this guy that ... (139 words)

Happy New Year! From South Africa!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - HAPPY NEW YEAR! from South Africa everybody! All the best for 2007 everyone and thank you for making 2006 special. God bless y'all! If you're from SA or an ex-patriot drop me a private message.... (35 words)

I don't know if I'll ever trust her again..but I love her and want her back! Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm really in a bind here. So it all started about 2 months ago when my girlfriend of 3 and a half years said she needed a break. We'd had a few problems in the past. We both live at our parents houses still because i have been saving up to put a downpayment on a... (609 words)

Whats the difference between infatuation and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - Whats the difference between infatuation and love?... (7 words)

I got sick and now that I'm better-my husband says he can't stand the sight of me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age - i got sick for about 2 years better now have been married 51 years my husband says he cant stand to look at me we were always real close. i dont wont to lose him. thanks lonley... (39 words)

My problem with shyness makes me freeze up when it comes to talking to boys! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm a sixteen year old girl who has problems with shyness. whenever i find a guy that i'm interested in i just completely freeze and find it really hard to talk to them in person. as a result i've never had a proper relationship. theres a guy that i've gotten to know recently ... (100 words)

There's a boy I like and a girl I hate..both are playing games with me. How do I get to the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (F)

- i don't know who to belive. Theres a boy i like and have previosly done things with and theres a girl i hate and i went on a secret messenger account and added her and tried 2 find out things but she didnt know it was me and she said that the lad i like had phoned her a few ... (195 words)

He's 51 and I'm 20..I like him but I know we have no future together. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I'm 20 and having a sexual relationship with a 51 year old man. He is very attractive and fit for his age and treats me with respect. We've not told any one because of the age gap, i like him but i know we have no future. I've also stopped looking at other men. Its new year and ... (78 words)

I'm always last on his priority list..I feel unwanted! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi everyone, thankyou for taking time to read this. I have been with my bf for 6 years, however i cant help but feel neglected. He never bothers with valentines, birthdays, anniversarys, he just never seems so spare a thought for me, its not like he doesnt celebrate, he ju... (361 words)

I lied to my best friend when she asked me if I had sex with her bf! How do I tell her the truth?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I had sex with my best friends man and she found out about it.I told her it was a lie and that i never had sex with him.I dont want to keep hiding it from her so how do i tell her?... (42 words)

My periods have stopped!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6492 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I had taken birthcontrol for two in a half years and i stopped taking it about six months ago and still haven't had a period. now i'm scared i can't have kids what is wrong with me?... (37 words)

How can I wish my husband "happy new year" when he repulses me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age - My husband goes out everynight for a few hours to the pub friday saturday and sunday when he comes in all he does is fall asleep we have 3 teenage boys and i feel so lonley its getting to the point that i don't like him to touch me as he repulsis me he smells of drink, all ... (127 words)

My ex bf treated his ex gf like a pricess, but not me! Why do guys not treat all their gf's the same...what was wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Do guys treat all of their girlfriends the same? See my ex didn’t treat me like the princess he claimed he treated his ex like. I keep thinking it must be something I was doing wrong and I guess I would get some reassurance if I knew he treated all of his girlfriends the ... (891 words)

Is it cause for concern if your partner doesn't reciprocate, oral-wise?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F)

- I haven't seen this certain question asked here, so I am going ahead and ask. If your p artner wants you to give him a bj, but in turn he won't return the favor, with no explanation what so ever. Should there be cause for concern, or not? I want some help on this. ... (76 words)

He has a gf but wants to break up with her, to be with me...should I continue with him or give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - There is this guy whom I would like to be with but he has a live-in girlfreind. He says he is done with her and wants her out. Do you see us being together or should I just give up on him.... (44 words)

Do her glances at me..mean that she likes me too?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6495 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - There is this girl that I fancy (she doesn't know this) and everytime I walk past her she looks at me. I look at her everytime I walk past her and she looks at me to. Could this mean she fancies me? Thanks for yiur help. ... (59 words)

Any tips for increasing libido? I don't feel any sexual urges... at all!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Can anyone suggest ways of increasing my labido? Im 21 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, he's great, affectinate and passionate but I havent had sex with him for 6 months. I feel clostraphobic when he gets close to me. I love spending time with him but I just dont ... (62 words)

Both past ex bf's contatced me recently--Why do you think they are doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6510 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Been out with two guys over the last two years one relationship lasted 6 months which was a year ago and the other lasted 3 months which was 5 months ago both ending because the guys only wanted something casual which isnt for me. This Christmas they have both contacted m... (81 words)

Do you think absence will make her heart grow fonder... could we possibly have another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Ok I was a gay relationship for 2 years. We were so close and did everything today but she broke up with me a couple of days ago. Im heart broken she said she wants to go into 2007 single, she wont ever get back with me because Ive hurt her too much but when she goes back to ... (99 words)

How do I feel good about myself when I don't compete with the icons on screen and in magazines?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6509 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I can compete with these women?how? Im22,i dont get the opportunity to wear sexy clothes like all these girls do on posters and magazines, and itslike,myboyfriend never sees me in the sexy way he see's them. I just dont know how im supposed to feel good next to them?? how? a... (409 words)

How long does it take for a termination to be arranged etc.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - hi, i've just found out that i'm pregnant, i've done 3 home tests and they were all positive, i don't feel like i'm ready for a baby at the moment even tho i'm 25, i've only been with my boyfriend for just over 3 months but i know he'll stand by whatever decision i make, it ... (130 words)

She accused me of cheating and broke it all off! But I didn't do anything like that-what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - im with this girl (been with for about 2 n a half months) who i love a lot and we were getting on fine, but just lately over xmas and new year she has suddenly seemed to 'go off' me, and yesterday she was accusing me of cheating on her and saying she wants it to end it, i am ... (155 words)

What special thing can I do for my man... that doesn't cost $$?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am 19 and a stay at home Mom I have 2 kids.. On x-mas day my b/f asked me to marry him and i said yes... well he has gotten me a lot for x-mas. But I hadn't gotten him anything due to the fact that I am a stay @ home mom and recieve No money. So i was unable to get him ... (165 words)

I've got long-distance lover angst! Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (M)

- I'm very worried, I haven't been able to have a real conversation with my girlfriend in two weeks because she's back home from school in boston and Live on the other side of the country. I've tried to talk to her and she brushes me off, says she has to go. I realize that... (160 words)

I'm 48 and I have trouble achieving orgasm! Any suggestions or advice?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age - I am a 48 year old male in good health. For the last several years I have had trouble achieving orgasm. It just gets harder and harder to climax and sometimes I just give up. The only way I can orgasm is by tensing up my body and stiffening my legs when there close together ... (161 words)

What do guys think about petite women?

This question has 120 answers - newest was posted 3749 days ago

31 December 2006 (F)

- I was wondering what men REALLY think about women who are petite. I wanted to ask this question because I heard someone say that short women are not sexy enough like taller women, and that guys rather be with women who are taller. I am 5 feet tall and wish that I could be... (143 words)

Want to end it but worried aobut his reaction...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I want to leave my current BF alone but dont know how to do so! He is a very sensitive guy and he told me when his last GF called it quits he got depressed and even suicidal. We have been dating for eight months know and I don't see it going anywere. First of all its a LDR... (176 words)

How do I get over the post-dumping blues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - hiya i got a problem my gf now ex thought i was cheatting on her but i was not now that she dumped me i feel down, as iam not eating there food on the plate but i doint want it, and iam only drinking very little, and that i just sit in my room i get feeling that i doint want to ... (78 words)

How do I tell my family--I am dating my ex teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - i wrote in about me dating my ex teacher a few days ago, i got some great advice. Is there anybody out there who can give me any advice on how i can tell my family? Me an my bf have decided we will wait til im 18 until we properly get together as we dont want to cause any pro... (101 words)

I do everything for him but wipe his a$$!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I started dating this great 27 year old guy about 4 months ago. He had just gotton out of a long-term relationship, so we started things slow. Well, the next thing I know, he's over at my house every weekend and eventually exchanged "I love yous." He makes it clear he cares for ... (268 words)

He says that relationships never work out... how do I convince him otherwise!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6474 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - So I like this guy and he is the same age as me and he likes me too. But the problem is he doesn't want to go out because he believes that relationships never work out and that we will probably end up hating each other. I want to convince him that it's not that bad but I don't ... (67 words)

New bf doesn't respect my boundries..should I cut him loose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Am I over reacting or is this a warning sign? My new boyfriend spanked my bum last night. At first it was just along to the rhythm of the music in the pub and it made me a little uncomfortable but I didn’t want to say anything while we were in the pub with his friends arou... (306 words)

Together 7 years and we live together but we have big problems. Should I move out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Q: Should I move out? Here's why... about two months ago, my boyfriend of 7 years became very protective over his cell phone. When I questioned him, he told me it was just texts from his male friends. I should have known better at that point, but we've been together a long ... (405 words)

I ahve no energy for friends, school, family, etc. How do I deal with this stress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - I am going crazy. I have hardly any energy and I can't handle everyday life. School work, friends,family and all. But in a few months when I turn 16 I will get a job, start softball and drivers ed. I think I will collapse any ideas on how to deal and strive with all this?... (55 words)

She hangs with her ex bf and I don't like it! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - i have been seeing my current girlfriend now for two months. she hangs out with her ex when i am not around and she invites him over to her house even when i am there. i have told her that i don't think it's right but she says they are just friends and i should get over it. ... (74 words)

I loved him and we broke up! Why won't he tell me why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for about a year. It was obvious to me and to everyone around me that he was deeply in love with me. I don't know what happenned, but one day he broke up with me using stupid excuses. He's abroad now and we're still in touch by emails based on his and my ... (113 words)

Why would he try to have sex with me when I was sleeping?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, this is my first ever question. my bf and i have been together for nearly two years. I came home late very tired, he stayed over at my place. we went to bed and i awoke to him trying to have sex with me. I just dont know what to think, we have a good sex life, so i dont ... (102 words)

Former sex industry worker to mistress to my boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am a former employee of the sex industry trying to get my life back on track. I recently went back to a day job which I love. It had gotten around the office what my former occupation was. One of the boss's (not mine directly) started asking me out to lunch frequently. ... (229 words)

I like him so should I ask him-if he likes me or just wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6512 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- So.. A few weeks ago I told my best guy friend that I liked him, because it was killing me inside just holding it all in. He didn't show a positive response when I told him, so I told him I don't want things to change between us (when I really did.) Afterwards, I asked how he w... (236 words)

We work together and have sex together too-not sure how to act around him at work? Any advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6513 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hello there.. im in love with someone at work, we've exchanged flirty emails and we slept together at a works do then we both must have been embarrassed because we never spoke about it or mentioned it again until now on another works do i saw him with someone else and wanted ... (109 words)

I have a bf but lately, I've been crushing after other guys. Why am I doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 1.5 years, friends for two years beforehand. Lately I've found myself having stupid little schoolgirl crushes on other guys, and it's scaring me. I'd never cheat on my boyfriend and I would NEVER give him up for someone else because I l... (122 words)

I met up with one of my exes again and can't remember anything about him. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i have a weird thing goin on. i was in a serious r'ship with a guy goin back 6 yrs ago which lasted 2yrs. we didnt communicate well back then, and we were young. and things fizzled out due to stuff we both had done, he broke my heart, but i probably broke his too. recently ... (195 words)

Is there a tablet out there that alleviates a heavy, painful period? Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- hi all cupids, i live in the uk.Im 15 and my periods are sooo heavy and painfull and ive heard that i can get a tablet that can help me, but i dont no any details about it or how it works, and ive heard tht it can have dangerous side affects. can anyone answer my questi... (64 words)

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?... (29 words)

He's married with 3 kids and I just had his 4th! We argue all the time..is this ever going to work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - my boyfriend is married with 3 chldren and ive just had his forth (a baby girl) i love him but we argue all the time. do you think its ever going to work?... (33 words)

Should I call my ex bf and give a New Year's greeting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6514 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He moved away and has a new girlfriend. I am dating now but I have still not met someone special. I will be going to the city that my ex lives in for a few days next week. I had no intention of contacting him but my sister said ... (89 words)

Torn between two guys I like a lot..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6514 days ago

30 December 2006 (F)

- i dont no what to do . . .i'm going out with this lad i like him and he likes me, our relationship is steady. . .but i think i also fanci this other lad who i've liked for ages and he is giving some signals of liking me 2 now i'm confused about my feelings and dont no wot to do ... (64 words)

I like my son's 17 year old gf! How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6511 days ago

30 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - My names *Andrew I have a son, hes 19 years old. Im 36, yes I was young when he was born. Hes been dating this girl, *Ashley for six months now. Shes 17 but will be 18 in a few months. They like each other alot but im sure theyre not in love. Recently Ive been having feeling ... (197 words)

I'm in a new relationship but my heart aches for my ex bf! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6514 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - About 4 years ago I was dating this guy that I was head over heels for. Unfortunatly we ended up breaking up. We are now both in new relationships but I miss him. I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. I love my boyfriend now but my ex was so special to me. ... (129 words)

I'm 31 and find myself going out alone..as my friends have all moved away!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6513 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and have reached a crisis point in my life that I was foolish enough not see coming; the last of my friends has moved 100s of miles away and I am finding myself deeply, deeply lonely. I have been making the effort to go out by myself but I feel very ... (234 words)