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writes: im 23, only had 1 bf ever (still going strong after 6 years) never had an orgasm... feeling low... dont like masturbating, am i normal or abnormal...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Learn to love yourself - become comfortable with touching yourself when your boyfriend is not there, learn what sensations you like. I was very lucky and found orgasms when I was 11!! i had my first when washing myself. Explore your body and enjoy it! Masturbation is normal and natural and not 'sinful'. Often women find the mental part hard to get over - they think too much and don't get swept away with the sensation. Pamper yourself, have a long hot bath, read some erotic literature (lots online these days), and explore your body. Try toys if you want - but I do'nt think these are necessary and its bad to rely on them as they can desensitize the body. Good luck - it is one of the most amazing feelings in the world... a fantastic treat you can share with your lover.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): I am 21 and have never, ever, ever orgasmed in my entire life. Not on my own, not with female or male partners, NEVER.So...I feel your pain. I do. It's beyond frustrating.I've tried manual, vibes, dildos, tongues, evveerryytthhiingg.
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reader, jade77830 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 yes you are normal.
it just that you haven't found a guy you really like yet
(consider the subconcious you first.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): If you knew how to masturbate then you would enjoy it, trust me.
Im 26 and never used to masturbate and never came during sex. My boyfriend and i went to sex shop and i bought a clit stimulator and porn.
When on my own i relaxed with a glass of wine watched the porn and got turned on, then put the stimulator against my clit slowly and increased bit by bit.
Trust me you will find it with time and practice but easier first when on your own, give it a go you dont know what your missing!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): dont feel sadend by not having an orgasm during sex. 80%of women never have orgasms durin sex. most require clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
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