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writes: my bf is good in promising a little promise he do it, but a big promise like having a plan what we gonna do in the future in life that' never happen yet. im not the one who always start with hope or promise or wish he is the one he is the one who always start those topic. and that makes me feel secured of course to think oh' god he really love me that he is planing our future. the little promise like having a dinner somewhere or buying me some flowers etc. just small things he is doing that, but some serious promise he alway change his mind., what about his promise that he will marry me, should i trust that promise?pls. help
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 You need to talk about these issues to determine if you both want the same in life.
If he does not want to get married then you cannot have the hope that he will change his mind.
Life should not be about promises, people do or don't want to do things, you should not hold people on promises.
Be careful as sometimes people tell you what you want to hear.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 hi there
I think this is a very delicate situation u are in; question, have u ever tell him that it hurts u when he keep changing his mind about ur future together? Is he aware this is breaking the trust u have in him? He might be serious he wants to marry u but are u willing to spend the rest of ur life with someone who behaves like weather? How sure are u if this behavior wont affect ur hopes and dreams? Do u think u can rely on this man? Can u classify his behavior as responsible? This are some of the questions u should ask urself if u want to believe his commitment to u, u are the one who knows the man so I believe u do have answers to all this questions. remember u deserve to be happy and if u don’t have faith in his long-term promises maybe his not what u are looking for. Good luck
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