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writes: advice needed when you are attracted to your boyfriend's brother and he tells you he feels the same help..... Reply to this Question
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reader, vina_101  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 I don't think it's worth destroying the relationship between two brothers. Would you like to be the one responsible for that? I think you should let it go and not go after him for moral reasons. Do you have a sister? Would you feel betrayed by her if the tables turned? Him liking you back doesn't make it right and it might be just physical attraction and nothing meaningful that you both feel. In which case I don't think it is worth it. If you really love and care about your bf you would stop thinking about his brother in this way.
I hope you make up your mind about who you want to be with and if it is worth it. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2006): Well this is a little difficult, I might add. I am 17 and I have a boyfriend, although his brother is 8 so I can't say that this has ever happened to me before. So basically, this is what you need to consider. If you and your boyfriend are serious...?...then you should consider how he might feel if you leave him for his brother, and also what kind of tension that could cause between their sibling bonds. Personally, I do not think that you should pursue that relationship with his brother unless he knows, and is alright with the situation. Although, if you "act" on your attraction to his brother while you both are still together, then that could cause some issues as well. I do think that you should take it one step at a time. First evaluate you and your boyfriend's relationship...if it feels "right" then just get over this phase of attraction, and see where it goes. If it doesn't seem "right" then you should easily break it off with him and then later on think about moving further on with his brother. Of course I get it all depends on the situation and the environment of people you are being exposed to. But good luck in that sense.
**They call me Ashleigh =)
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