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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I Checked up on her conversations with this other guy, Im now worried thats she gonna leave me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - What Should I Do? Iv been with my girlfriend now for a year and a month, i love her to bits - she is amazin in everyway. However one or two problems have risen and in iv done some things im not proud of. To start with im 21 and shes 17, we rarly go out cos of her gett... (615 words)

Did I get over her to fast or her me!? I do want her back though!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (M)

- is my ex girlfriend over me so fast or am i over her so fast? ex Girlfriend, 1 week after us splitting she's now makeing plan's to move in to her own place and start a life alone. she made plan's in the past week to live with my brother girlfriend but that's not gonna ... (704 words)

I was going to lose my virginity but I couldn't get an erection!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - i am 15 years old and today i was going to have sex for my first time, but i couldent get an erection. could this have been from being nervous or something else?... (33 words)

5 years together and the talk of marriage always results in an argument...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - we've been together for 5 years and have lived together most of that time. Every 6 months or so I ask him about getting hitched and it leads to an argument. I'm really traditional and it's important to me that I officially commit to this man but every time the answer is no or I ... (126 words)

3 years of ups and downs but I just want it sorted once and for all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - why the hell hasnt he made an effort to get back together?...he tells me he still wants me..and yet he still argues with me...hes ruined my xmas spirit...seriously...i want him back so badly...bu hes messing my head up...i feel as tho i am making more of an effort wid him..than ... (119 words)

I'm 17 and scared of losing my virginity because I've heard it really hurts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 17 year old girl and i am really scared to have my first time sex. I love my boyfriend but i am scared of the pain of first time sex. I have been told it hurts a whole lot and this is stopping me from having sex. Can anyone help me?... (55 words)

Has anyone ever been in love, then fallen out of love then returned to the relationship later on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

- H everyone i would just like to hear from anyone out there , who has thought theyve been in love with someone , but decided it wasnt love , and whether they ever returned to that relationship after a period of time apart?... (44 words)

I'm afraid theres something she's not telling me. Can I trust this girl anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfreind works with about 400 male athletes and when shes on the road they all go out and party all the time. She has a good time and makes a lot of freinds, which doesn't threaten me, but every time she's on the road her normal habit of calling me 50 times a day ends ... (227 words)

We had sex..no condom-now my period is 3 days late! Am I pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6527 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Well my and my boyfriend had sex without a condom but he didnt ejaculate or anything but my period was suppose to start 3 to 4 days ago! Could be pregnant or am i over reacting? Please Answer As Soon As Possible!... (43 words)

I'm just getting to know him but I think I love him and it gets me emotional. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - i am 17 years old and there is a boy the same age as me at school and i really really like him. I am just starting to get to know him properly, by talking to him more face to face and on msn. I think he is really fit and he is really funny. I think i love him i have really ... (99 words)

I'm 15, he's 18 - is a relationship between us illegal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey i'm 15 years old and this guy i like from school just turned 18. He claims to like me too.I'm not sure if he can get in trouble if we decide to start a relationship.Is this illegal?... (39 words)

He broke up w/ me and said it's because I wasn't independent - but I'm not clingy at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My man broke up with me about a month ago. He just decided he didn't love me. We are both in late 20s. I am having such a hard time not over analyzing everything I did to make the relationship go downhill. As, he has told people, he just wanted me to be more independent. ... (92 words)

My best boy mate has feelings for me, but I like someone else who mum doesn't want me dating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - am i in love? im so confusd! my love life is such a mess at the moment im 16 and im so confused! my best boy mate that ive known literally since i was born has feelings for me and im not sure that i can return his feelings and there is this guy at skl i really want to be with ... (250 words)

My gf keeps lashing out at me and saying I helped to split her and her ex, so I should hurt, too!

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19 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend of 3 yrs 2 months ago and is with me. We've known each other for about a year and i liked her straight way and she liked me but she was with the other guy. The relationship she was in wasnt good so she kinda had to get out of it. When ... (239 words)

I'm underweight and never really hungry. Does this mean I have an eating disorder?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi. im 16 and very underweight for my age. i just never seem to be hungry so never really have proper meals. i love being thin and i love when people comment on me being thin. i don't intentionally not eat and i don't try to keep my weight low. do i have an eating disorder? x x ... (59 words)

I'm afraid to give oral - what if I don't like it or do it wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - I am 17 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 6 months and we have sex regularly, but when we got round to oral sex i just couldnt do it. I really wanted to take him in my mouth but i had a mental block against it, which made me look and feel ... (89 words)

My fiance's ex is nasty, sets double standards, and is infringing on our family life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My fiancee is scared of his ex and lets her control what and how he is when he has his son over our house (2 times per week and every other weekend). Examples, she smokes in her car and house, yet tells my fiancee that we cannot smoke in our house around her son or he is not ... (419 words)

Are condoms as effective if used when in a pool?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

- This is a stupid question, I know, but are condoms as effective if used when in a pool? (The kind we're using has spermicide; I'm not sure if chlorine will have any effect of it's effectiveness.) See, I've just gone off the pill because it was messing with my sex drive (I had ... (72 words)

It's possible, I'm pregnant...can alcohol consumption over xmas...affect the embryo?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i really need some advice. My partner and I want a child, and we havent used contraception for almost 2 yrs and unfortunately no baby - yet. I am due on my period on 27th december. Being christmas I want to go out and celebrate with my friends, but i'm scared to drink alcohol ... (183 words)

He's 30 and I'm 16..how do I ask him out without me looking like a lovesick teen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6447 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

- he is 30 and i am 17 how would i go about asking him out?? without making me seem like a lovesick teenager with a little crush (which it isnt btw)... (31 words)

My first gay gf and her parents resent me! Should I stick it out with until university when we'll be free of her parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 17 year old female, and have been with my first girlfriend for 7 months. i never saw myself as gay but fell head over heels for her. i know i can fall for guys too so i guess im bisexual. problem is although i love her, she makes me really unhappy alot of the time, she... (350 words)

My best friend was forced to give me up as a friend b/c of his fiance, but wants to secretly be friends! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My best friend of 9 years (is male) whom I haven't seen because of my hectic life recently called me to say that he won't be calling or seeing me anymore,that his fiance doesn't like me so we aren't going to be friends anymore.I am married and have no interest in him ... (103 words)

What can I do to have a flat stomach?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - I'm a teenage girl who is (i'll be honest!) not very attractive! But i know i'd be much happier with the way i look if i could just lose the weight on my stomach. I'm 5"4 ish and I weigh about 10 stone. I'm not that overweight on the rest of my body but my stomach is really ... (115 words)

All three times the girl I like has split w/ her bf, she runs to me - then she gets back with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - im just wondering what u lot think i should do. theres this girl that i really like, i think i may even love her, but shes already got a bf but keeps having troubles with him. she has broke up with him about 3 times now but keeps going back. everytime she has broken up with ... (199 words)

I can't tell if the guy I fancy is gay or straight! I want to know, but don't want to offend him - advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i have a problem, theres this guy at work who i really fancy, but the problem is i cant tell whether he is gay or not. We are both very touchy feely together, we talk loads and get along really well but i fancy him and want more then that. All his friends are girls i am really ... (115 words)

His ex is very nasty to me, but he doesn't want to say anything b/c of their son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age - My fiance and i live with my son and his. His ex lives with her husband about 100 miles away and only sees their son 1 in 3 weekends. I love this lad as my own, have never had a problem with him. Yet she talks to me like i'm a piece of cr*p. My bloke says she has never bad ... (180 words)

How do I lose weight while I have a leg injury?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am have a problem as i need to lose weight as im getting made fun by people who are not fat, losing is a huge problem as i am not allowed to run or do any sort of sport with my leg as i have had an injury, and am not allowed to walk for a long time. my questio... (126 words)

I'm trying to get him to want more sex, but he says I'm nagging and making a problem when there isn't one!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6517 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Ive been having the same sort of argument with my bf for a number of months now and its basically due to the lack of sex. Whenever I mention we are not having enough sex he gets all defensive. I wouldnt mind but we are only having sex once maybe twice a month. He is no... (572 words)

I've loved him for years, but he's not ready for a gf. I'm afraid we'll just end up being friends - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Why does he tell me that i will find someone better then him when i told him that he is the only one for me? I have loved this man with all my heart since 8th grade. Yea i know its strange and i know people are going to be like she couldnt have becuz your so young at that ag... (506 words)

He converses w/ this woman online and sees her every 4 months! Is this cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Need some urgent advice. Just found out that my boyfriend of 2 years has not been cheating on me as he's led me to believe. Whilst confronting him about a woman he has been conversing with on myspace, he finally confesses via email that this woman is a friend that he has known ... (137 words)

I want to break up with her, but it's the holidays! What's the best way to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi I have a bit of a relationship dilemma that I need some advice with. I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 5 years (this January) and things aren't going great between us. We don't have a lot in common, alot of her personal habits/traits really annoy me. We split up... (149 words)

After 21 years of marriage he left me for a 20 year old. But will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - hi can anyone help me with this question please try. my husband left me 4 months ago. he is 40 after 21 years of marrige im just about over this still get down at times. this is first christmas apart. but he has now movied in with a 20 year old girl. people we know keep telling ... (196 words)

How can I turn my bf who now treats me bad back into the person he was in the beginning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi i have a problem with my bf. When we have a fight he treats me like shit and i hate it. i love him so much. how can he be attracted again to me and make him to be romantic as before plz help mee... (47 words)

My bf and I never have any privacy to have sex - what can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have just started havin sex with my boyfriend, i'm 19 he's 21 and I still live at home with my mother. My issue is where can i have sex? my boyfriend is in the army and lives on the barracks so it's not possible for my to visit and have sex in his room. My mother is home alw... (174 words)

My long distance bf can't see us together in the future - I'm completely distraught!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Please help... two weeks in on a 'break' with my long distance boyfriend of two and a half years, he says he 'still doesnt think we can spend the rest of our lives together' Why not??? I dont understand, what is missing? What can I do? I cant stop begging for another chan... (89 words)

Why don't parents respect their children and learn how to communicate instead of dominate?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6568 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

- When will parents ever learn? Huh? When will they learn? When will they learn that nagging and having a go at their children doesn't help? How about some encouragement? How about some praise for the little achievements and improvements that have been made? How about not focu... (305 words)

I know my bf is cheating on me with his coworker - how should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age - My boyfriend is cheating me with a colleague at work what shall i do towards this issue Shall tell him that i've noticed or not... (28 words)

I'm trying to lose weight, but it feels like I'm getting bigger! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6562 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - Ok here it goes, i feel frustrated with my self. I'm trying to lose the wiehght but it feels like i'm getting bigger. is it because my muscles are working? i'm bored with my routine. I do the same things over and over again when it comes to exercise and I want to go on a no ... (79 words)

I like my friend, but he likes someone else - and he keeps telling me about her!! I'm so jealous! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

- Ok so here is my problem: I feel rejected. My best friend who I like more keeps talking about how he likes this other girl, whom im pretty sure likes him back. He knows i like him too...but its like he doesnt care. I feel like hes being a insesnitive prick. I really cant cope... (273 words)

I told her we had chemistry and she didn't say anything back! Later she was acting like she liked me - what's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hey, This is going to be long sorry! Im in my last year at uni, ive liked my female friend for over a year and i told her this last year because i felt that we had chemistry and to me it was blatent! But when i told her she didnt say anything about it, not even no i dont like ... (244 words)

Guys ask for my number and then never call! What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I know this problem sounds weird, but I have met so many guys and they have given me there number. I was certain they would contact me, but they didn't contact me. I am 19 years old and been told by a lot of people i'm really good-looking. What's wrong with me that i don't have ... (67 words)

My ex and her new guy won't stop harassing me! Would it be harsh to bring them to court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (M)

- Sorry for the repost but i really need advice on this ... So heres the deal, ive posted on cupid before regarding the breakup from my ex after nearly 5 yrs and also when she met a new guy (a mate) within 2 weeks of the breakup. 2 months have now gone since all of this star... (440 words)

My boyfriend got a girl pregnant during a one night stand... now the baby has been born!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am confussed, My boyfirend of eight months got a one night stand pregnant. This did happen before we got together... we hooked up in April and in May the young lady calls him and tell him that she was 1 month pregnant..... At 1st it did not bother me until three days... (559 words)

He's asking me to have an abortion!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - just found out i am pregnant but my partner dsnt want it he said hv abortion or he will walk i was on the pill but missed sum when i was poorly i no irisponsable of me. he came round to talk bout it he said he just dsnt want anymore kids as hes got 5 to previuos wife, were not ... (180 words)

Does he really love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - im in love with a guy who already has a girlfriend.he says he loves me but cannot leave his girl.i accepted him and things were going good but now after few months he is having constant mood swing.does he really love me?what should i do?... (45 words)

Am I stupid for trying at this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age - 3-4 weeks ago my partner bought a bouquet of flowers for a sales girl who sold him an watch. he is still denying it or that he even knows her even though i have proof he did i know through seeing the flowers bill and ringing this girl up, although she said the card read "... (414 words)

Just tell me if she misses me like I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My fiance broke up with me in the end of july, we had been toghether for 5 years and engaged for a year and half would be two yrs on dec 24. At one point she broke up with me before 2 yrs ago for two months and then begged for me to come back. Now she hooked up with another guy ... (130 words)

He doesn't want to meet with me...is it because he doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6578 days ago

19 December 2006 (F)

age 30-35 - well my boyfriend lives only 10 miles away and he never seems to want to meet me anywhere...is it because he doesn't love me?... (24 words)

Is this a stain on my character?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hello to all the wise advisory people out here! This is going to be a rather long post, I'm afraid, because it's been bothering me for a while, and I don't know whom else to talk to about it, under anonymity. I'm sorry to all those of you who do read it and think it's too long... (990 words)

Do I get married a second time ...or not? Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - Sir, I am in dilema whether i have to go for second marriage or not. Regards... (25 words)

Recently he seems to have lost intrest in me..what can I do to spice things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6578 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i have been with the man for almost 6 years and we have had our ups and downs and been thru alot lately with everyday life,we use to have the best sex life ever, then recently he seems to have lost intrest in me, like maybe im not like i use to be when we first met, i fear that ... (87 words)

Help..there is no romance in my relationship and I miss it badly!

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19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - There is no romance in my relationship. I've been w/ my bf two years and I love him very much. He's never been a romantic kind of guy, and I'm okay with that -- I'm not the kind of girl who needs a lot. But lately I feel like it's really just not enough. I miss that feeling ... (155 words)

Calling me names like skank/ slut are his way of joking...How do I handle his idea of 'joking'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hey there, Well my boyfriend and I fought a few times one night while we were drinking and then it carried on through the next day. Ever since then, he's been sligtly rude to me and sometimes acts like he knows EVERYTHING. He jokes around with me, but his jokes are really h... (76 words)

My parents are on track to ruining our relationship because they think he is below my social status!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6529 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend a little over a year and I love him to pieces. I cannot imagine life without him, and he loves me just as much. We are planning on being with eachother for a long time. So, it breaks my heart that my parents, especially my mom, don't think he's ... (284 words)

Our religion is against drinking but I found out my best friend has been getting drunk!

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19 December 2006 (?) - i have a very close friend. we are both 16. she told me she never drinks alcohol. it is strictly against our religion. but i found out last friday night she got drunk and it's not the first time! i am disgusted. we are just so close, she bought me a present, and i'm takin her ... (112 words)

Did he just use me after his ex dumped him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6577 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am so confused! I need some advice as to what is going on here. My boyfriend (early 20's and possibly has ADD - this has a strong bearing on the way he communicates and acts, ie not very well at all and inappropriately at times) and I (31) split up tonight. The last time I ... (1011 words)

I love him to bits but his bedroom techniques leave a lot to be desired!

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19 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - ok, with a kind loving and very thoughtful man.... only 1 problem with him..... he tries his hardest but his bedroom techniques arent turning me on.... on the other hand have a friend at work n we occassionally have txt sex and i get more aroused by his txts than my bf's ... (101 words)

My ex tells me things to mess with my head...can you help me understand wha he meant?

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19 December 2006 (F)

- tonight my ex who is also my best mate came online and started chatting to me first he told me hes in love with his bosses daughter then he tells me to dump my bf or lose him as a friend then i went out to a club and he texts me this 'the best thing you could have ever givin ... (114 words)

What does this dream mean? Any advice?

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19 December 2006 (F)

- I had a very disturbing dream the other night, I am in a bus but I get lost(recuurent dream)the situation evolved for the first time last night so that suddenly after findind my way out when I am near my house I see a very big insitutional building like parliament or something, ... (252 words)