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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Broke up 2 weeks ago because he wasn't looking for committment! I'm still in love with him though..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up 2 weeks ago. we had a strange relationship because he worked abroard for long periods and was not looking like he was ready to show me any commitment. towards the end of the relationship he told me he intended to go travelling for 4 ... (234 words)

In love with my best female friend--but don't want to ruin the friendship. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - hey, i have a serious problem here im kinda in love with my best female friend(im a guy) and i dont want to ruin what we have already i have talked to her about it but like not saying its her and she said that i should tell them but I just dont want it to seem weird please help ... (81 words)

My fiancee and love of my life..just told me she cheated multiple times with her ex! Am I a fool to forgive her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - about 5 years ago, i found the love of my life while in my freshman year of college and about a year ago i asked her to marry me. my fiancee and i have been inseperable and she is already become an important part of my family and vice versa. she is my best friend and i can't ... (217 words)

I think we get on better as friends...but don't want to dump him because of what my friends will say...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi im going out with this boy he is fat and i like him but i dont no whether to go out without him or not anymore because i think w get on beter as freinds but i dont want to dump him in case of what my friends mite say please help luv miracle worker... (57 words)

Is winking really a way of flirting? How do you respond to a wink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6535 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - is winking flirting? is it a way of man saying he wants you? How should you respond to someone winking at you?... (22 words)

Met an incredible man...but I cannot tell if he's interested. Advice needed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hello, My problem is the following: I'm scared to death of entering a new relationship, or rather, scared to death of messing up a new prospect. I am a professional, financially secure 31 year old woman who lives in New York. Not 21 anymore, but middle aged I guess by ... (1159 words)

I can get 'wet' like I think I shoud. We've used lube but is there a way I can do this naturally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F)

- Hi I recently started having sex for the first time, we had been doing stuff for a while - but wanted to make sure we were both ready before going the whole way. Before when we were doing stuff i never had trouble getting wet - but since we've been having sex i have found... (166 words)

We met online-I still really like him but think he just used me. How do I get his attention again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - For the past five weeks I have been seeing a guy I met through an internet dating site. Although he hinted at having sex early on I made him wait until a week ago. He has been ill for the past week or so and we haven't been able to see each other. He then began to hint he ... (125 words)

Doesn't bother me when other women chat up my man...is this a sign it's over for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - ok, here goes, with partner 6 years, engaged to be married, men suddenly taking interest in me, but since im getting the attention, it doesnt bother me anymore when girls chat up my man... is this a sign its over?... (40 words)

am having trouble believing him..should I suspect he did something last night he shouldnt have?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6077 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - MY B/F AND I Got into an argument the other night. All day we did not talk. I call him after 11 or so...no answer at all..i called another time. No answer. I text in the morning b/c i figured he was up and at work asking if we are broken up or something. We finally get to t... (206 words)

He tells my mom what he thinks of her and he egged my step-dad's van at halloween! Why is he this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 7 months. I love him alot. But he gets the impression my mum and dad do not like him. There has been times that my mum and him are standing at the front door and he is telling her what he thinks of her basically. And he egged my ... (112 words)

HAd sex and I'm worried about pregnancy. How long do I wait before having a pregnancy test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi im 16 and i have a bf of my age we had sex at december 26 and i got my last period at december 13... we dnt use any protection so im soooo scared .... i can be pregnant??? he eyaculates out but someone says that anyways i can be pregnant.. how much i need to wait to take a ... (69 words)

His ex gf sent him a christmas card and I'm wondering...is she just keeping him strung along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months. He lives 50 miles away, we have our own houses and we see each other every weekend and in the week. He had a girlfriend and they kind of drifted apart after three years - 3 yrs ago (she couldn't deal with his family ... (295 words)

Why am I still 'pinin' away for him after 9 months! Any advice to getting through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

28 December 2006 (F)

- Ok, well ive broke up with my first boyfriend last march we were together for only 4 months but it was the best 4 months of my life. I havnt heard from him since july and everything reminds me of him i cant stop thinking about him and it hurts. I have dated loads of guys and ... (117 words)

After I split with my bf to date him-this new guy has gone cool and non-comittal! What's up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6535 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I have a bit of an unusual problem-i was friendly with a guy at school when i was about 15 he was a few years older. We had lots of flirtations but nothing happened and we lost touch. then recently i heard from him via friends reunited. we talked through email and texts and ... (313 words)

This is the 2nd xmas in a row-I have slept with my married boss. But it gets worse-I think I'm pregnant! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi there... okies i think ive been really stupid. Last xmas i slept with my boss whose married and we didnt speak properly for ages afterwards, on my part i was embarrassed and wasnt sure what he was thinking but on his part i thought he regretted. About 5 months later fli... (146 words)

He had an affair so I threw him out... but now I want him back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age - My husband had an affair and I threw him out. I was furious after reading texts and e-mails and packed his clothes and threw them out of the window, swearing at him. He has a good job and has moved into a flat in London. He calls occasionally to speak to our son and has been to ... (241 words)

She said she was 18 and I found out she's 15! Can I get in hot water for having a relationship with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Hi there, I'm 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for almost 9 months, and we are very happy together. There is a few problems though. She is almost 15, I did not realize this at the time, as she said she was 18, and by looking at her she could pass as 18. But now I'm ... (283 words)

A past bf forced sex on her and now--she isn't interested in making love. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Iv known my girlfriend for well over 10 years now and we've just got together a few months ago. She's a great person and i really like her a lot but the sex for me is all give and no receive. She just doesn't seem interested. Even when I'm simply stroking her and going ... (233 words)

I'm happy with my job and being close to my family. I have a LD bf but wonder...is is really the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6522 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I met a guy over the summer and had a passionate affair, the one catch was that he was my flatmate. We both fell out with the other flatmates and had to move out. I unfortunately didn't have a job and had to move back in with my parents, which was also in another city!? ... (194 words)

I am finding I have feelings for another man and I'm worried I will mess up my marriage. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, i am married for just a few months now, my husband is such a wonderful guy, very good to me, the thing is, I have feelings towards another guy, nothing at all has happened. I really don't understand why ... i honestly don't want to be feeling like this, as i really want my ... (154 words)

He gets distant, for days, after we've had sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - i have been sleeping with a man who is separated and in the process of a divorce. he says he cares about me, but after we have sex, he seems distant for a few days. please help, i have fallen in love with him but i dont understand his behavior... (50 words)

My husband thinks I am overly obsessed with our young son...I'm beginning to wonder if he's right. Any advice?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

28 December 2006 (F)

- Nine years ago, I met my future-husband at the hospital where I worked, he was visiting his sister, who had just given birth. We fell in love almost instantly, and were married after a year of passionate love. We started trying immediately for a baby, and after 3 years of ... (322 words)

Does circumcision affect penis size?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid i am not sure if this question is gonna be posted but if it is i would like to know: does the penis of a man shrink if he was circumcised when he was young, and if so is they anyway to make it bigger again ??? ... (58 words)

She's gotten distant..I can help but think she's cheating on me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (M)

- So I've been seeing this girl for 5 months. We usually spend everyday together but since we're both off from school shes at home in Boston and I'm here in California 3,000 miles away. We've said "I Love you" and I truly mean it. She assures me shes never felt this way ab... (223 words)

We broke it off before christmas-and I'm confused because he states he really likes me! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Help. My ex broke it off with me just before Christmas. It has been the most confusing thing I have ever been through. The last time we saw each other didn’t go especially well, but we didn’t argue which I think had been part of the problem. We needed a darn good argument! ... (623 words)

My husband's ex lover is accusing him of fathering her child. Can we take legal action to have DNA testing done?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age - Hi i have been married for 21yrs, my husband had an affair 12 yrs ago with a married woman who was still sexually active with her husband. she has now blamed my husband of being the father of a child, can we ask the court for her husband to be tested. ... (51 words)

He is no longer a teacher of mine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Right, i posted a lil thing last week about me going out with an ex teacher...i clearly stated that he was my EX teacher and that i just wanted some advice, yet some moron thought it would nice to comment sayin that my bloke should go to prison if there is any justice! i wanted ... (122 words)

Is it still wrong to feel used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - is it wrong 2 feel used if you give a blow job and then they leave..?..i duno if it that they got what they want now they can leave.or that they really do need to leave..but is it still wrong 2 feel used?!... (43 words)

I have no idea why on gods earth i cheated on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (?) - Hi!..i'm so Distrot!..i'm so upset i cheated on my boyfriend twice..once on Christmas..and once just a few houres ago..i have no idea y on gods earth i cheated on him i love him would never cheat and here i am and i gave to guys i don't even LIKE at all bj's..the first one i ... (119 words)

I'm basically his first really serious relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy for quite a while and he's started saying that he loves me and he truly acts like it. The only prob is that I'm basically his first really serious relationship so I'm scared that he only feels that way because he likes that I care for him. I'm afraid ... (82 words)

I still have that lingering fear that he's gonna change

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he's been talking about getting a place with me. I'd be totally for it except my last boyfriend acted almost the same way in the beginning but in the end turned out to be really mentally abusive. This new guy is a lot ... (87 words)

I might just be scared to love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - How do I know if i love my boyfriend? I'm afraid I might just be scared to love him because he's leaving for the navy soon and I know it will hurt more. Any advice?... (35 words)

He's been giving hint that he wants us to be more

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6472 days ago

28 December 2006 (F)

- im am a 17 year old girl and i been sleeping with a 29 year old guy i made it clear to him he is only a booty call as i have a high sex drive and it get so bad i cant consentrate at school recently he been giving hint that he wants us to be more than f*ck buddies i would really ... (111 words)

She's either seeing someone else or is ashamed to say she loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6536 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for about 6 weeks now. She had a bit of a fling with a work friend a few months ago and he keeps texting her saying things like hed like to see her in nothing but a baggy shirt. Then i was on the phone to her tonight and i said love you, and... (181 words)

He said well you love me so prove it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - A girl I know just got dumped by her bf. They have been going out for a few months and everything was fine. Then 2 weeks ago it all changed. This girl got sexualy abused by her father and feels uncomfterble now in relationships. When it got worse he left her at a resturant and ... (158 words)

I feel like I am neglecting my kids but it makes me sick to be with her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

28 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - Because of a short term affair my wife had, we have been split up for about 6 months now.. I have been involved with someone who I care dearly about but I also have two children who mean more to me than anything.. I am not misserable when I am with my wife but yet I am not ... (120 words)

I don’t know whether to pursue the friends with exs thing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6525 days ago