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writes:my Girlfriend doesn't think we have enough in common for a relationship do u think she could of meet someone that has more in common with her?or is she trying to make me see that we don't have a lot on common in our relationship.she excepts it 2 be perfect and have everything in common we did at the start of our relationship but now it's like all them thing's are gone what sould i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, cam  +, writes (13 December 2006):
 its a common misconception that u need to hav stuff in common. u dont need to lyk the same places, listen to tha same music or eat the same food. it doesnt matter what stuff you lyk as long as the thing you lyk the most is the other person. i think you should try and get her 2 c this. if you do agree with this explaine it to her. if she really does luv u then she will understand, iff she doesnt then ur gunna b better of in tha long run
i hope things work out for you and her make sure u dont try and change urself 2 please her becoz ur not being fair on ur self
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reader, childof1981  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 People can drift apart over time, this happens and there is not much you can do about it. Relationships are based on common ground, without it you face a never ending struggle just to hold the relationship together instead of enjoying it.
If you spend most of your time just "making things work" it's time to gracefully move on.
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