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writes: Hello cupids,Please give me some advice here.I was seeing a guy for a couple of months. I am 26, he is 28. Things were going really well, he told he really liked me etc. Then things started to cool off a bit just because we were both very busy. I never told him how much I liked him and was wondering if I should, as perhaps he may think that I wasn't really that interested?? When he told me I just smiled sweetly and said nothing back. We have been talking more recently as I went on a last minute holiday for a week and we spoke when I got back. He has told me he is going away for christmas, when it is also my birthday. I am a bit upset as I spent his birthday with him and got him a present, doesn't seem like he is that bothered about doing the same for me. Although I suppose I can't be annoyed as I have been away a lot too and he does not question me when I decide to do so. I think it is a bit weird he wants to go away for xmas and new year by himself. Perhaps xmas is difficult for him as he does live on his own and his friends and family will all be doing their own thing, I know he lost his dad some years back and a close friend this year too.We are going to be seeing each other the day before he goes away, I want to know how he feels, and if he wants to see me like we were when he is back, not sure how to go about this, and what I should say? I want us to have a nice evening, so maybe I should just see how it goes.Thanks xx
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reader, jade77830 +, writes (11 December 2006):
 maybe he deosn't think youn like him and don't want to spend much time with you. you must talk to him and tell him how you feel or less he will just go and he might not want to be with you again.
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