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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm still in love with my ex and he talks to me about other girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We dated in high school (my first love) and we recently got in contact again years later. The first night we were together, I felt the instant connection again and we ended up fooling around. The second night it was getting physical ... (136 words)

Everyone in my life has cheated on me and I just feel confused about everything

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I dont know what to do its like everyone I get with just cheats on me and my best friend I have so many feelings about....And the guy I am with now I would like for it to last forever but Idk what to do..Cause it is always so diffacult to talk to him and I just don't know what ... (71 words)

The guy I like likes me but won't break up with his GF for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- Okay, so there is this guy that I dated about this time last year, lets call him Eric. He is really really sweet, but I broke up with him to be with my ex, and we will call him Joe. And after me and Joe broke up, I didnt really want to go back to Eric. I moved to Holland for 7 ... (233 words)

I am so lonely and sick of guys only wanting me for my nice body!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6519 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Wow... drama drama drama.... I hate it.... me and my ex will never get back together and I realizie that now! But with everyone around me in a relationship its hard to always keep a smile on! I mean I do but its fake..... and I will admit I am still in love with her.... I will ... (166 words)

Will having braces on my teeth affect how oral sex feels to a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- does having braces effect oral sex towards males ?... (9 words)

My ex broke up with me but wants to meet back up to talk...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - my ex went to uni this october after a week he came back and broke up with me then a month later he got a new girl, it was my birthday the other day he sent a card and in it said wen i cum back at xmas we can talk coz ive had a rough time with there being three deaths in last 2 ... (145 words)

I got a promotion, he got laid off, I said I would support us for a while but I'm fed up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I'm in a real dilemma. I have recently been promoted and am now earning a decent salary. My partner has just been laid off, but is starting his own business. Trouble is, I'm supporting us both financially which leaves me with no energy and no money to save. The fact that I'm ... (107 words)

During sex or masturbation I don't feel any pleasure!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- When i masturbate i do not feel anything good. Why is this even when the opposite sex does it to me there is still no pleasure? whats wrong with me?... (30 words)

We are both 18 and virgins and I don't actually know what to do when we have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - ok im 18yrs old and been with my gf a while now and are both are ready to have sex but we are both virgins and she doenst know im a virgin and just dont know what to do???... (41 words)

I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with her it is different. Its not ... (291 words)

I want to break up, but when I tried before he begged for me to come back! How do I do this once and for all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - Hi, im 15 and gay and I have a boyfriend thats 16, he lives 90 minutes from me, i met him in july over th internet and then we met up and we been going out togther since. This was my 1st boyfriend (i had 3 girlfreinds before but i didnt love them or anything cos i wernt stra... (340 words)

My coworker and I are going out and I want to ask her to give me a blowjob!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - Hi, I am going out with one of my coworkers soon. Nothing serious, just for fun. I do not want a relationship with her, but I would like her to give me a blowjob. How do I get her to do that? We get along very well. Any tips are welcome. Thank you. ... (56 words)

The guy I like is back with the girl who cheated on him. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I like this guy who had recently broken up with his gf. We began to become friendly. Now out of no where they are going out again. She has cheated on him 3 times. I know it is much easier for him to go out with her since he knows her but he knows she is going to cheat on him ... (89 words)

I'm stressing out about what he's really doing online!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6428 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Hey, everyone. I’ve been w/ my bf for 4 yrs now. He lives at home w/ his parents and so do I. He’s not the party type; he’s the type of guy that works and goes straight home and once in blue goes to his buddies house and hangout. He and I talk a lot about our future and he ... (404 words)

My husband said nothing happened between him and the woman he texted, but I can't trust him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I wrote last week about my husband texting another woman while we were apart we are now back together but I can not get them out off my head he said nothing happened but i dont think i can trust him on this she has changed her number and we havent had a phone bill this month i ... (191 words)

Is cyber sex, online with different men considered cheating on my husband?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6554 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - is it cheating if you are going onto chat sites and chat to guys and talk to them in a sexual way. Sex with my husband is non existent and i feel its the only way i can get rid of my frustration. Yes i have tried to approach my husband to do things to make things more ... (69 words)

I am still thinking of my ex gf even though I care about my current gf... what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - I have been with my current g/f for about 5 months. I now have an ex apparently tryin to get back in the door. I haven't had any major issues with my current gf but some things have come up recently. She went out with her gf's while I watched her son and didn't return until ... (154 words)

I am finding it hard to accept that my bf was a "cross dresser' in his past. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend just told me a week ago that he cross dressed for 10 years on and off because he hated himself so much and in dressing as a woman he could become someone else. He hasn't cross dressed in 2 years and after he told me, he threw away his box of clothes and makeup. ... (357 words)

Been on 3 dates but he went cold after he stayed over...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Question: I have been on 3 dates with this guy, total chemistry there anyway on 3rd date he stayed over we fooled around and then in the morning he didn't cuddle nor kiss me so I felt really dejected. At 10.30 he got out of bed and said that he had to get shopping and a few ... (255 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- The guy I like, who I don't think likes me, only really takes interest in popular girls. They always know what to say, and although I've been told by my friends that I'm prettier than most of them, my lack of confidence publicly lets me down. I'm always stuck of things ... (67 words)

My husband says I make him feel dirty and bad because he enjoys looking at porn

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Hello, I have the most wonderful man in my life. We have been together for over 5 years and we were just married in October of this year. We get along great and enjoy each other's company. There is nothing I can't say to him and he seems to feel the same about me. That... (384 words)

Should I take the lack of response as a lack of interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I worked with the man and there was a real connection between the two of us. I have since left and was very upset leaving. Apparently, he hasn't been the same since i left (my friend has told me - he really misses me) I know he did fancy me, i think he may feel he is to old ... (107 words)

Found my experience with a condom unpleasant..any tips on better types of condoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M)

- Hi I've been seeing my girlfriend now for a few months now and last night we had sex (my first time). The problem was the contraception. I used a condom and both of us found the experience unpleasant. We had foreplay to begin with so she was fairly "wet" yet we both still fo... (80 words)

I know he's cheating and I am heartbroken! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I know my boyfriend is cheating on me he denies it but he cheated on me with his ex and now I have baby girl by him and I found text messages in my phone I dont know what I should do im soo heartbroken... (45 words)

We split and his new pregnant gf works in my office! I'm so upset and hurt. How can I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - My ex and I went out with each other for six years, he was in the navy and we loved each other to bits. He got a transfer to live with me and things were great. After six months his friends suddenly started coming above me and rugby always took preference and in the end I had ... (271 words)

We split b/c he wouldn't stop texting other women - we're together again but I think he's still doing it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- My husband and I had a short separation due to my husband's continual texting of other women over a long period of time, although we rowed time and time again about this problem we had never split up before over it, until I'd really had enough. Howevr we decided to give our ... (262 words)

He has been going to a bar everynight for the past couple weeks, but lies about where he really is!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Ok, I never thought I would come here, but if I don't get some insights I am going to do something incrediably stupid here. Everyone is different and does things in their own way, so I dont know if this will just add to my insecurities asking for help, but what would you ... (493 words)

Am I in love with one of these people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - dear cupid i would like help with what im feeling, i have seem to be interested in two people. one is a movie/soap star and the other one of which i am related to, by that i mean i keep on thinking about them non-stop and sometimes even cry, as i have no one in my life and w... (105 words)

He said "my girlfriend" and "your boyfriend" - does that mean we're back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- My ex and I have been spending a lot of time together lately. This past weekend he was making comments towards me like "My girlfriend" and "Your boyfriend". My question is, is this his way of saying that we're back together without exactly saying that we are or should I not ... (58 words)

How do I tell him I'm 16, not 17 like I said? Do I really have to tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - i have recently been dating this guy who's 20 (i'm 16). we really like each other but i have lied to him, i told him i was 17 turning 18 in May. i know i need to tell him the truth but i dnt want him to leave me because of it. Is there a way around it? how can i tell him? do i ... (69 words)

I'm afraid the guy I'm seeing will go back w/ his ex during his break from school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a year now. We're both in college and he goes to school in Baltimore while im still here in Chicago. When he's home for breaks we're always together and get along great. Yet when he's away sometimes we lose touch and dont talk for weeks. Im really ... (180 words)

My gf was invited to a house party by her friend, but doesn't want me to go b/c I wasn't invited!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend told me the other night that her friend asked her to go to a house party. I automatically assumed that she would want me to go but when i said this to her she said that her friend had invited just her. I was a little hurt by this because i feel that if she really ... (158 words)

I was about to break it off w/ him b/c of the hassle from my family, but I couldn't go through with it. What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6555 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and split up with my previous boyfriend for him. I have never felt love like it, but my family and friends are making it difficult for me to have a relationship with him. He is your typical 'bad boy' but he treats me right. (He ... (202 words)

He stopped contacting me as much in the past 3 weeks. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Hi, I was seeing a guy and about 3 weeks ago he seemed to stop contacting me as much and now hardly at all. Ok I am not very good at contacting him either and usually wait for him to contact me. Why should I, thats what I think! Anyway it is starting to drive me insan... (224 words)

What is chlamydia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - what is chlamydia? and if some one gets it will they become infertile even if they catch it once. also if you catch it will you always get it even if you treat it?... (35 words)

He chats with his ex about non-family issues - but I don't talk to mine! This is driving me mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I hate my bloke of 18 months being in touch with his ex. He says its because of the kids, but they chatter away about stuff that isn't related to the kids. She moved away from the area so they only chat on the phone but that is bad enough. They even text each other and when ... (191 words)

I want to go away to uni b/c of a boy instead of the actual course! Now I'm so confused about what I really want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6558 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- I recently have been offered the opportunity to go to university in a different city to where I live. I really want to go, not only because its a course I really want to study, but because my best friend, who we each have deeper feelings for, lives there. But this is where my ... (229 words)

It's too big and just doesn't seem to fit... What can we do?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6139 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been having trouble when it comes to having sex.It hasn't happened yet but this isn't for lack of trying.It's my first time and he has quite a big penis.Because of this it's too hard for him to insert his penis in me.My vagina is really tight and it ... (138 words)

Should I follow my heart and not give up on my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - When my bf broke up with me he said it had nothing to do with me and that it had all to do with him. He told me that he still cares about me alot but he doesnt love me. He was the one to came to me about saying the "L" word. We dated for 3 months after being friends... (233 words)

I've been cheated on before, so how do I trust my new guy around his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - me and my partner both have children from privious relationships. we have got together through a family member but im struggling to trust him as his ex always wants him when she cant have him. i know i cant stop him from seeing his kids but its so hard to trust him as i h... (77 words)

My ex wants to be friends with me, but says he's uncomfortable around me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - why is it that he wanted to be friends after the breakup but he says that he's still uncomforable around me? We had a perfect relationship but he wanted to end it cuz he just wanted to be friends for right now. I mean i want to ask him to hangout sometime "just as a frie... (515 words)

My sister is my harshest critic! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- My sister made very hard critics on my degree my work and love life which nearly meke me cry, I always try to be nice to her when she's down but I cannot stand her attitude, she pretends to control when I go to the gym or the clasees I attend, I cannot stand this anymore she ... (148 words)

She told me she loves me, but I'm not sure if she means it. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - i really want to know something, there is a girl that i love, she means everything to me, but i do not know if she loves me back, please i need help what do i do, she told me she loves me too, but i am scared.... (47 words)

My bf goes out on Saturday nights without me - Is it b/c I'm smothering him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, we used to spend every minute of the day together and i felt that I needed space, eventually i got over that feeling and we got back to normal, over the past few months he has wanted to go out with his friends on a sat night,hes ... (106 words)

Am I really shallow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - My boyfiend of two years broke up with me, and I was devastated. I thought I wanted him back desperately, but have realised that what I miss most is the feeling that I kne where my life was going and was a success. He was on paper my perfect man - tall, good looking, from a ... (175 words)

I feel like a freak. I hate: kissing, touching, cuddling, PDA, or any kind of sexual activity... Why!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6485 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Whenever i do anything i feel uncomfortable in my own skin and wish like hell to be elsewhere. i don't enjoy kissing. i don't like touching or cuddling. i absolutely hate PDA either when i see other couples or me and my b/f. I don't enjoy any sexual acitivity. I hate this f... (79 words)

Can you tell the difference between being asked out as a "friend" or a "date"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - How can you tell the difference between a guy asking you out to dinner as a friend and as a potential gf? And what are good ways to tell guys you are not interested and keep them as a friend? ... (40 words)

Should I choose the guy who I like a lot who lives far away or the guy who I kind of like who is around the corner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - hey, im 17 and have a lil prob between 2 guys... just wondering do you think its wise to go for a guy iv liked for over a year and we hav heaps in commen but not sure if he even likes me. His a year older and he also lives 45mins away but when ever i talk 2 him or think of him ... (147 words)

We keep poking each other. Do you think he fancies me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - hi im 16 and im friends with this boy and when i queue up to get my lunch in the canteen everyday we queue up together. it is quite crowded in the queue. i always stand infront of him while he is talking to me from behind me. he always moves right up close to me so his front is ... (95 words)

I'm scared to break up because I don't want to hurt him. I still care just don't love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6557 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - im 16 years old. im with this really fantastic guy but i dont think i love him any more. we're arguing over stupid things, and i just cant seem to conect to him like i used to be able to. i think the fairest thing on him to do is to break with him but i really don't want to ... (80 words)

I am 13. Is it ok to date a 16 yo?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - is going out with a 16 year old guy weird.if im only 13?... (13 words)

Is it alright to date a 15, almost 16 year old when i'm 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - Ok so I met this girl through my cousin that i really like, i met her at the movies....and she found me on my cousins "myspace" and we started talking and whatnot, she told me she was 15 and I was 17 at the time, I didn't know if it was alright to date her, so i never really ... (206 words)

My skincare routine has got rid of spots but made my face red!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F)

- I have pale skin, and I like this about my self. However, recently my face has become quite red after starting a new skin care regime. My spots have cleared up, however my skin looks and feels very tired. And red. Help!?!... (50 words)

She says she is fearful to continue this relationship because I don't own my own house.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a couple of months and things have progressed very slowly (which is fine) She is pretty shy so I never pushed her outside of her "comfort zone" until tonight. Some years ago I went through a divorce which left me financially devastat... (159 words)

How can we stop bumping heads?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - i have been with this beautiful girl for a year. she listen to me, shes kind, her family likes me, we have a great sex life , shes funny but we constantly bump heads. Shes very emotional and sensitive, its hard not making her sad, i really try but shes 2 emotional. She also has ... (92 words)

Does the pain of jealousy due to insecurity ever end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

5 December 2006 (M) - I've lived with the same woman (my first) faithfully for the last 10 years. since i was 17. i met someone else while i was out of town and attempted to cheat on her. the new girl teased to death but had a conscience blast at the last second and opted out. i left and went back ... (524 words)

What kind of girls are guys really looking for ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - What kind of girls are guys really looking for ?... (10 words)

My bf of 8 months just broke it off with me. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6559 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - i just got an amazing cruise ship job as a lead singer and im going away for 6 months. me and my boy have been together for 8 months. he just broke up with me because of our 10 year difference and how i cant stimulate him mentally. my heart feels like its burning with pain. i ... (67 words)

Site error message??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6560 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - Ok this is to the people who work on this site. Why is it that when i try to view my question it says error? ... (29 words)

My bro hates my BF but we are all going out to dinner, with the grandparents, on my 18th!

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5 December 2006 (F)

- my parents and grandparents are taking me out for my 18th bday meal and drinking session but they want me to bring my bf along to meet him. the only problem is my bro hates my bf and would do anything to stop me seeing him. my grandparents are little to open about sex and dirty ... (83 words)

How do I get this guy to like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6561 days ago

5 December 2006 (F) - How do I get this guy to like me without him knowing I like him?... (15 words)

He seems to be getting more moody

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5 December 2006 (F) - I am involved with a man who is widowed. It will be a year 12/30/2006 that she passed away of cancer. He waited 6 months before dating and did so online. The first girl he only went out with a couple of weeks. We have now been together 3 months. We are not "in love", but ... (265 words)