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writes: I got with this girl 2 years ago. It was both our first relationship. Now I'm 25 and she is 17. She lied about her age and told me she was 16 and working when we first got together. I took it bad and she was lying to her parents as well, and when she finally told them they didn't like us going out and tried to scare me off.I stuck around and have done evrything for her and gave her lots of time and attention. We have had a few big rows when i have been drunk and she told her parents we had split. This has been going on for 6 months now. we have both spoke to each other badly but she never seem to think she's in the wrong. And i feels her parents have played such a big part in splitting us up!I still love her loads and I'm sure she feels the same but the last 6 monhs she has pushed me away so much. One minute she would really want me and we would be back on, then the next day not! And she always wanted to call the shots in our relationship.Now in the 3 weeks we have been split she's been with 3 guys. I think she has been stringing me along till someone better comes along. I have a feeing she might contact me and i now i should just leave it. I'm so scared she will start a relationship with a new guy she has seen twice now i can't understand how she could so soon after us.Please help me. I'm i being a fool? Is she 2 young? Could we ever stand a chance? Shall I let go? I have tried so much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006):
Honestly she sounds like on of those girls who is dating for the prestige of being attached to someone. You are older and therefor a good catch because it is a demonstration of her sexual attractivenss. If someone else comes along that pads her ego better, she'll glom on to them .
There really is no future with this type. You can date her as a NSA arrangement and get her into clubs and stuff, but dont try to have a relationship.
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reader, 21flames +, writes (12 December 2006):
21flames is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the reply. I think what u say is true. Do you not think if she did meet me half way we could make a go of things or will she allways have me wrapped around her little finger?
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reader, LISAG +, writes (12 December 2006):
 I think she's too young and still wanting to play the field. She is also a confirmed liar - you'll never believe another word that comes out of her mouth. You are not a fool, you are just acting a "human nature" response, we all do it and learn from it! She's got you wrapped round her little finger, this is the kiss of death to any relationship - believe me. She'll continue to pick you up and drop you when she feels like it if you let things continue. Let go and give your energies and attention to someone who will be grateful, loving and honest ! I don't think this stands a chance. You'll not forget her easily but I know you will find someone who will meet you half way and love you back on an equal level, you know you deserve that !
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