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writes: My ex and i broke up about a month and a half ago.Him and i were talking to nite and there was alot of flirting going on between us. Like when were talking we were holding hands and weaving our fingers though each and others we hugged alot like really close. Before i left i kissed him on the cheeck.He told me that he misses me and misses me being around. He said that we should hangout soon.The funny thing was we were talking about jobs and when were dating i was talking about getting a job at the bank down the street from his work and he brought up the whole thing saying "you should try to get the job at the bank near my work and i can drive you and then you can walk up to my work and wait for me to drive you home"I dont know whats going on. He told me when we broke up that he didnt love me and that he didnt want a gf right now.Now after tonite i dont know what to think. I mean is there a good possiblitie he wants me back?Could he finally be relizing that he let something really good slip away? How should deal with this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2007): listen im in the same situation as you, every bloke is different but it sounds to me like he just wants your company but thats it. in time he may realise what he has lost but at the moment your meeting him and he knows you will keep doing this because you love him, he wants his bread buttered both sides dont let him have it LET HIM COME RUNNING!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): hun dont worry about it. its been done to me and he prob does want u back but dont take him back cuz he'll just hurt u again. i promise u that,
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 He is probably misses the good times and feels confused himself.
As feelings are still fresh, you need to talk again about this to be sure what his intentions are and take it from there.
Be careful that his not after friends with benefits but to rekindle a relationship is you want the same.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 December 2006):
There must have been a reason for the breakup. Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder but hopefully something has changed too. Therwise he'll fall into the same rut again. There is also the chance he wants sex. Talk to him if you're interested. See what he says.
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reader, Wisha +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Girl, the exact same thing is hapening to me right now. I split up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago and he does exactly the same to me. How confusing is this? Its like we cant move on! And i dont even want to, i bet you dont either! I think you should ask him what he wants otherwise you might be clinging on to false hopes, and might get even more hurt! Good Luck xxx
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 i dont think u should raise ur hopes now it is still too soon, it might be true he wants u back and it might turn out not to be true. he said he didnt love u and he didnt want a gf, all of a sudden he wants both? mmmmm no, i dont think so, instead of u being so available to him why dont u ask him what his intentions are? u kissed him he didnt, he only said he missed u he really didnt give u much to work on, dont allow this man to hurt u even more he might have been lonely that nite and he knew u will come thru for him, im sorry if i sound so negative about all this i just dont want u to play along and later he rejects u and u will feel used so please do this with ur eyes wide open. good luck
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