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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does he think I'm just an easy lay or does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - i met a guy about five weeks ago on a night out, and we got on really well. he lives in another city so we emailed each other for a week, and then arranged to meet up at his the next weekend. even though i didn't really fancy him, we had a brilliant night and ended up sleeping ... (226 words)

Being 'sex buddies' with him really screwed around with my head! Any advice to help me move on from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - For a year (since yesterday) I had a very intense and significant on/off relationship with a guy. We broke up in October, were sex buddies for a month and then kept randomly meeting up and fooling around. We've been relatively close throughout the whole time even when we ... (356 words)

Is there a way, I can explain to my partner, why I sent naughty e-mails to a woman I never met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 51-59 - OK - to the point. My partner opened my emails today and saw some pretty lurid exchanges from me to a tart at the beginning of the year. We never actually met up because in my view the flirt was probably more exciting than the reality. At that point in time the idea of ... (500 words)

She dumped but says she wants NO relationship with anyone else. What does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6579 days ago

13 December 2006 (M)

- My Girlfiend of 15 month's just hate's us fighting and on saturday night she slept out i hated it. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-it-a-man-talking-in-the-background.html link to the saturday night thing now she's dumped me saying she don't want a relationship w... (328 words)

Tell me--is this guy just being cheeky or is he actually a sleaze?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I met this really cool guy a few weeks ago but we've only spoken a few times. Then out of the blue he asks if I want to meet up with him. I agreed and asked him to arrange something but instead he made really obvious cheesy chat up lines about sex. Is he just being cheeky or is ... (63 words)

I'm a size 6-8 but I am getting a pudgy belly and I'm worried. Any ideas on how to lose it fast?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

13 December 2006 (F)

- This may sound like the most pathetic question ever but its really gettin me down! im and 18 and im a size 6-8 BUT i cant stop eating all of a sudden and now im getting a pudgy belly and i hate it! I feel really insecure and concious wearing certain tops i used to be able to ... (77 words)

In love with my ex and I love the man I'm involved with, also. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6582 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I am in love with my ex but am involved with a man I love also. What do i do?... (21 words)

He likes to tease me and sneak up behind me---it's all playful...do you think he likes me?

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13 December 2006 (F) - I have this 18 or 19-year-old fellow employee, who likes to playfully tease me, sneak up behind me and say: "Boo!", and try to do child-like things to get my attention. I am wondering if he really likes me or has a crush one me, it is kind of hard to tell.... (52 words)

Why would my ex's friend act worried when he found out I was going back to school? Did my ex put him up to this?

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13 December 2006 (F)

- I used to always tell my ex bf I would never go back to college. This is mainly due to low self esteem as a direct cause of his abusive (mentally) behavior. We broke up 6 months ago because he was being a jerk. I have a job just not a very good one. I have been working on my ... (177 words)

I'm married but is there a way to get over this other man and forget him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6569 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I am married but I have been seeing another man for a year and three months I tried to break it off several times, but we end up calling each other again I am trying to do the right thing and stay with my husband of 23 yrs but its getting harder every day, my husband knows how ... (110 words)

My duaghter is being raised in another country by my parenst. She 14 and I worry about her now that she has a bf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - i have a daughter left in my country she is now 14 years old,i was away from her for a very long time since she was a little baby and the reason is i have to work abroad to support what she needs since her father left us for a new woman. shes now staying with my parents, even ... (209 words)

He was bi-polar...did I marry him just to get him help? Is it my fault now, that he can't move on.

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13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I was with a bi-polar guy for four and a half years the last one year married to him. he was really sick and verbally and mentally abusive. I finally got out of the relationship and am trying to move on with my life. He wanted a meeting with me a couple of weeks ago to ... (156 words)

How can I get her back and prove to her things can be how they were before we argued, all the time?

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13 December 2006 (M)

- I went out with my g/f for 18months before she decided to split up because she says we argued over little things too often. She says she wants to be friends with me cos she doesn't want to lose the friendship we have. I am really upset about this and want to get back her, we ... (133 words)

What are the signs that a girl fancies you?

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13 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - What are the signs that a girl fancies you?... (9 words)

After getting back from his holidays, he sudden;y became distant and won't tell me why? What should I do?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - Ive been in a long-distance, on-off relationship for a long time. My guy just moved closer, but still not in the same city. When he just got back things were great. But he went on holiday with a friend for 3 weeks, and when he got back he's now suddenly distant and sometimes ... (88 words)

He split up with saying he can't picture the rest of his life with me. How do I move on?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost a year broke it off with me. This came as a shock. At first he said that we may get back together. He just couldn't picture spending the rest of his life with me, and he needed time to think. So, after 3 weeks of him saying the same thing, I finally told ... (209 words)

I orgasm just fine but he can't. I find this frustrating and I blame myself. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age - I am in a relationship with a man. When we have sex everything is fine, he has an erection and have no problem but he never comes. I have orgasms with him but then he justs asks that we stop because he can't come. It is really frustrating for me' and I blame myself - he says ... (65 words)

He says 'he hope we can work something out'. What does he mean when he says that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - The guy i'm dating texted me last night after we were done talking on the phone and this is what he said: "I'm gonna go to bed now. But i want you to know, that I do like you and that I am interested in you and i hope we can work something out. If you want:) What is he tryin... (73 words)

My vice-principle at school winks at me and says things that make me feel uncomfortable. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hi! everyone seasons greetings! I just want to ask this question concerning the vice principle at my high school. He's really strict to everyone and even his co-workers despise him. But he said something really weird to me, he said 'I know you like me because I'm nice to ... (160 words)

The mother of my my bf's baby, is trying to win him back. Advice needed on how to deal with this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Heres the deal.... My boyfriend of three years has a jealous all of a sudden baby momma. Remind you we used to chill (baby momma and I) I helped with the son and she was aware... never had a problem with me until now.. Now all of a sudden she's doing things like coming over ... (105 words)

I'm in a quandry...do I take the new job far away and leave the man I love...my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I have just accepted a job 200 miles away. Ive had no other offers in 8 weeks, so need to take this one to get some money coming in and to continue with my chosen career. I am in turmoil though, I will be moving far away from the man i love. He doesnt know i love him, and ... (179 words)

How do I convince my bf, that christmas is a time of love and family..not a time to be alone and sad?

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13 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, basically my bf has just told me he wants to spend xmas alone due to a rough childhood. This is our second xmas together and he told me that last yr was very hard and he hates this time of year due to bad experiences in his family at xmas. I don't want him feeling ... (99 words)

What is emotional intimacy? And what are examples of it?

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13 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - what is emotional intimacy? and what are examples of it?... (10 words)

I'm married but going to live with my lover, would like going from riches to rags! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I am married but I am in love with another wonderful man, and he feels the same way about me he wants me to leave and come to live with him but its very hard for me to leave everything I have here just for love. what do I do? he lives in a one bedroom apartment, I live in a ... (95 words)

I'm 13 and dating. What is the best time for me to start having sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hello, i am 12 years old and 13 next month me and my bf have been talking about sex and are thinking of doing it but he as told me he has produce sperm before and ive started my period .my mum said if me or my sister got pregnat she wouldnt have anything to do with me or the ... (99 words)

I have a lot of male friends and my bf thinks, I may be giving them all the wrong impression. What should I do?

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13 December 2006 (F)

- I have lots of male friends and always have. I don't know whether they feel more for me but I only want them as a friend. However, my boyfriend seems to think one in particular is falling for me and is weird when I go out with this friend. Maybe he's right, I don't know, he's ... (136 words)

I started to feel our love wasn't strong and fell for my gf best friend! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6560 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 30-35 - I've been in a 2 year relationship with a girl who I became extremely close to, loved her to bits. Sadly as time went on I started to feel a bit as if the love wasn't as strong as it used to be and I'd been noticing more girls around. Unfortunetly I happened to fall for her old ... (274 words)

I love him a lot..do you think I should lose my virginity to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hey, I'm 15 years old. My boyfriend is 17. but he doesnt live here, he lives in another country.. i love him alot and he does too. We both think we are each other's ones! well i was thinking about losing it to him, do u think i should ? thnx... (51 words)

I have a wonderful husband who treats me like a queen but ..how do I tell him I've fallen for another man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 51-59 - I have been married to the same man for 23 yrs I married at 15 I have two grown daughters 21 and 19 I dont have to work, I do what I want, when I want, and how I want I go out on weekends with the my friends to dances.. my husband is a wonderful man and would do anything in the ... (111 words)

I love him but he doesn't trust me because I cheated on him 12 years ago. How do I prove to him I am trustworthy?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I am dating a guy that I dated 12 years ago. We were apart for almost 10 years. He was married I was married. We knew who we wanted to be with and finally we are together. He has a real problem with trust because 12 years ago I cheated. The other day I went to the store ... (200 words)

We both come from different cultures..and our parents object! Should we keep dating or just end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - ooooh where to start.... i have met this girl almost a year and a half ago... there was this late summer friends gathering and i meet this girl for the first time.... we took each others number and started talking on the phone for the coming week.... she was supposed to leave ... (429 words)

I fabcy him but I'm not sure if I want to date him...what should I do?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi this boy found out that i fancied him but it was all only a joke between my mates! my mates told him i did and stuff. i do a lil bit though so i suppose it is a lil bit true lol. but now he told my mates that he fancied me! i think he told them cos he fancies me and h... (129 words)

I'm seeing him tomorrow! What am I going to say to him so it won't be so awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - hi i just found out this boy fancies me cos my mate asked him if he did and he said yes. i kinda fancy him too a lil bit and im really flattered and excited that he fancies me! anyway im seeing him for the first time since i found out he fancies me... 2morrow! but i know he ... (91 words)

He wants to reconcile. I'm not sure if he's genuine or if I'm wasting my time?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I’m confused at the moment. I used to date this guy for nine months and he used to mess me about. Anyway, I moved on with my life and he contacted me seven months later. He explained to me he was sorry, he’d been a jerk etc. He wanted us to be friends, which was fine. W... (139 words)

My bf constantly stares at other females until they notice him! Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age - My boyfriend of 4 years drives me nuts by constantly staring at other girls until they notice and then start returning the stares enjoying the attention...eye ping-pong begins! Why does he do this? Is he desperate for attention, is he insecure or have I got it wrong and he ... (174 words)

Is there better contraception then the pill?

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13 December 2006 (F)

- I have sex with my boyfriend. and I use the pill and he uses the condom. so two protections. but my main concern is, sometimes i forget to take the pill for a while. and take it later in the morning then as soon as i get up. could i get pregnant from doing this? is ... (72 words)

What does commitment really mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - What does commitment really mean? ... (5 words)

Do you think she'd flirt with me in this way if she didn't fancy me?

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13 December 2006 (M)

- Can anyone offer any advice on what to do when you fancy someone so much the butterflies in your tummy make you feel a bit sick? I have fallen for this girl in a big way, i have known her since the summer and we flirt alot, by way of eye contact, whispering things to each oth... (203 words)

I think my gf is pretty, but I'm not sexually attracted to her - I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Should I stay with her? or am I just hurting my self by missing out? I'm 22 and my gf and I have been together for almost 5 years! She's absolutely great: she's very good to me, we love all the same things, and we get a long with no problems. I absolutely love spending ti... (174 words)

I would like to get my boyfriend's 7 year old son a Christmas present - any thoughts?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi everyone... I'm with my boyf nearly a year now and he's got a 7 year old son that he see's twice a week with out fail and I don't have a problem with that. I've met him a few times at family do's etc and he's a lovely little guy and I was thinking that since its chri... (105 words)

I emailed an ex just to say hi - afterwards I found out she broke up w/ her bf the previous day! I fear that now look like a desperate stalker! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6582 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend of 1 1/2 years broke up with me about 8 months ago. We had a great relationship but she wanted out eventually to pursue other relationships and experiences. Anyways I've been thinking about her lately again and since I hadnt spoken to her in about 2 months d... (158 words)

Do you think it's possible to repair a good relationship that had a really bad break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - in situations where you and your ex didn't have a good break - up an awful one at that - that included yelling, name calling, stopped talking for a week or so... being annoyed at each other and jealousy.. and broke up over too many fights. but had a great relationship for... (89 words)

I'm terrified that this marriage is a mistake - 3 months in and it's already a nightmare!

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13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Sorry this is VERY long!! i am 29 and married just 3 months. My hubby is 24 and we were dating nearly 7 years before we got married.The first few weeks after the honeymoon were great but the past few weeks have been a nightmare. I feel so down, and finding being married ... (348 words)

He thinks he cheated on me, but can't remember. I don't know if I can get over it, though - help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - My loving, kind, generous, supportive ("perfect") boyfriend of 2.5 years that I believed I would spend my life with, came to me distraught on Sunday as the night before he thinks he slept with someone. He was at his housemate’s birthday party at his own house (I had a very old ... (320 words)

I'm trying to get my bf to stop getting in trouble w/ the police, but he says I'm not letting him have fun! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - Hi, Im 13 and my bf is 16. I really love my bf but he is always in trouble with the police for fighting. Or somethings happened whens hes gone out, i really want to tell him to calm down but he always ends up saying im not letting him have fun, even though he always asks fo... (78 words)

After we have sex, I get really painful cystitis - can this be avoided somehow?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6123 days ago

13 December 2006 (F)

- my boyfriend lives in another country and i rarely see him. when i do, we have sex. but after a few days. I get really painful cystitis. is there anyway to stop it, or not make it happen?... (42 words)

How do I prove to him that I never cheated on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - I need help. I have been married for almost 4 years and I have never cheated on my husband even when he was just my boyfriend. Although he thinks that I have. Before I met him I had alot of guy friends and that's all that they were just friends. I get along better with guys ... (137 words)

How do I hint that I would like to move in with him?

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13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - just how can you hint to a guy that you would like to move in with him?... (17 words)

Worried the guy I slept with last week isn't interested... did I scare him off? Is he ashamed of his "performance"?

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13 December 2006 (F) - Am worried the guy i slept with last week isnt interested! We are both in our late twenties, we went on our first proper date after it taking weeks to organise as we both have busy jobs, and he works away a lot. we got on great and ended up sleeping together, and it was a ... (213 words)

Please tell me what goes on in clubs and bars!

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13 December 2006 (F) age 36-40 - I am 20 years old, I have never been clubbing or to a crazy party. I would love to go but my parents are extremely strict, and I'm not allowed out past midnite. So I just want to know what really goes on there? I've been in a relationship with this guy for 2 years now, and... (131 words)

I don't know what to do... I like my ex but he has a new girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 30-35 - so...i know it sounds kind of pathetic, but i' ve liked this guy since 6th grade until 8th. right now im in 8th grade. we went out in 6th grade and then i dumped him because i have this thing that everytime i really like this person, i go out with them but a week later, i end ... (160 words)

Can someone truly love you and still let you go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

13 December 2006 (F)

- My ex bf and I broke up last December because he was leaving his uni to go to back home (about 2,000 miles away 4rm me),and then apply to another uni and we decided long distance probably wouldn't work but we both still really loved eachother. I didn't really move on and he and ... (387 words)

How can I make him and his kids take me seriously?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - my fiance lives with me, and due to some unfortunate circumstances, his 2 sons (ages 6,7) came too. I have 2 kids myself. He doesn't parent them, they are rude and disrepectful to me. Sometimes my fiance is rude too. He thinks it's a womans job to do cleaning and stuff. and he ... (108 words)

I'm seeing my boyfriend and also his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I have been w/ my bf for 6 yrs, lived together for 4. We had our ups and downs, but we are good. I really can't see myself w/ anyone else, except his best friend. I known his friend before I met him and he hooked us up. His friend confessed to me last year on my birthday... (234 words)

I dont know where I stand!

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13 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - theres a girl i like in my residence, and we have been getting on very well, but i find out she has a boyfriend in australia. about a week before she sets off to see him, we're crashed out on her bed and she starts kissing me. i tell her she has a boyfriend and i leave. i get a ... (173 words)

Does he want something more than friends since he is taking me to a flash restaurant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (F) - Ok there is this guy that i like. Recently i found out by his friend that he just wants to be friends cuz his friend asked him if he liked me. Well anyways im fine with that. Well i asked him if he wants to hangout sometime and he said yea just give me a call whenever and i s... (266 words)

She cheated on me and I've tried to forgive and forget - will it always hurt?

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13 December 2006 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend cheated on me once, a week after we got together. She says it was only sex and doesn't know what got into her. She says it didn't mean a thing. She's been very open about it, apologetic, and has since then fallen in love with me as I am with her. I decided to ... (160 words)

Is 'girth' more important that 'length' when girls look at penis'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6583 days ago

13 December 2006 (M) age 36-40 - Here's a different question regarding penis size. This one is about how big around it is. I've seen that women say circumference or "girth" is more important than length. Does that mean that the thicker the better? Mine is 4 1/2 inches around and I'm really not sure if that's ... (83 words)

The ring thing??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

13 December 2006 (F)

- My boyfriend of 7 months and I have each got a pre-engagement ring, but there is some confusion as to where the ring is supposed to be worn. I say on the wedding finger of the left hand, and he says on the wedding finger of the right hand, saying that wearing it on the left ... (139 words)