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My dad's friend had sex with me and now my Dad and him got into a big fight! What should I do?

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Question - (11 December 2006) 12 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2009)
A female , *ristinp writes:

Ok I had sex with guy that is 35 and he is my dads best freind and we were supposed to keep it between us well I started going out with this guy and he found out about it and because i am only 18 he thinks he took advantage of me so he call him and told him to stay way from me and they got in a big fight and now my dads wanting to know what is going on should I tell my dad the truth or make up something what should I tell him???????????????????????????????????????

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A female reader, JGSM Sweden +, writes (26 June 2009):

JGSM agony auntWell first of all, tell the guy that you are dating to stay the hell away from your business, that's your past experiences that only involves you and not your current "boyfriend". He had no right to call the 35 year old to start fighting with him. He can think whatever he likes, but you must have trusted him when you told him about it. It should had stayed between the two of you. And if he really knows you he should realize that you made that decision to, Because it takes two to have sex if you weren't raped! And of course you must now if you wanted it or not, and what you expected from it. And now you must tell your dad the truth, it is the only right thing to do.. because it has gone to far. Because of your boyfriend, he's the one to blame. Of course, you should tell your dad anyway. It was not the best move from your dad's best friend to sleep with you. It's what we call "Forbidden". But that's a bond between two humans, and you had sex. You must stand for it and take the consequences because if you don't it means that you weren't mature enough to sleep with the 35 year old. Witch I by the way can't see anything wrong with, If it is not a case where this man is known for liking young girls.

Anyway tell your dad, or tell your boyfriend to shut up and move on.

/S

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A female reader, xnxx United States +, writes (7 April 2009):

hay you had sex with him just tell your dad stop because you wonted to have sex with him your dad dose not know if he wanted sex too

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A female reader, xnxx United States +, writes (7 April 2009):

hay you had sex with him just tell your dad stop because you wonted to have sex with him your dad dose not know if he wanted sex too

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2008):

well tell him that since u are 18 now u should make your own choices and u chose to have sex and u wanted to have sex with his friend . he might understand.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007):

DONT tell him because it feels good when u have sex

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007):

with whom show the picture

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007):

i would not tell ur father if i was u i would jux have more sex with him toddles

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2007):

tell the truth!!!!!!1

goood luck

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2007):

girl i think u should tell ur dad the truth if u bouth really liked each other but if it was a sencation tat u just wanted to have sex so badly with some1 then tell him a lie

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A female reader, Nikita United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2006):

Nikita agony auntHi, well I would sit your dad down and tell him the truth because its bound to come out at some point. If this guy that you're now seeing tells your dad then it will sound bad and much better coming from you. It will be hard to tell him and he will be angry, more so with his friend because he's older and should know better so take a deep breath and tell the truth! Good luck. Let me know how it goes.

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A female reader, Choongalicious United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2006):

Choongalicious agony auntTell your dad the truth because honesty is the best policy. Your dad should understand your reasons and he will love you regardless, because you are his daughter. However, do be careful next time and try to think about the consequences. Good luck!

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A female reader, jen2411 +, writes (11 December 2006):

how did your dad find out?!

if it were me i wouldnt tell my dad and just say it was a rumore or some1 pickd something up wrong but i can understand people telling you to tell your dad but personaly i wouldnt.but it is completely up to you since you will have to deal with the consequences of what happens

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