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writes: My BF of 3 years broke up with me. he was away for more than a month and the minute he came back he said to me that it is not working out. I didnt know wot to say, I am madly in love with him, all I did was cry. One minute later I heard him talking to another girl, when I asked him about that he said he was planning to tell me about the girl the day after.The problem is that we live in the same flat and I cannot afford to move out at the moment as I am studying. I admit I am weak, he slept with me 3 time since, and he like sharing the bed with me.I am confused and dont know wot to do?Help please, I am going mad
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): Well, I am in the same situation. However, I made it clear to him that sleeping with him just messes with my mind and I do not want that. So, i dont sleep with him anymore. There is someone else who is interested in me and that just makes him jelouse big time. Once you stop sleeping with him, over about a month, you will surpass all those sexual hormones acting on ya. I dont even find my ex sexually attractive anymore, to think i slept with him and dated him- ewww. take out the sex, and you will see yourself in different lite hun- cheerio
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (11 December 2006):
 Hi,
Sorry to hear you are being treated like this. I will only say what you will know already, sleeping with him is NOT a good idea. You are not in your right mind at the moment, and this will torment you. This has happened to me,and I was also like you and carried on sleeping with the man. At the time all my friends were angry with me, and thought i was stupid. But I could not let go, the feelings were to deep. You need to sit him down and ask him to make a choice, does he still want this other girl or you.
Perhaps if he chose her, he could leave?. And then you could move on. I can only say, that i finished with my boyfriend at the time, even though it broke my heart. Eventually he came back, and we now live together. Who knows if it will last, we live each day.
But please dont let yourself be treated like this, if you respect yourself, everyone else will.
So stop crying, and try to be brave and sort your life out, you will feel much better for it.
Have a happy new year XX
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