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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Is it possible for 34 year old man be interested in 26 year old woman? I am separated with 3 children.
Q. Ok so I'm a 26 year old single mom of three young kids. I've been seperated from my husband for a year and a half, we need to save money for a divorce. Anyways i jus met a 34 year old man about 2 weeks ago but only been talking for a week. i me...
A. 15 April 2013: POT KETTLE BLACK OP!
you were in a bar with your ex that alone would be enough to put anyone off on wanting to get to know you better.
... (read in full...)
Anxiety attacks. How can I get my Dad to understand that anxiety is a real condition?
Q. I suffer from high anxiety, and have for a while now. It is mostly related to the stress of college and academics. I also occasionally get panic attacks. I have suffered in my grades because of this, but I am doing my best. It's a process, and I'm...
A. 12 April 2013: Ah so you are getting help! GOOD!
could your doctor/therapist have a session with dad to get him out of this old school mindset?... (read in full...)
Who hurts more in a break up?
Q. Who hurts more in the long run? The dumper or dumpee ...
A. 12 April 2013: I've always hurt in a breakup. the one who loves least sets the relationship and even when you dump someone it' hurts the one that hurt the most for me was being dumped by someone I loved more than anyone I have ever loved. ... (read in full...)
Not a player, but I'd like to be...
Q. I'm, 22, not a "player" or a guy who sleeps with loads of girls (in fact I've slept with 0) but I really want to be one, I don't feel like I am a man unless I have slept with a respectable amount of girls. Is this a good desire? I desperately want...
A. 12 April 2013: OMG Barney Stinsen is a total asshole ! NPH (the actor) on the other hand has probably never slept with a woman at all as he’s GAY and in a committed LTR with a partner. How’s that for ACTING. Do you really think that he’s all that… my husband’s ... (read in full...)
How to stop fighting with my Bf? Or how to discuss things more amicably? Some of the mean things he says are hard to forget.
Q. My boyfriend and I fight all the time where we bring out the worst in each other. Is this healthy? I love him and we have really good times but sometimes some of the things he says to me are really hard to forget i don't want to go through this s...
A. 12 April 2013: I don't believe in breaks... if you need a "break" that to me is the beginning of the end.
... (read in full...)
Is it possible for 34 year old man be interested in 26 year old woman? I am separated with 3 children.
Q. Ok so I'm a 26 year old single mom of three young kids. I've been seperated from my husband for a year and a half, we need to save money for a divorce. Anyways i jus met a 34 year old man about 2 weeks ago but only been talking for a week. i me...
A. 12 April 2013: OP sounds to me like you have it under control
You just had to get past the younger man older woman issue.
folks that are NOT older women do not get the societal pressure we as older women feel.... older men do not get it, as it's expected... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 12 April 2013: don't forget to add
4. INGORE the ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM TILL IT shits on my floor... then whine about it.
AGAIN FOR THE THIRD TIME OP I ask you....
do you trust him now 100% that he will NEVER look at porn again?
will you snoo... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want a relationship with me?
Q. I was dating a guy who I met on a dating site for two months. He actually stated that he wants a relationship and so do I. Our dates were really fun at first, we seemed pretty compatible. I've even met his friends and they all liked me but he was ...
A. 12 April 2013: Ok so he "stated he wanted a relationship" I assume that means a generic statement and not one specific to you.
unless he said specifically he wants a relationship with you, then he did nothing wrong.
He met you, he dated you, he discov... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 April 2013: Ok so you answered the easy question and avoided all the painful stuff.
I would NOT marry this man at this time unless you want to always be the least important thing on his plate. the fact that he was there so long, came home and magically sh... (read in full...)
How do I tell my 12 year old that the man she calls daddy isn't her real father?
Q. I'm married with 3 kids. The eldest is the result of a fling I had overseas. I came back and met up with my ex, who was never over me. We got together and then I told him I was pregnant and we got married. My daughter was only 5lb and I pretended ...
A. 12 April 2013: I would not call the sperm donor her "real father" he is her biological father. HER REAL FATHER is the man that has raised her and loved her from day one. Legally depending on the laws of your location he is the father. Here in the USA it's ... (read in full...)
Are the people around me just forgetful? Or am I too brash and lacking empathy with people? I have a habit of putting people down when I reply to them if I think they've told me something before..
Q. I was in trouble yesterday with my husband. He told me my behaviour was too much. We have gatherings of my club, that basically is for Italians. I’m not Italian but speak the language. One guy there asked at least 5 times if I'm Italian. I ...
A. 11 April 2013: I have ADHD I would have probably forgotten a conversation we had casually too and would have needed to be gently reminded.
... (read in full...)
Anxiety attacks. How can I get my Dad to understand that anxiety is a real condition?
Q. I suffer from high anxiety, and have for a while now. It is mostly related to the stress of college and academics. I also occasionally get panic attacks. I have suffered in my grades because of this, but I am doing my best. It's a process, and I'm...
A. 11 April 2013: what does your doctor say to you about this?
because unless you are in treatment with a professional for your anxiety (therapy and medication) then I'm with dad and Sageoldguy....
An adult would be working with a medical professional and a t... (read in full...)
I know my self esteem is low. But his list of "RULES" is so long. What should I do about his verbal abuse?
Q. Dear Cupid I know the post is long, please read it through and help me. I have been with this person for 3 years, I cook, clean after him, work and pay 3/4 of expenses at home, get him nice gifts for his birthdays and Christmas, never ask...
A. 11 April 2013: Ok you are not going to leave him. He knows this and so do I. I'm not even going to tell you to leave him because you KNOW that's what you need to do.
Since you WON'T leave him we have to set it up so he throws you out... and that my dear will... (read in full...)
Guys, how generous are you about spending money on your girlfriend? Do guys tend to spend more on a Gf than girls spend on a guy?
Q. How much money do you spend on your girlfriend generally? Girls, do you find that your boyfriend spends more money on you than you do on him? Excluding birthdays, christmas etc. It seems that traditionally the guys are meant to spend more mone...
A. 11 April 2013: If you go to university full time and you are paying for most things and he has a full time job and is not paying for most things... then there's a problem.
you say he's happy watching TV in bed every single night (me too) but are you guys liv... (read in full...)
Is it possible for 34 year old man be interested in 26 year old woman? I am separated with 3 children.
Q. Ok so I'm a 26 year old single mom of three young kids. I've been seperated from my husband for a year and a half, we need to save money for a divorce. Anyways i jus met a 34 year old man about 2 weeks ago but only been talking for a week. i me...
A. 11 April 2013: Yeah sure it's possible.
When my husband was 26 I was 39....
the issue is that just because he's OLDER does not mean he's mature. It does not mean he's not just looking for fun and games... do not make the assumption that he's int... (read in full...)
How to stop fighting with my Bf? Or how to discuss things more amicably? Some of the mean things he says are hard to forget.
Q. My boyfriend and I fight all the time where we bring out the worst in each other. Is this healthy? I love him and we have really good times but sometimes some of the things he says to me are really hard to forget i don't want to go through this s...
A. 11 April 2013: Wow… you are WORRIED about her GETTING MAD that you looked at her email when she’s CHEATING ON YOU?
No fighting all the time and bringing out the worst in each other is not healthy or a good relationship.
You say you love him but do you love ... (read in full...)
How do I confront my cheating Fiance without making her angry because I spyed into her emails?
Q. How do you let your fiance know that you know she is cheating without her getting mad because you have been looking at her email that she keeps leaving open, most recent email to her "friend" "I still want to meet with you. I want to try if you ar...
A. 11 April 2013: ummm how does what she wrote indicate she's cheating...
maybe she's meeting him to plan a surprise gift for you and that's why she needs a reason or an excuse?
I mean yeah it's PROBABLE that she's cheating but without PROOF, that one ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself having inappropriate thoughts in the form of sexual fantasies about guys who are co-workers?
Q. here deal i'm 25 never dated, slept with anyone. It part by choice and timing. I both studying, working kind lost interest in pub n night life after most of my mates got married and popping out new life into this world. I refuse to dsate/kiss/sl...
A. 11 April 2013: no i'm sorry having thoughts about people you know on your own time is not unprofessional... it's normal and natural.
I really am wondering if there is some sort of sexual repression or discomfort going on for you that causes you to said "it's ... (read in full...)
He calls me whore bitch slut. Blames me for his poor grades at college. Says he'll marry me if I change college to his. What should I do?
Q. hey My Bf is 18 and we are in serious about our relationship....... We have ups and downs. We love each other..... Still virgins Now the problem is 1) He asked me to join in his college. Then I joined in another college of my parents’ choice...
A. 11 April 2013: How in the world can a man who BLAMES YOU for HIS failures, calls you nasty names, and wants you to give up your life to please him be charming and caring?
He can’t.
You do not need him
Do not change colleges
Do not do as he asks
In fact... (read in full...)
Fiance gets it all in the bed but I am left wanting?
Q. Hello everyone, well I'm getting married in a month. My fiance has proved he's not cheating. Of course I still have trust issues. But that's not the problem today. My problem is he is a little selfish in bed. Whenever he wants sex or a BJ, he gets ...
A. 11 April 2013: SEX with him is wonderful? Really?! Tthen why are you complaining about it? Because it’s either WONDERFUL or NOT…. I will tell you that my sex life sucks. I miss oral sex. I will never have it again. And that sucks.
You have trust is... (read in full...)
GF is cheating and I don't see it?
Q. I have been dating my jealous, possessive, demanding and highly strung girlfriend for just over 2 years. I have constantly tried and failed to meet her demands and expectations. Her jealousy occasionally turns violent and emotional if she ever gets ...
A. 11 April 2013: I'm thinking it does not matter what is true and not true.
you know she's abusive to you
you know she's currently going on dating sites
you know she has an alcohol problem
you know she is jealous
you know she is demanding
you know she ... (read in full...)
Sexual Abuse at 12 and now addicted to masturbation, help
Q. am a boy aged 19 and single.when i was 12.my brother took me to his friend.he was a man.when we get there.the man sent my brother to market.while i was in the house waiting for my brother.the man came closer to me and he took my hand into his ...
A. 11 April 2013: I am sorry you were sexually assaulted at age 12. A critical time in your life. Have you kept this a secret all these years or have you ever talked about it?
you say you are 19 and you are "addicted" to masturbation.
does this mean ... (read in full...)
We agreed at the inception of the relationship, no contact with EX, I find out my GF is lying, but I still want her?
Q. Well i will start with the basics. I am in a long distance with my current girlfriend. We met online(was never intending to date online, but we met and just clicked..and here we are) We are both 23 years old. We have been together for around 6...
A. 11 April 2013: Dear Whatdoido,
I’m sorry to be Debbie downer here but the fact that you consider a woman you never met a committed girlfriend and are planning to have her move to be with you in the next two to three months without having even met yet gives me... (read in full...)
Our text life is not going well, nor is our LDR, help!
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for almost seven months now, and it seems like at the beginning of our relationship everything was good and we always talked and had a good time. Keeping in mind that this is a long distance relationship. Now she ...
A. 11 April 2013: I think that you can text her but do not get your hopes up.
I do not think she's as interested as you are.
if you go two weeks with no contact, then it's that' she's not that into you.
when my hubby and I were LDR and finally ser... (read in full...)
My BF will not pop the question and I want the whole nine yards!
Q. Is there a reason why a man doesn't marry his long term girlfriend/mother of his children? My boyfriend is 23 and I'm 23 in a few months. I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we have a toddler together. I got pregnant 9 months into the...
A. 11 April 2013: OP if he really wanted to marry you the ring would not matter.
do you want the wedding or the marriage?
personally I would say I don't need a ring, I don't need a wedding we can go to the courthouse and get married for 60 dollars for the l... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 11 April 2013: so what he is saying is
I didn't know you would catch me doing something I already said I would not do. Now that you have caught me I'll be way more careful about deleting my history and not getting caught.
so AGAIN OP I ask you in all ser... (read in full...)
Our text life is not going well, nor is our LDR, help!
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for almost seven months now, and it seems like at the beginning of our relationship everything was good and we always talked and had a good time. Keeping in mind that this is a long distance relationship. Now she ...
A. 11 April 2013: Drew,
I have no comforting words for you sadly.
you are young (16/17) and LDRs are hard when a person is 30something and has time and money. Teens have neither.
I think you need to let her know that your feel like you are the only one ma... (read in full...)
How to get my abusive husband to leave?
Q. Hi, everyone. I have been with my husband for 8 years,he is emotionally and financially abusive and I want him to leave my home but he won't. I want to get him out but I do not want to get police involved because I have children and it will affect ...
A. 11 April 2013: Sadly emotional abuse and financial abuse are difficult for the police to deal with... they deal with violence.
I understand the dilemma you face. It's your home so you can't leave. He lives there to so probably if Canada is like the USA you ... (read in full...)
Not sure if she's waiting for me to make the next move?
Q. Met this girl on a night out at the start of march. We talked, laughed and ended up kissing in the club. Exchanged numbers and text back and forth quite a bit for a few days before I asked her out for a date. The 1st date went great, we talked and ...
A. 11 April 2013: "Hey it's me" only works if they recognize the voice....
hope she can associate the voice and the number properly.... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 11 April 2013: OP you said in your most recent follow up: “he said he wouldn't do it again because he didn't realise how much it upset me,because to him it's not a big deal”
And yet in your original post you said “I've always said to him if he ever watched ... (read in full...)
Would a BJ make a difference if the BF has a low sex drive?
Q. Want to give my boyfriend spontaneous blow job, but lately his sex drive has been really low and i'm afraid if i attempt to give him a spontaneous blowjob he's going to shut me down or something...should i just take a chance and go for it? or no?...
A. 11 April 2013: how do you plan to do this?
in our house I just ask "do you want a blow job?" he says no.
but if he's in bed and I say "assume the position" I just might get to give him one.
the problem is he gets a blow job and I get.........the satisf... (read in full...)
Jealous BF has a weekend away with friends and it includes a woman that has a crush on him!
Q. I am quite jealous of another girl my boyfriend knows. I know this girl is a big flirt and I've seen her flirt with my boyfriend several times. About 3 people have told me that this girl has told them that she really likes my boyfriend. Problem f...
A. 11 April 2013: How do I deal with stupid girls flirting with my husband?
Easy, I laugh at them. My husband is so not looking for a new partner or a bit on the side that any attempts to flirt with him (including cleavage in his face) is met with the “dee... (read in full...)
Piles and Anal sex, is it painful?
Q. MY GF HAS PROBLEM OF PILES 6MONTH BEFORE BT IT STILL PAINS.. NOT REGULAR LIKE BEFORE BUT IN THE GAP OF 2-3 WEEKS FOR 1-2 DAY.. I WANT TO KHOW THAT CAN'T BE CURED FOR PERMANENT??? AND IF WE WANT TO DO ANNEL SEX IN FUTURE CAN WE OR NOW IT IS NOT PO...
A. 11 April 2013: Piles (hemorrhoids) are painful and sometimes even require surgery. I have had chronic hemorrhoids since my first pregnancy 29 years ago.
Are they internal or external hemorrhoids? Because even with internal ones I have managed to have ... (read in full...)
Is this what marriage is today?
Q. I know this couple. They have been married for 5 years and have a 4 year old daughter. The husband is a player and every now and then he's involved with many girls. He did this before marriage and after marriage as well but his wife married him and ...
A. 11 April 2013: Opinions of this marriage are that it’s working for them and those are the only two that it matters for.
I wonder why something so personal as two people's marriage is a concern for you.... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend lied about being a virgin
Q. Well my girlfriend had said that she had almost had sex with someone I know before we were dating but the way she had told the story made me feel as though she was lying she said she was a virgin (as was I) when we first had sex but she didn't reac...
A. 11 April 2013: ok so because she did not react the way you expected this makes her a liar?
what reaction are you told to expect when someone loses their virginity... I want to know if I reacted the way folks said I should have....
clearly you don't tru... (read in full...)
I like him, we've kissed, but it ever seems to go anywhere
Q. Ive known a guy for the last four years, we became quite close friends during school. Theres always been something between us, but he had a girlfriend for most of the time so it was always innocent flirting. Since he broke up with her a few months ...
A. 11 April 2013: just because he kisses you does not mean he likes you as more than a friend.
If you like him and want more than friends... TELL HIM.
if you say "I can't" well then... he's your friend and that's it and be happy for him finding a new gi... (read in full...)
Joke on our parents didn't go over too well
Q. Me and a friend of mine have done a very bad thing. Basically my mom and his mom work together and they have wanted us to get together, and we don't want to, which annoys us, but they keep going on about it. One time when he came over for homewor...
A. 11 April 2013: I'm with sageoldguy...
if your parents were blatant in their "spying" then they get what they deserve...
in addition if you kissed in front of the window and implied that you would be sexual then closed the blinds for 45 minutes and then ... (read in full...)
I want my Manager...
Q. I just started working at a new job and one of my managers is so attractive. I can't help finding myself fantasizing about being with him whenever I'm at work. I think he is attracted to me.. I'm 19 and he's in his late twenties but even despite ...
A. 11 April 2013: In most places, managers cannot (and should not) date subordinates.
I would not recommend dating the manager or any other co-worker... the break ups are so uncomfortable.
... (read in full...)
He wants a sexual relationship even though he's with the other girl
Q. Me and my child's dad hated each other or at least we argued a lotand couldn't get along.... now we talking like two friends,,laughing,,joking,,competing over funny but dumb stuff... he still has this girl he only knew for 6 months vs our 6yrs and I ...
A. 11 April 2013: Your friend is not thinking like an adult. I would not be sexual with him nor would I do family things with him. He’s your ex and as such you can be civil and friendly but not truly friends.
IF you are together as a couple then that’s o... (read in full...)
My brother is reacting badly to the divorce -- how can I help?
Q. I was hoping I could get some advice on helping my brother deal with divorce. He separated 2 weeks ago, but he is worrying our whole family. He seems like he has lost all hope and all his will power. We have been talking as much as we can and making ...
A. 11 April 2013: IF he is becoming a danger to himself, if he is suicidal (and chugging alcohol like that is suicidal as folks will DIE from too much alcohol in their system) then he needs to be in a safe place.
If you are truly worried for his safety then ... (read in full...)
I cheated- He still wanted us to stay together but he calls me names and says he'll never marry me!
Q. I had cheated on my boyfriend 2 years into our relationship with an ex who I thought I was over with but I wasn't.After cheating I realized that what I had done was wrong in which I had told my boyfriend about it the next day.He was upset but we ...
A. 11 April 2013: You will never be able to “prove yourself” to this guy.
A man who calls you “whore” “slut” or “bitch” is not a man who loves or respects you. Do you want to stay with a man who does not love or respect you?
I think you stay and accept t... (read in full...)
After getting back with the Ex-GF you always had feelings for...
Q. I am getting back with my ex-girlfriend after 2 years of her dating some jerk. It really bothers me, that she broke up with me..and then went out with him. She didn't break up with me because of him, I"m sure of this. Should I bring it up...
A. 11 April 2013: You are very brave to get back with an ex after a 2 year hiatus. Why did she break up with you in the first place?
Why does it bother you that after she broke up with you she moved on with her life? If you loved her you would be happy fo... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 11 April 2013: The daughter got suspended because he left... or so momma says. personally I find that to be a bit convenient and also a lousy excuse to get him back there.
I do not think he needed to return. that just feeds the whole dysfunctional relation... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 10 April 2013: yes but you said you could not ask him not to look, you told him if he looks you would leave... he looked your not leaving
what do you think will happen the NEXT time you find out he's looked at porn?... (read in full...)
Males: why is porn so important and appealing?
Q. hello,I'm having a huge problem with jealousy and need some help. well,I say jealousy but I don't actually know how to put it. I trust my boyfriend 100% when he goes out that he will not be unfaithful to me. my problem is that when he is on the I...
A. 10 April 2013: Is it normal for me to react like this. Yes it’s normal for YOU. It’s not normal for me.
Everyone has their own levels of comfort. IF your level is “if you watch porn then I’m out of here” then that’s what you must do.
The problem is y... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 16 March 2013: Ya know if he had a flight and she refused to drive him, he could have called a cab or car service. he probably still can do that and go to the airport and they probably will help him get a flight with the unused ticket. I've missed flights ... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 14 March 2013: I can see him wanting to spend time with his child and get to know her and make up for lost time
but I still am not comfortable with him going for a month and staying with her and her mother in their home...
staying with friends and seeing h... (read in full...)
Should I welcome him back with open arms...?
Q. Hi I'm back so my man of 5 yrs went to meet his daughter she is 14 they are meeting for the first time he left on 2/12/13 and has been there since. He calls everyday or text to let me know what's going on. My problem is his "baby mama" she wants a ...
A. 12 March 2013: People can live without sex
IF she is trying to get with him, then it's on him to put her in her place.
If he had sex with her, then he was wrong and you have to make a choice
Personally I cannot understand why he's stayed a month with her.... (read in full...)
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